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Jaybeee -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/7/2010 9:52:21 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Icarys

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With your icon, shouldn't that be, 'Ju-Jitsu'?


Confucius say: What you do not know, will not harm you.


Translation: You my friend will have a pain free life.[:D]

To all: Just joking as usual...Don't work your genitals into a froth.



Why not?

Woody say: "Don't knock masturbation. It's sex with someone I love."




Icarys -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/7/2010 10:09:16 AM)

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Why not?

Woody say: "Don't knock masturbation. It's sex with someone I love."

Lol




hausboy -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/7/2010 2:31:07 PM)



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ORIGINAL: Jaybeee


Oh I think you know, but I'll spell it out nonetheless. I want to hit women. ANY woman, regardless of whether she likes it or not.
But the primary drive for all of this is to begin the long journey of shaking off the conditioning, asserting my authority, and unlocking my inner caveman. Not to satisfy my girlfriend's desire to be physically dominated.

The guys here will know what I'm talking about.

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ABSOLUTELY. I'm feeling it right now.  I have this overwhelming urge to punch you in the face, over and over again, regardless of whether you want me to stop.

The guys on this website know exactly what you're talking about: you're talking about violence against women.  Not BDSM.

I know you will eventually end up in jail--your type usually does because you're too arrogant to believe someone will ever stand up to you--I fear and feel for the women that you will hurt before one of them is courageous enough to press charges and throw your pathetic, worthless excuse for a shell of a human in jail where you belong. 

There is nothing more offensive to me than a man who commit acts of violence against women and then hides behind the BDSM banner.





Aileen1968 -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/7/2010 2:53:28 PM)

Ignoring the mental shortcomings of the OP....

Face slapping is by far, my most favorite thing to have done to me.
We were never the type of couple to plan out things and we certainly don't take things slowly.
That would be incredibly unappealing to both of us.
There is nothing like being caught off guard and just catching the swing of his arm from the corner of my eye with just enough time for it to register in my brain before I feel the sting of the slap.
It makes me instantly aroused and puts me instantly in a mental fog.

I'm well aware of the risks. They are well worth it to me.

Fuck the starting off softly concept...




LadyPact -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/7/2010 3:11:19 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

Ignoring the mental shortcomings of the OP....

There is that small matter.  Not saying that I disagree with the thought.
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Fuck the starting off softly concept...

I completely get that you say this due to your personal hotness factor of the topic.  A very good way to get the person to that wonderful 'puddle of goo' state, and I'm with you on that.

Let Me rephrase that.  I'm with you on it today.  I wouldn't have said the same thing a few years back.  I had to get to that place as a top.  Going past what had been ingrained in Me about what I had been taught about how "wrong" of a practice face slapping can be seen.  That actually had a factor for Me that, if I hadn't worked My way through it, I don't think I would have gotten to the same place.  I don't think I could have taken a short cut through the process and come to the same result.

I don't happen to think this is something that is from the top side only.  Even now, if I'm going to engage in face slapping with someone new, I still start of the softer side and work My way up.  You never know when you're going to find a trigger that someone may not have an idea that is even going to happen.  There can be a lot of emotional baggage that is brought to the surface when dealing with face slapping.




crazyml -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/7/2010 3:37:37 PM)

<Ah! Normal service resumed>

In my, albeit very limited, experience it often doesn't need to be a hard slap - in some partners just the hint of a slap produced a pretty intense reaction.

So I'm very much with the start gradually school of thought. I, and I stress that my exp is limited (and that face slapping isn't one of my personal 'thangs' ), have never had to slap someone hard - when I've done it the main factor has been surprise...




LadyConstanze -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/7/2010 3:55:17 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

Ignoring the mental shortcomings of the OP....

There is that small matter.  Not saying that I disagree with the thought.
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Fuck the starting off softly concept...

I completely get that you say this due to your personal hotness factor of the topic.  A very good way to get the person to that wonderful 'puddle of goo' state, and I'm with you on that.

Let Me rephrase that.  I'm with you on it today.  I wouldn't have said the same thing a few years back.  I had to get to that place as a top.  Going past what had been ingrained in Me about what I had been taught about how "wrong" of a practice face slapping can be seen.  That actually had a factor for Me that, if I hadn't worked My way through it, I don't think I would have gotten to the same place.  I don't think I could have taken a short cut through the process and come to the same result.

I don't happen to think this is something that is from the top side only.  Even now, if I'm going to engage in face slapping with someone new, I still start of the softer side and work My way up.  You never know when you're going to find a trigger that someone may not have an idea that is even going to happen.  There can be a lot of emotional baggage that is brought to the surface when dealing with face slapping.




