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MsMacComb -> RE: The BDSM/Spanking question (5/1/2006 1:07:22 PM)
sa·dism [image]http://img.tfd.com/hm/pron.gif[/image] (s[image]http://img.tfd.com/hm/GIF/amacr.gif[/image][image]http://img.tfd.com/hm/GIF/prime.gif[/image]d[image]http://img.tfd.com/hm/GIF/ibreve.gif[/image]z[image]http://img.tfd.com/hm/GIF/lprime.gif[/image][image]http://img.tfd.com/hm/GIF/schwa.gif[/image]m, s[image]http://img.tfd.com/hm/GIF/abreve.gif[/image]d[image]http://img.tfd.com/hm/GIF/prime.gif[/image][image]http://img.tfd.com/hm/GIF/ibreve.gif[/image]z[image]http://img.tfd.com/hm/GIF/lprime.gif[/image]-) n. 1. The deriving of sexual gratification or the tendency to derive sexual gratification from inflicting pain or emotional abuse on others.2. The deriving of pleasure, or the tendency to derive pleasure, from cruelty.3. Extreme cruelty.mas·och·ism [image]http://img.tfd.com/hm/pron.gif[/image] (m[image]http://img.tfd.com/hm/GIF/abreve.gif[/image]s[image]http://img.tfd.com/hm/GIF/prime.gif[/image][image]http://img.tfd.com/hm/GIF/schwa.gif[/image]-k[image]http://img.tfd.com/hm/GIF/ibreve.gif[/image]z[image]http://img.tfd.com/hm/GIF/lprime.gif[/image][image]http://img.tfd.com/hm/GIF/schwa.gif[/image]m) n. 1. The deriving of sexual gratification, or the tendency to derive sexual gratification, from being physically or emotionally abused.2. The deriving of pleasure, or the tendency to derive pleasure, from being humiliated or mistreated, either by another or by oneself.3. A willingness or tendency to subject oneself to unpleasant or trying experiences. It absolutely in the techincal sense does indeed qualify.

SweetEscravo -> RE: The BDSM/Spanking question (5/1/2006 2:54:58 PM)
To me, spanking is just another kinky thing I love. And it fits perfectly into my BDSM life- I am almost always restrained in some way, even if it is just his non-spanking hand (I tend to squirm a lot), so there is some "bondage", Discipline (well that goes without saying), S/M- well there is pain involved and I love getting it while he loves dealing it out. I am also my most submissive after being spanked, and he is probably at his most dominant throughout the whole thing. How does spanking not fit into bdsm again?

Emperor1956 -> RE: The BDSM/Spanking question (5/1/2006 3:35:11 PM)
From John Warren: quote: If you'd like a bit of historical perspective (of limited use really when talking about what people mean by words today), BDSM was created as an umbrella term to replace wiitwd (what it is that we do) sometime during the 80s among the users of the newsgroup ASB. The intent at the time was to create a term that encompassed bondage discipline domination submission sadism and masochism. I didn't know that. How odd, because I use WIIWD in preference to other labels because it lets the We decide what it means. I didn't know I was being a historicist, too. E.

ladylexington -> RE: The BDSM/Spanking question (5/1/2006 5:33:31 PM)
I include spanking in my play. IMHO, if there's a power exchange, it's part of the lifestyle.

BreakingGlass -> RE: The BDSM/Spanking question (5/1/2006 6:09:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHugs This is a bit lengthy and it is copyrighted (I am the holder/author) but, perhaps it may be helpful. Ah, thank you VERY much. [:D]

becca333 -> RE: The BDSM/Spanking question (5/8/2006 7:50:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHugs Dear becca333, Ladies and Gentlemen; This is a bit lengthy and it is copyrighted (I am the holder/author) but, perhaps it may be helpful. Thank you! This is very interesting... I'm going to show it to a certain person, and we'll definitely be experimenting with a few new variations! Again, thank you - you're a legend!

