RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity??

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AtlantisKing111 -> RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? (5/20/2006 9:14:19 PM)
Well, I am mostly attracted to women of different ethnicities than my own. Therefore most of the women I contact and play with are either Black (like my current slave) or Asian or East Indian or Hispanic. I've played with White subs/slaves before, but I don't have a desire to place my collar on a white sub/slave unless I have at least one non-White one as well. My first desire is for a non-White sub/slave. AtlantisKing

brightspot -> RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? (5/20/2006 9:32:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IronBear Here's a question for you all to play with....... How important is a potential sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity to you deciding to lock a collar about her throat? C'm on folks, females, fellas and bald iggles fess up.. Just how much does this affect you choices.....Just immaging y'all have a football field packed with suitable collering material...... As for a potential Domina, race does not play a significant role for me, however I am highly attracted to Italian women[8D]. *Brightspot

RiotGirl -> RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? (5/21/2006 12:30:11 AM)
quote: How important is a potential sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity to you deciding to lock a collar about her throat? can subs/slaves respond? Hate to say it - but its important. Black men scare the daylights out of this one. heh. Dunno why.. they just do.. so a relationship is out of the question. Oriental men.. one doesnt find attractive and thinks it would be plain wierd to date one. Pakistanian and Middle easterns.. er.. well totally unappealing.. too much time in hong kong, with them swarming around one and her friends.. <sigh> one remembers making her way through a crowd of 20 or so Paki's to rescue two friends who were backed up onto a lorry truck. it had to grab onto them and pull them out. Hmm filiphino's.. eh.. knew too many of the women in Hong kong.. wasnt impressed.. plus they're generally short and it isnt attracted to short men. Mixes are nice. Generally very attractive ppl for the most part. Generally the race or whatever isnt important.. its whether she's attracted to them. if she ran across an asian man she found attractive.. the fact that he's asian wouldnt matter a wit.. and so on. Granted, unfortunetly no matter if she's attracted to a black man or not.. she could never. They scare the crap out of her... never figured it out.. they just do. Course she doubts it would ever be possible with a middle eastern man either.. one watched "not with out my daughter" when she was a kid. Made a major impact! Ug - raised in San Fran.. we love everyone. Who cares.. its attraction that matters

Lordandmaster -> RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? (5/21/2006 12:50:21 AM)
What were you doing in Hong Kong? quote: ORIGINAL: RiotGirl Oriental men.. one doesnt find attractive and thinks it would be plain wierd to date one. Pakistanian and Middle easterns.. er.. well totally unappealing.. too much time in hong kong, with them swarming around one and her friends.. <sigh> one remembers making her way through a crowd of 20 or so Paki's to rescue two friends who were backed up onto a lorry truck. it had to grab onto them and pull them out. Hmm filiphino's.. eh.. knew too many of the women in Hong kong..

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? (5/21/2006 1:00:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RiotGirl Black men scare the daylights out of this one. heh. Dunno why.. they just do.. so a relationship is out of the question. Damn RiotGirl, I wish I hadn't read this from you today or ever. M

shivvy -> RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? (5/21/2006 2:19:55 AM)
a Master's Race, Colour, Creed, Religion, Age, Size, Weight... none of that really makes a difference to me. it's who they are that is most important. i think the only thing that makes me think twice about somebody, is personal hygiene.[sm=banana.gif]

Reflectivesoul -> RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? (5/21/2006 2:20:47 AM)
Riot, The only things that came to mind reading that were.... wow a serious shock to the system, and while atleast you are honest I think you should take some time to figure this dislike of all black men out. I agree with this : quote: ORIGINAL: RiotGirl Black men scare the daylights out of this one. heh. Dunno why.. they just do.. so a relationship is out of the question. Damn RiotGirl, I wish I hadn't read this from you today or ever. M That was just rough.... ouch.....

mastersayed -> RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? (5/21/2006 2:26:53 AM)
well race wont really play a big role in my decision because natural submissive qualities are a prioroty but I guess I wouldnt mind a Japanese slave next to my Turkish/Native Amereican/ Scott/Irish slave that I already own. (she's a mutt but you gotta love her)