I absolutely agree, it's something I enjoy now (and I enjoy only if I know the play partner also does, in a lot of cases it can trigger negative emotions) and despite the enjoyment I want the safety factor, what good is it if my play partner can't play for ages due to whiplash? I don't want to harm or damage my play partner/toy, I want to play with him/her again and again. I can happily scene without face slapping but after learning what the (positive) reaction can be, I gladly incorporate it, it doesn't mean I want to walk around and slap the world at random, it's a very intimate experience and as such I cherish it when everything is right.... I guess I am not a twue dominant, oh bummer, I wish I could give a flying f....




Icarys -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/7/2010 9:54:28 PM)

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Ah! Normal service resumed


No such luck.[8|]
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It's not something I spend a lot of time thinking and dissecting as to why I love it so much. I dig it...The females I've been with dug it...The ones that didn't weren't with me for long and it's as it should have been. I find it hot as hell.

I've never asked if it was okay...I'm that way with a lot of things. It pops into my mind..I may or may not think on it (to death) and then I do it. Usually I do analyze things a lot but some things are better if not thought to death.




Twoshoes -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/7/2010 10:22:27 PM)

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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

FR

It's noticeable how the OP responds only to the man who's replied to him (ignoring all the women), and that he has not bothered to address the ethical concerns in anybody's post.


He has previously stated he won't argue with women as a general rule. He's also ignored me some.

Also, he doesn't seem like an individual with a very good understanding of ethics. Does not compute.




Zevar -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/7/2010 11:02:39 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Jaybeee

Oh I think you know, but I'll spell it out nonetheless. I want to hit women. ANY woman, regardless of whether she likes it or not.
But the primary drive for all of this is to begin the long journey of shaking off the conditioning, asserting my authority, and unlocking my inner caveman. Not to satisfy my girlfriend's desire to be physically dominated.

This is something I've been mulling for a few years. A few months ago I got into a discussion with some girl at a club. I was being deliberately obnoxious about whatever topic she was talking about (she was a royal bitch for her part, so I knew she'd make a good candidate for the experiment) and waited until she boiled up to the point where she would slap my face, and I'd slap back.

Then, something in me just snapped. I don't remember what she said to set me off, but my hand flew up, and span her face to one side. The feel of her soft flesh, if only for a fleeting second, was electric. The sound of the slap was like the satisfaction you get when you hear shattering glass. The guys here will know what I'm talking about.

I felt alive...really alive.


Greetings Jaybeee:

Slapping a woman as you describe is not a behavior that I find erotic or an act that creates consequences which I find otherwise pleasurable. Testosterone has nothing to do with acting out violence on women. Gender is not the determining factor for those who choose to act out violence. I cannot imagine you would not object to the same behavior that you exalt if it were acted out on your person.

The line of thought which presents that all of the men here know what you are talking about is full of loopholes. What I do know is when the majority of men who choose to act out brutal violence on women it is usually an indicator of unresolved psychological issues, professionally speaking. Let me be crystal clear with you, in no uncertain terms do I as a man condone the sort of conduct you descrbe. I have NO desire to expereince in my entire duration of my natural life lived here on Earth this sort of brutality acted on a woman.

Seriously speaking, there are much better ways to effect the adrenaline rush you are no doubt seeking when you brutally wail on the face of a woman. Ever tried self control? When you choose to fully control your self and refuse to act out anything that would reflect brutal violence on women, there is an internal effect that surpasses anything you describe when slapping the daylights out of a woman.

If you are wondering, there is a vast difference between consensual and non-consensual exchanges. One denotes out of control behavior while the other denotes mutuality that produces an exchange that can only be fully understood by way of consensually experiencing, one to another.

Take care!




Jaybeee -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/8/2010 3:13:59 AM)


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ORIGINAL: hausboy



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ORIGINAL: Jaybeee


Oh I think you know, but I'll spell it out nonetheless. I want to hit women. ANY woman, regardless of whether she likes it or not.
But the primary drive for all of this is to begin the long journey of shaking off the conditioning, asserting my authority, and unlocking my inner caveman. Not to satisfy my girlfriend's desire to be physically dominated.

The guys here will know what I'm talking about.

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ABSOLUTELY. I'm feeling it right now.  I have this overwhelming urge to punch you in the face, over and over again, regardless of whether you want me to stop.



Tsk tsk. Anger problem there I think. Have you considered Therapy for those impulses? They'd welcome you warmly in the armed forces, that kind of mindset is just what they're looking for.

[:D]




hausboy -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/8/2010 2:07:52 PM)

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ORIGINAL: hausboy



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ORIGINAL: Jaybeee


Oh I think you know, but I'll spell it out nonetheless. I want to hit women. ANY woman, regardless of whether she likes it or not.
But the primary drive for all of this is to begin the long journey of shaking off the conditioning, asserting my authority, and unlocking my inner caveman. Not to satisfy my girlfriend's desire to be physically dominated.

The guys here will know what I'm talking about.