becca333 -> RE: The BDSM/Spanking question (5/8/2006 7:51:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsMacComb sa·dism [image]http://img.tfd.com/hm/pron.gif[/image] (s[image]http://img.tfd.com/hm/GIF/amacr.gif[/image][image]http://img.tfd.com/hm/GIF/prime.gif[/image]d[image]http://img.tfd.com/hm/GIF/ibreve.gif[/image]z[image]http://img.tfd.com/hm/GIF/lprime.gif[/image][image]http://img.tfd.com/hm/GIF/schwa.gif[/image]m, s[image]http://img.tfd.com/hm/GIF/abreve.gif[/image]d[image]http://img.tfd.com/hm/GIF/prime.gif[/image][image]http://img.tfd.com/hm/GIF/ibreve.gif[/image]z[image]http://img.tfd.com/hm/GIF/lprime.gif[/image]-) n. 1. The deriving of sexual gratification or the tendency to derive sexual gratification from inflicting pain or emotional abuse on others.2. The deriving of pleasure, or the tendency to derive pleasure, from cruelty.3. Extreme cruelty.mas·och·ism [image]http://img.tfd.com/hm/pron.gif[/image] (m[image]http://img.tfd.com/hm/GIF/abreve.gif[/image]s[image]http://img.tfd.com/hm/GIF/prime.gif[/image][image]http://img.tfd.com/hm/GIF/schwa.gif[/image]-k[image]http://img.tfd.com/hm/GIF/ibreve.gif[/image]z[image]http://img.tfd.com/hm/GIF/lprime.gif[/image][image]http://img.tfd.com/hm/GIF/schwa.gif[/image]m) n. 1. The deriving of sexual gratification, or the tendency to derive sexual gratification, from being physically or emotionally abused.2. The deriving of pleasure, or the tendency to derive pleasure, from being humiliated or mistreated, either by another or by oneself.3. A willingness or tendency to subject oneself to unpleasant or trying experiences. It absolutely in the techincal sense does indeed qualify. You know, you could argue that most football players and a lot of other extreme sportspeople fall under this definition!

MsMacComb -> RE: The BDSM/Spanking question (5/8/2006 12:15:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: becca333 You know, you could argue that most football players and a lot of other extreme sportspeople fall under this definition! Indeed. Thats been my point in a few debates over our government endlessly saying this is or shopuld be illegal (and the depiction of ot on film, in print etc). Ultimate fighting, boxing, wrestling and so forth would qualify. Of coure the fans of that always say its "sport" but then so is a caning competition, lol. :)

alwaysobeyingyou -> RE: The BDSM/Spanking question (7/5/2006 9:00:51 AM)
Lets not forget everyone, about the joys of Domestic Discipline...

SCORPIOXXX -> RE: The BDSM/Spanking question (7/5/2006 9:19:17 AM)
In reply to becca and all others... I love giving a good spanking, while also working the 2 Holes O' Joy -- particulalrly the anal one! I also enjoy continuing the spanking/swatting during sex itself (oral included); and some good strokes when I come always add to the sub's response... Last but not least, I like to spank in time to music -- i.e.: Allman Bro's "Mountain Jam", 33 mnts of continuing and escalating crescendos: WOOF WOOF! And that's just to start with...

cloudboy -> RE: The BDSM/Spanking question (7/5/2006 10:47:17 AM)
Yes, it falls under the "D" section and to some degree the "S" section.

Sasy -> RE: The BDSM/Spanking question (7/7/2006 1:00:31 AM)
I was always told I needed a spankin every day for GP and it has come from guys in and out of D/s ... Technically they are right a warm back side ......... Nebbbbbber mind what that does to me

Kedikat -> RE: The BDSM/Spanking question (7/7/2006 1:02:53 AM)
A bare assed and maybe bared averything subby, squirming across My lap as I whup her ass is definitely a welcome part of it.

Mavis -> RE: The BDSM/Spanking question (7/7/2006 1:53:21 AM)
i think that if the couple involved does ONLY spanking, then it's not BDSM. BDSMers almost always incorporate more than just spanking into thier relationship, other tools, other special sensations, power exchange, discipline, correction, waxing, crawling to be given the right to ...oh.. i.. [:D]

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