ScooterTrash -> RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? (5/21/2006 3:38:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IronBear Here's a question for you all to play with....... How important is a potential sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity to you deciding to lock a collar about her throat? C'm on folks, females, fellas and bald iggles fess up.. Just how much does this affect you choices.....Just immaging y'all have a football field packed with suitable collering material...... Honestly Bear, I don't think it matters on any of the above to me. In my experience, although you can have some distinct "wants" when looking for a partner, I don't know that we really know what we are looking for until it finds us (like those proverbial ships crashing in the night). I would caution many people who do seem to seek out someone for their differences however, to not do it for the "novelty" of it, but just do it to be open minded. I think looking for someone specifically because it sounds exciting (their differences), may not be a great foundation to start with. I might add however, that even though you may not "aim" toward something specific, it always seems that it all comes around to that in the end. Similarities do tend to migrate toward each other, or so it seems.

xxmstrchasxx -> RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? (5/21/2006 5:54:23 AM)
Race really doesn't mean anything to me. I have found really good friends in about every race. My daughter has two children that are mixed, black and white and they are great kids. The only thing I really feel bad about is some people are racists and they see that when they go out to eat or some other place. My one grandson is in the gifted class and will be graduating this year and he just turned 16 and has been accepted at many colleges with a 4.0 average. I also had a black girlfriend several years ago and she definitely wasn't conservative in the sexual department [;)] During my life I have also dated American Indian and Mexican The only thing that matters to me is what is in their heart. Oh yeah, one of the first things I notice about anyone is .......ready? Their teeth! Yep, their teeth, mine have been so screwed up all my life that when I see a great smile it just seems to brighten my day. Awww yeah, I am a breast man so I notice that too but that is the same for any race regardless. My best friend in the military was black and my best friend now was born in Pakistan but moved when he was 6. So, race doesn't mean a whole lot to me, only the person inside does.

zumala -> RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? (5/21/2006 9:27:14 AM)
*hides her red-headed, blue-eyed, translucient-skinned little sister from Loki* I wasn't gifted the pure red hair my sis got from the Irish part of our heritage, unfortunately. I'm a mutt myself. English, German, Irish, and Swiss. As far as preferences go... I never really thought about it that much before moving to my current city. Here young hispanic males have come on to me several times. Of course, I'm already spoken for, so I had to politely fend them off. My husband is much darker than I am and has a little native american blood, but he still counts as caucasion. I've never felt the inclination to (or been asked before my marriage to) date outside my race, so the issue never really came up. Personally, I think facial features matter more to me than color does. I have seen examples of drop-dead gorgeous in all colors, same as I've seen not-so-pretty in all colors. zuma

BBBTBW -> RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? (5/21/2006 10:24:10 AM)
WOW, what a loaded question. People will argue about cultures and stereotypes etc...I saw where one person stated that gangsta rap etc influenced mostly black youth...but in the area where I live, you would be hard pressed to find a black person that speaks the gangsta style or dresses that style. It is mostly white youth that do this...females and males. It is all about where you live and who makes up your community. I have to agree with Onyx that Black People are on the bottom of the list when it comes to people's preferences about a BDSM partner but I think that is because other races are afraid to approach Black People about the lifestyle because of the pain associated with Black Slavery in this country. I as a Black DOMINANT don't have a problem approaching other Black People about the lifestyle...but I have found that most Black Men want to participate only until they find someone to marry or they only want to participate for white DOMINANTS. I for one am a self admitted conservative when it comes to sexual issues. I don't suck dick and I can take or leave being orally pleased...but I do love to use my strap on with the males in my care and I have my own freaky desires. We all have our own level of kink and its not worth arguing about. I generally don't have a problem with any race of people as long as they are sincere. I don't let one bad apple from a specific race ruin the whole bunch. I just pluck that one out and keep going thru the basket...if none of them work...there are more baskets to go through. Oh and riot girl, it seems that you have a lot of predjuices going on. Take some time and get to know people aside from their race. Not all are the stereotype. Your post was very confusing. You mention all these negatives about specific races of people then you say "you love everyone" Come on girl...figure it out and stop your unfounded predjudices.