.


ABSOLUTELY. I'm feeling it right now.  I have this overwhelming urge to punch you in the face, over and over again, regardless of whether you want me to stop.


Jaybeee wrote:
Tsk tsk. Anger problem there I think. Have you considered Therapy for those impulses? They'd welcome you warmly in the armed forces, that kind of mindset is just what they're looking for.

[:D]

My response:
I have never, and will never, raise my hand against a woman. I do not act on impulses.  You just described your enjoyment in committing acts of violence against women because you can't control yourself.  So either you fabricated the entire story because you're just another internet troll looking for attention.....which is pathetic....or it's a truthful story and you're a moron who punches women for sport.  So which are you...troll....or moron? (or both)

PS Serving in the United States Armed Forces would be an honor.  I work side by side with my military partners and serve my country performing medical missions for disasters.  We help people.  Even the stupid ones.  




JstAnotherSub -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/8/2010 3:42:55 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

My Kung Fu is better than your Kung Fu!


My Glock is better than your Kung fu!

;o)

(It is also better and badder than the OP's slap)




Icarys -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/8/2010 7:03:28 PM)

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ORIGINAL: JstAnotherSub

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

My Kung Fu is better than your Kung Fu!


My Glock is better than your Kung fu!

;o)

(It is also better and badder than the OP's slap)

The ole' Out Do Me sub I see..

My Nuclear Warhead beats your Glock + Infinity. End of Days Power Play 1000 year "You'll be long dead then" Cap.




Aynne88 -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/8/2010 8:17:41 PM)


Well Icarys, the OP is the type of "man" that convinced me years ago to get a conceal carry permit, and since then, my arsenal having grown annually, trust me, if some little prick slapped me like he described.....he better pray there is a fucking cop around. No joke.






willbeurdaddy -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/8/2010 8:33:46 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Jaybeee

This is a pretty vanilla question from me, but I'm still not entirely comfy with slapping my slave's face. I'll be open about it, we've only just established the dynamic and I'm considering breaking myself in, as it were, with "controlled slaps".

In order to overcome my conditioning never to hit a woman, I've proposed that I start off with a 5 minute session every few days where I slap her face very, very softly, as if I were patting her cheek, then progressively get a little harder during and between sessions.

Anyone done this? Experienced comment welcome.


Dont worry, pretty soon she'll piss you off enough over something that you'll be totally comfortable slapping her!





DesFIP -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/9/2010 6:13:10 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Aynne88

Well Icarys, the OP is the type of "man" that convinced me years ago to get a conceal carry permit, and since then, my arsenal having grown annually, trust me, if some little prick slapped me like he described.....he better pray there is a fucking cop around. No joke.



I've always had very sweet dogs who nevertheless would savage anyone or anything threatening me.  Even the horse has gotten aggressive when my daughter's been threatened, and he's safe to put a 4 year old on.




Icarys -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/9/2010 6:44:22 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Aynne88


Well Icarys, the OP is the type of "man" that convinced me years ago to get a conceal carry permit, and since then, my arsenal having grown annually, trust me, if some little prick slapped me like he described.....he better pray there is a fucking cop around. No joke.




Weapons in the given OP scenario seem a little out of place..A defensive kick to the jewels maybe..a slap back...a quick call to the bouncers and the police..surely..but pulling out the AK-47 is a bit much.

This guy will get what he gets when he gets it...it's the nature of living.

A gun isn't a sure bet either. Most people aren't willing to use one to it's finality...it winds up being a warning.

I certainly don't agree with the OP but if someone threatened me with a gun..They had better be fast enough to pull it and use it before I got to them. I don't think I'm alone in that way of thinking.

Of course I wouldn't be in the situation the OP spoke about.




Jaybeee -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/9/2010 6:54:51 AM)

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ORIGINAL: hausboy

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ORIGINAL: hausboy



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ORIGINAL: Jaybeee


Oh I think you know, but I'll spell it out nonetheless. I want to hit women. ANY woman, regardless of whether she likes it or not.
But the primary drive for all of this is to begin the long journey of shaking off the conditioning, asserting my authority, and unlocking my inner caveman. Not to satisfy my girlfriend's desire to be physically dominated.

The guys here will know what I'm talking about.

.


ABSOLUTELY. I'm feeling it right now.  I have this overwhelming urge to punch you in the face, over and over again, regardless of whether you want me to stop.


Jaybeee wrote:
Tsk tsk. Anger problem there I think. Have you considered Therapy for those impulses? They'd welcome you warmly in the armed forces, that kind of mindset is just what they're looking for.

My response:
I have never, and will never, raise my hand against a woman.    


Why not?




RapierFugue -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/9/2010 7:01:03 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Icarys
Of course I wouldn't be in the situation the OP spoke about.

To be fair, neither was he [;)]




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