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Happykinkysub -> How many women out there like their sub in panties? or other "sissy stuff" (12/4/2010 9:11:00 PM)
Are there women out there who care to comment on the subject of owning a sissy? Sissification is becoming more popular and I was wondering what you all thought about it. Want to put your husband/boyfriend in panties? take your strap on? clean the house in a maids dress? shave his legs? etc..

DarkSteven -> RE: How many women out there like their sub in panties? or other "sissy stuff" (12/4/2010 9:14:20 PM)
Sissification is not becoming more popular among Dommes, last I checked. But enjoy yourself anyway. Especially if you're into humiliation...

UmbraDomina -> RE: How many women out there like their sub in panties? or other "sissy stuff" (12/4/2010 9:26:18 PM)
none of the above for me..... if I want a woman in my life, I will have a woman in my life, but when I have a man in my life I enjoy him being a man.

LadyPact -> RE: How many women out there like their sub in panties? or other "sissy stuff" (12/4/2010 10:18:32 PM)
Where are you getting your information that sissification is becoming more popular? I haven't found that to be the case at all. Just from reading around here, it's very easy to see how many folks are unable to find others to explore that particular kink with because there are a number of Dominant women who have no interest in it. Also, how are you determining that strap on play is linked to sissification in any way? One doesn't necessarily have anything to do with the other.

MissAsylum -> RE: How many women out there like their sub in panties? or other "sissy stuff" (12/4/2010 10:48:34 PM)
why is this striking me as a poke and prod for masturbation fodder?

DarkSteven -> RE: How many women out there like their sub in panties? or other "sissy stuff" (12/5/2010 4:53:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissAsylum why is this striking me as a poke and prod for masturbation fodder? My word! MissAsylum! You're getting cynical!!! Note that I did not say "unjustifiably cynical".

sunshinemiss -> RE: How many women out there like their sub in panties? or other "sissy stuff" (12/5/2010 6:38:23 AM)
Why does it matter how many? Don't you really care if just the one in front of you does?

MasterFireMaam -> RE: How many women out there like their sub in panties? or other "sissy stuff" (12/5/2010 7:28:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Happykinkysub Want to put your husband/boyfriend in panties? No. quote: take your strap on? No. quote: clean the house in a maids dress? No. quote: shave his legs? No. quote: etc.. Not everyone has the sissification fetish and so sweeping generalizations about them are rarely true. Master Fire

LadyConstanze -> RE: How many women out there like their sub in panties? or other "sissy stuff" (12/5/2010 7:44:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Happykinkysub Are there women out there who care to comment on the subject of owning a sissy? Sissification is becoming more popular and I was wondering what you all thought about it. Want to put your husband/boyfriend in panties? take your strap on? clean the house in a maids dress? shave his legs? etc.. Chances are that you find more people into that particular fetish at those forums http://www.sissykiss.com/forum.php http://www.sissyonline.com/

Happykinkysub -> RE: How many women out there like their sub in panties? or other "sissy stuff" (12/5/2010 7:54:56 AM)
Trying to address everyone that responded on this: Masturbation fodder? please, thats just insulting. And sissification is becoming more popular, I say this because there are more movies on the subject coming out (more so than in the past). There are a ton more websites on the subject. And if you knew anything about sissification you would know that strap-on play/anal submission, as well as chastity, are pretty much a requirement for anyone who thinks they are serious about this lifestyle. check out femmedommesociety.com if you want to learn something about the topic. I was only trying to gauge if people on THIS site were interested. Sorry I asked.

LadyConstanze -> RE: How many women out there like their sub in panties? or other "sissy stuff" (12/5/2010 8:09:29 AM)
You asked who is into it and people said they aren't into those particular activities you listed, then you throw a tantrum... Also how nice of you to decide what works for ALL sissies... quote: And if you knew anything about sissification you would know that strap-on play/anal submission, as well as chastity, are pretty much a requirement for anyone who thinks they are serious about this lifestyle. Funny, I played with some guys who liked sissification, they will be pleased to know that they know nothing about what they actually do because they don't fulfill the requirements you listed, oh dear, they aren't wearing female clothes, they must imagine it because they don't live in chastity or don't care for strap-ons... And your knowledge comes from watching BDSM porn? Of course that makes you an expert.

