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At what age did You know? - 12/17/2010 9:35:41 PM

mratyourservice

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i was very fortunate to come across two females in my childhood who exhibited some behaviors that led me to believe they had a dominant side to them. Behaviors such as enjoying humiliating me, giving orders etc. and at a very young age.
So, were some of You ladies showing signs of Your dominant nature at a young age.
Just curious. i discussed this with one of the females i am referring to when we were older (the most fascinating conversation i ever had BTW) and a Pro domme i session with.just curious to hear some more experiences.
and i am NOT fishing for stories.just wanted to know if You felt Dominant at a young age.

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RE: At what age did You know? - 12/18/2010 6:05:39 AM

slavekal

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Ms. Mlicious rarely participates on the boards, so allow me to speak for her. As a little girl, she was as fascinated by the Catwoman as I was. Whenever Catwoman would abuse and kick about her minions, Ms. Mlicious would imagine herself in her place. She would feel a tingling sensation that she would not understand until years later. I actually knew Ms. Catwoman back then, but not well. We grew up a few blocks from each other and went to the same school. If only we had really known each other in those days!

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RE: At what age did You know? - 12/19/2010 8:44:14 AM

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I was around eight or nine when I took hold of the young fellow I sat next to's hand in a movie at school. Bold little miss! My fingers tickled his palm so he had to take it back and scratch, LOL.

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RE: At what age did You know? - 12/19/2010 9:38:47 AM

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My first real girl friend was 13, and I was 16, and she had total control over me and liked it immensely. I realized how much I liked dominant, possessive women by 16. Surprised I have not found her on a D&s site

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RE: At what age did You know? - 12/20/2010 6:20:57 PM

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I will second the Catwoman obsession. I always loved it when she would tie up Batman and boss him around. I was always disappointed when he got loose. I was in elementary school when I saw the series. I dressed up like her one year for Halloween!

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RE: At what age did You know? - 12/20/2010 8:41:21 PM

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Yeah, it was catwoman for me too. I mean, how cool is that? And she had a whip :D

I also knew I was a sadist at a young age. I once had a total crush on a guy after I saw him get kicked in the balls, no joke.

He was just so cute when he was in pain.

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RE: At what age did You know? - 12/20/2010 8:50:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: mratyourservice

i was very fortunate to come across two females in my childhood who exhibited some behaviors that led me to believe they had a dominant side to them. Behaviors such as enjoying humiliating me, giving orders etc. and at a very young age.
So, were some of You ladies showing signs of Your dominant nature at a young age.

Was I a leader at a very young age? Yes. I was fair and popular; older kids in my neighborhood liked my being in charge. When mom noticed this, she got upset and told me I was not to boss boys around...

When I was in second grade, I watched some cartoon that had a girl forcing a boy through some machine that would turn him into a harpie (?) and he was begging her not to. She kept doing it anyway. It was very disturbing to have such a seething intensity of emotions erupt over this, and no way on earth was I going to talk about having strangely erotic daydreams that I couldn't even understand.

Yes, I watched all those tv shows like Batman and Robin and was drawn to the moments when they were tied up and tormented. It was funny to find out that the boys at our apartment complex loved it when I tied them up with my jump rope while playing capture games with them.

I knew that I was some kind of sicko by the fifth grade, when I had a crush on a boy in my classroom. I couldn't stop daydreaming about him that year, thank goodness he never found out. I am clueless about where all the sadosmasochistic dreams came from, though I guessed the bondage stuff came from all the tv shows I watched. He liked this other girl...and I "knew" this when on her birthday, he took off his belt and chased her all over the classroom threatening to spank her. They were boyfriend and girlfriend soon after that, so evidently she didn't hold it against him.

I buried everything after that for a long time, and "discovering" BDSM was like waking up from a deep sleep.

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RE: At what age did You know? - 12/20/2010 8:52:20 PM

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As far back as I can remember. Even before I realized what sex was, I had fantasies with D/s themes. The last time my family all got together, one of my cousins teased me about when I used to tie them up when we were kids. I had forgotten all about it. He said as soon as they got loose, I would tie them back up again. I guess the dominant role was carved out early on as well.
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RE: At what age did You know? - 12/23/2010 7:20:06 AM

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