Lordandmaster -> RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? (5/21/2006 10:28:49 AM)
I think it was an honest statement. She's not saying that black men are evil or even that they're inherently scary. She's just saying that SHE is afraid of them for some reason that she doesn't even understand. If more people were that open and honest about their instinctive responses, we'd have a lot LESS bigotry. quote: ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig quote: ORIGINAL: RiotGirl Black men scare the daylights out of this one. heh. Dunno why.. they just do.. so a relationship is out of the question. Damn RiotGirl, I wish I hadn't read this from you today or ever. M

redneckk101 -> RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? (5/21/2006 10:44:08 AM)
When it comes to collaring or being collared, race should not be a factor. that is unless you are a racist and in this day and age people should get over it. I am sure that if anyone here was to take a good look at their heritage they will find a mixture of races in their back ground.

meatcleaver -> RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? (5/21/2006 11:09:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: shivvy a Master's Race, Colour, Creed, Religion, Age, Size, Weight... none of that really makes a difference to me. it's who they are that is most important. i think the only thing that makes me think twice about somebody, is personal hygiene.[sm=banana.gif] So you won't say no to an old, grotesquely overweight, racist, religious bigot as long as he washes his crown jewels a few times a day? OK When can we meet?[:D]

MrRodgers -> RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? (5/21/2006 11:46:45 AM)
She was but a whisper in the reflected yet blinding light through my window. Still in silouette I savored the sheen of her lucsious skin spraying light in all directions. The fine curves, the sexy natural tucks in all the right places shows me a...fetching symetry as she moves with a liquid grace. Such is the savoring of and by a her dominant lover of the nector of her beauty, always more than hint but of an idea for the stimulation of her lovely skin...can't even see what color it is... I love women of color...ALL colors. In the end though, all skin 'reddens' all skin responds and that is the important thing. So much of this is about the skin, isn't it, not the color ?

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? (5/21/2006 1:00:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster I think it was an honest statement. She's not saying that black men are evil or even that they're inherently scary. She's just saying that SHE is afraid of them for some reason that she doesn't even understand. If more people were that open and honest about their instinctive responses, we'd have a lot LESS bigotry. She is certainly leaving the reason they are scary out of the equation, except for their skin color. I'm not offended by her honesty either, I would always rather know. It's just that someone who has me on her favs list should work the being scared of black men thing out first before trying to be my friend, lol. I'm not wanting to beat on riot either, just because she blurted that out. Unless riot becomes a congresswoman, her feelings about blacks affect me about as much as santa claus does. Riot is a relatively intelligent person, who has posted angrily about people being racist to her offspring (hispanic or some other mix I don't remember). How can you say you despise bigotry than also say I'm afraid of brown skin. I said I wished I hadn't read that because it was slightly disillusioning coming from someone who's spoken on the matter before, and ought to know better. M P.S. I don't see where being honest about being a bigot makes one less of a bigot though. Being honest with oneself is only good if one is willing to search one's soul, rid self of counterproductive thoughts and feelings and make an honest attempt at doing onto others as one would have done to himself. Otherwise it is worthless, and the only good it does me is to know when to cross the street so that we don't cross paths whenever possible. M

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? (5/21/2006 1:17:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: meatcleaver racist, religious bigot as long as he washes his crown jewels a few times a day? You know very well you ain't a racist or religious bigot meatcleaver. You need to put pics up though for evidence of the other stuff. [8D] M

Lordandmaster -> RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? (5/21/2006 1:33:32 PM)
Well, I think we all have irrational prejudices. If you couldn't be friends with anyone who has ANY prejudices, I don't think you'd find any friends. I object as soon as someone puts those prejudices into practice (or, worse yet, tries to advance them). But to admit that you have an irrational fear of men whose skin is a certain color--I don't think that's objectionable.

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: sub/slave's colour, race and/or ethnisticity?? (5/21/2006 1:39:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster I object as soon as someone puts those prejudices into practice (or, worse yet, tries to advance them). But to admit that you have an irrational fear of men whose skin is a certain color--I don't think that's objectionable. I agree we all have irrational fears... I'm afraid of mice and roaches more than human beings who can hurt me. You may not find people who are deathly afraid of people who look like you objectionable, but I do. Do you really believe that our fears don't rule our behaviors? Do you really think that people who are bigots are rational and objective when making decisions regarding the object they despise? A girl who would freak out or not come over because she might run into my brown brother is most definitely not someone I can be friends with. But you of course do what works for you. M

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