Happykinkysub -> RE: How many women out there like their sub in panties? or other "sissy stuff" (12/5/2010 8:18:22 AM)
You misunderstood me! I seem to have offended you, sorry for that. I actually liked your post. I am not thowing a tantrum, but I do see how my message could be seen that way. I have a lot of experience/knowledge about sissification, not just porn, but many books (written by dommes) as well as going to fetish parties specifically for those who enjoy this lifestyle. If you don't like panties, chastity, or strap-ons then you are not a sissy and good luck seeing a domme who is into such things, you would be sent packing very quickly! I'm going to delete this post soon as I figure out how! Thanks for the posts people

DarkSteven -> RE: How many women out there like their sub in panties? or other "sissy stuff" (12/5/2010 8:19:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Happykinkysub And sissification is becoming more popular, I say this because there are more movies on the subject coming out (more so than in the past). There are a ton more websites on the subject. The only crossdressing moves I know of are Charlie's Aunt, Some Like It Hot, Tootsie, Mrs. Doubtfire, and some Laurel and Hardy shorts. Dunno if you would count those as feminization. None of them recent. I dunno about your websites, but you're replacing one unbacked statement about "more interest' with another "more movies and websites". quote: And if you knew anything about sissification you would know that strap-on play/anal submission, as well as chastity, are pretty much a requirement for anyone who thinks they are serious about this lifestyle. The Dommes here will be pleased to know that you have established firm criteria for them to be considered serious. quote: check out femmedommesociety.com if you want to learn something about the topic. I was only trying to gauge if people on THIS site were interested. Sorry I asked. You actually asked them about their EXPERIENCES, not their INTEREST. Had you asked them whether they were interested, you would have not created such an impression of being a wanker.

LadyConstanze -> RE: How many women out there like their sub in panties? or other "sissy stuff" (12/5/2010 8:29:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Happykinkysub You misunderstood me! I seem to have offended you, sorry for that. I actually liked your post. I am not thowing a tantrum, but I do see how my message could be seen that way. I have a lot of experience/knowledge about sissification, not just porn, but many books (written by dommes) as well as going to fetish parties specifically for those who enjoy this lifestyle. If you don't like panties, chastity, or strap-ons then you are not a sissy and good luck seeing a domme who is into such things, you would be sent packing very quickly! I'm going to delete this post soon as I figure out how! Thanks for the posts people To be honest, I never sent anybody packing because he might have had a hard limit like strap-on or chastity, why would I? There is so much more to pick from. Why pidgeon hole everybody? I know a hell lot of guys who are into being dressed up and being turned into a sissy maid, but for them a strapon is a hard limit, I have yet to hear one of them telling me that a domme sent them packing because of that, they might be incompatible with some dommes, others accept hard limits. For a lot of dommes a strapon is a hard limit, so does that mean if they play with a sissy that they aren't sissifying him properly? As for books written by dommes, you are aware that a lot of the books are actually written by submissive guys who are trying to convince women to do the things they like... There have been lots of doubts about Elise Sutton's gender...

LadyPact -> RE: How many women out there like their sub in panties? or other "sissy stuff" (12/5/2010 8:53:45 AM)
In our case, it's the other way around. If for some reason My boy wanted to be sissified, that's when I'd be sending him packing. If he had that kink when we first met, he would have never been collared to Me in the first place. You are correct about one thing. There are a number of pros that take clients for sissification. They make darn good money at it, too, because a number of their clients are unable to find lifestyle Dommes that will engage in that particular kink. That's the supply and demand of the matter. The higher number of males wanting to participate in it not being able to find women who want to engage in it creates the market. If more lifestyle Dommes were wanting males who had the particular kink, there would be fewer clients paying the pros. I'd much sooner take on someone who had a strap on as a hard limit than one who wanted to be sissified or feminized in some way. However, please feel free to continue hurling insults at those of us who have also been living this way for years.

DarkSteven -> RE: How many women out there like their sub in panties? or other "sissy stuff" (12/5/2010 9:02:09 AM)
My, my. All those years in the lifestyle and you haven't yet learned common courtesy nor how to earn respect. Fella, you're stooping to namecalling instead of actually substantiating your claimed increase in movies and increase in websites. Bragging is cheap, and you're adding to your previous unfounded statements with ones about your vast experience. Please note that there are some on this site with decades of experience (I only have a few years of experience, and none of it in the edgier stuff), and they show respect until they have a reason to do otherwise. You're walking in here and we don't know you from Adam, and can judge you only by your posts.

ReginaMirus -> RE: How many women out there like their sub in panties? or other "sissy stuff" (12/5/2010 9:04:22 AM)
Hard up for new clientele, eh? Femmedommesociety, yeah. Site is a total SHAM. Even the previous "leadership" has left the building on that one. It purports to be female run and female led, yet it's run by a submissive male who masquerades under two or three different aliases (one of them being a female Domme who purports to be one of the main members of the high court). He also has a dubious record and is currently being investigated for alleged scams against other non-lifestyle oriented sites. The site makes money hand over fist from unsuspecting male subs who have absolutely NO clue that they are lining the pockets of another submissive male and making him filthy rich on their dime. It's a glitzy, cheesy looking site, and mainly used by prodommes as cheap advertising. The contests have been proven to be rigged, and the prizes are almost never awarded. So, please. Spare us the thinly veiled attempt to generate more traffic. That site is the worst of the worst and completely pathetic. I wouldn't recommend it to my worst enemy.

Lockit -> RE: How many women out there like their sub in panties? or other "sissy stuff" (12/5/2010 9:39:06 AM)
I just went to that address, to complete what I wanted to say in regards to it. Boy am I sorry I did. I typed in the address and got two windows that popped up and got past my programs that are supposed to stop it. One with a huge cupcake that filled my 34 inch monitor wanting my zip code for some type of advertisement. Then the other was saying the domain was for sale and listed many other links to many other sites. I guess I will have to run a few scans now. lol First off, whoever used to run that site are not the experts on all things, nor are people who write books catering to a kink, lifestyle or anything else. That would be a matter of opinion. To disregard others that have an opinion on it is to disregard part of the facts, because one persons opinion on it is as much fact as those writing books, catering to kinksters and presenting as experts online. To go to where kinksters gather and say that they don't know anything about a topic and say that these others do might make one question why the OP was coming to where the clueless play to announce who does it best. Why not go to them and ask? Oh... in part, maybe because they aren't there anymore! Why would experts disappear? If this is so popular and it is, not that I am commenting on it being more popular these days... and there is a lot of money to be made by these experts, why would the domain be up for sale and be gone now? You would think another expert would be chomping at the bit to make sure this expert site remained and all that money could be their own. For anyone to say that strap on play/anal submission as well as chastity is pretty much a requirement for anyone who thinks they are serious about this lifestyle... is speaking for a lot of people they cannot speak for. That may be included in some kink/fetish that some who play in this area, but doesn't speak for everyone that enjoys it. To use it as a format in which to insult another person... well, looks as foolish as the statement. The reason you wish to find out if anyone on THIS site is interested is because you have lost your feeding ground and need a new place to hang. All good... welcome... but take it down a notch or two because we have lifestyles, opinions, experience and such that merit consideration just as your opinion does. The bottom line is many will cater to a fetish/desire/person and some or many do it for money. Yet, there are those that are dominant that will not cater to these things because they are not in the service industry and aren't here to service a submissive of any type. We have respected regulars around here that do get into the topic area that you are wishing to discuss or ask about... but I have a feeling that even they would have a problem with your comments and posting style.

LadyNTrainer -> RE: How many women out there like their sub in panties? or other "sissy stuff" (12/5/2010 12:14:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Happykinkysub Are there women out there who care to comment on the subject of owning a sissy? Sissification is becoming more popular and I was wondering what you all thought about it. Want to put your husband/boyfriend in panties? take your strap on? clean the house in a maids dress? shave his legs? etc.. Genderbending can be fun and hot, but I have a huge problem with the assumption that men can only be submissive if they're pretending to be women or wearing women's clothes. The underlying message here is that real men are dominant and women are submissive, so you make a man submissive by making him more like a woman. Oh hell no, that's all fucked up, misogynistic and the very antithesis of female dominance. You'd pretty much have to go to the Gorean side to get any more the opposite of femdom. I am a dominant woman. I like to own, beat, rape, use, assfuck and dominate men. I don't subscribe to the idea that men can't be submissive unless they're made more like women, because I think it is seriously fucking insulting to women and that it negates and denies the very existence of female dominance and male submission.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: How many women out there like their sub in panties? or other "sissy stuff" (12/5/2010 12:24:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Happykinkysub Trying to address everyone that responded on this: Masturbation fodder? please, thats just insulting. And sissification is becoming more popular, I say this because there are more movies on the subject coming out (more so than in the past). There are a ton more websites on the subject. And if you knew anything about sissification you would know that strap-on play/anal submission, as well as chastity, are pretty much a requirement for anyone who thinks they are serious about this lifestyle. check out femmedommesociety.com if you want to learn something about the topic. I was only trying to gauge if people on THIS site were interested. Sorry I asked. You have GOT to be fucking kidding. I know the others already gave you the hairy eyeball, but really? In order to be serious about the lifestyle we have to be knowledgable about the up and coming trends in kinky PORNOGRAPHY? When I was a pro dominant, I made serious money playing dress up with the boys. As long as they liked dressing up for the hotness factor, and the love of the clothes---the SECOND they mentioned the word "humiliaition" they were OUT. Humiliating to be female? Think not. Personally, I have no desire for a femme male. I have friends in the scene that dress, and fabulously, and they are great folks, I just don't want one in my own bed. (shopping buddies, absolutely!)

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