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RE: Need payback - 12/20/2010 4:58:01 AM   
crazyml


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I ate the last biscotti.



For the love of all things good and pure... that is a despicable act of revenge.

That would trigger outrageous retaliation if it were my last biscotti you'd eaten ;-)


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RE: Need payback - 12/20/2010 6:19:57 AM   
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Wake him up by "accident". You know, naked breasts against his back, breathing on his neck, spooning him and kind of wriggling around a little. That way he can't be mad and you get laid. . When he does wake up, feign sleep. It works..I hear..


Sooo we have to top from the bottom and lie to get laid now?


Be well,
tyrasia


For the record tho, i am with Little Wonder on this, and the other thread about bad days too.



Hey Aileen and Sunshine, I would have responded to tyrasia sooner but since I was actually getting laid while she was slamming me, I am a bit late to Gor show this morning. . 

So as a Gorean, in a long distance relationship, most likely not ever having met, how do you  get laid? 

Most adult men like a little initiative in their sexual partners. He does. I am sure I would be a bitter bitch too if I was only in some kind of online fantasy relationship and came to a message board where real life people in the flesh shared their real life experiences about fucking. Oh wait no I wouldn't. I would either shut up or I would go out and find a man or I would be respectful enough to know that if I came onto a board like this I wouldn't dig at posters that had actual 24/7 relationships. .

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RE: Need payback - 12/20/2010 6:47:24 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

I'm not planning retribution. It just amazes me that he can fall asleep like that. But I thought it was a funny story and wanted to share it. Apparently the title should have been followed by j/k.

Although I think I have had my revenge. I ate the last biscotti.




How about leaving a biscotti for him with a viagra and then you feign sleep ;)

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RE: Need payback - 12/20/2010 7:03:26 AM   
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Same here. There is no "payback" with us, no matter how unpleasant something he inflicts might be for me. He does whatever he likes, and so do I.


MaxesGirl,

Claps!

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RE: Need payback - 12/20/2010 7:14:07 AM   
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He actually enjoys times like this when I wake him up in the middle of the night whining that he's been playing with me in his sleep and he has to do something about it because I can't sleep. I just couldn't face doing it to him when he had just fallen asleep. Lately he's been sleeping horribly.

I also find it terribly amusing that the online sub is telling all of us poor, benighted types who actually live with our man and have for years what is twue.





*mwah*  Des. I found it even funnier when she complained about manners and being polite in her profile on her journal. The irony is delicious. Between that and the online living in separate countries thing, she might learn to think a bit more before she pulls the "one true way card" with people that are actually on the same continent, much less the same bedroom.

Aqua..you rock :)


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RE: Need payback - 12/20/2010 7:14:23 AM   
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Most adult men like a little initiative in their sexual partners. He does.


Next month, I'm giving that man biscotti.  Yes I am. 

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RE: Need payback - 12/20/2010 8:09:06 AM   
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RE: Need payback - 12/20/2010 10:49:48 AM   
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WoW sooo many people with no sense of humor....i didn't know that the smileys would not clue people into it being a light hearted joking type thing.

Sorry didn't mean to offend.

Be well,
Andrew's tyr

P.S. I havn't and won't comment or even opine about the validity of anyone elses relationship. Since i am not part of their relationship it frankly is none of my business. I'd prefer others act in kind. Thanks! :)

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RE: Need payback - 12/20/2010 11:10:02 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Aynne88

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

I also find it terribly amusing that the online sub is telling all of us poor, benighted types who actually live with our man and have for years what is twue.



*mwah*  Des. I found it even funnier when she complained about manners and being polite in her profile on her journal. The irony is delicious. Between that and the online living in separate countries thing, she might learn to think a bit more before she pulls the "one true way card" with people that are actually on the same continent, much less the same bedroom.

Aqua..you rock :)



""So as a Gorean, in a long distance relationship, most likely not ever having met, how do you get laid?""

HAHA You know nothing of our relationship what we do or don't do, how often/long we see each other or anything else about our relationship except what little insignificant pieces You try to glean and fit into some assumed model..........afterthought....so it IS about getting laid?....hmmmm

""I also find it terribly amusing that the online sub is telling all of us poor, benighted types who actually live with our man and have for years what is twue.""

If this is a reference to me i believe my exact words were "They all fit, they all are right." i must have been a bit ambiguous with that statement. i am sorry and will ty to be clearer next time.

Again sorry to all whom took offense and sorry for all the rest who have and likely will dramatize this more. Such was not my intent but i'll be sure to break out the titanium armor next time i try to be funny :D

Loosen up ya'll,
Andrew's tyr

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RE: Need payback - 12/20/2010 11:13:41 AM   
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RE: Need payback - 12/20/2010 1:13:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Aynne88

Aqua..you rock :)



I <3 you too.

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tyrasia

WoW sooo many people with no sense of humor....i didn't know that the smileys would not clue people into it being a light hearted joking type thing.


You used the hard limit and then a guy rolling on the floor. Not exactly a "Heehee, I'm a making a joke". Perhaps if you'd left out the hard limit.

If people don't get what you are trying to communicate look to your own words first and see where you can improve, particularly when tossing terms that are frequently used to insult and degrade people and their dynamics.

I'd be more willing to believe you were honestly trying to make a joke and it didn't come across well if you weren't now complaining about how we have no sense of humor and are making drama out of it. Whatever happened to just saying "Gosh, I'm sorry. I didn't mean for it to come across that way. So sorry!" and leaving it at that?

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RE: Need payback - 12/20/2010 2:29:06 PM   
tyrasia


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You used the hard limit and then a guy rolling on the floor. Not exactly a "Heehee, I'm a making a joke". Perhaps if you'd left out the hard limit.


Sorry the format was not to your liking. i put the hard limit thing because those are things i don't do, i consider them 'hard limits'...but ok not funny...i get it now.

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If people don't get what you are trying to communicate look to your own words first and see where you can improve, particularly when tossing terms that are frequently used to insult and degrade people and their dynamics.


I am pretty sure i didn't sling it at any specific people or group of people or in any way made it personal, but if someone took it that way.....again sorry. I guess many things are a matter of perspective. Please let me share mine so it might clear it up. As i was reading this post the other day i remember nodding a lot so hopefully this quote from the OP in this thread.

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juliaoceana

The fact of the matter is many of these terms did not start out with the intention of being a negative label. SAM is a bottom sort person that gets off on being beaten for being a smart ass. A bedroom submissive is someone who gets off submitting during sex, a bottom is someone who is not submissive but enjoys the bottom role, a do-me is someone who likes to be done on their terms according to their fantasies. TFTB is a bottom that is instructing a top while being in the bottom role. A brat is a submissive that enjoys being naughty and maybe her dom enjoys it too.

Why is any of the above used as an insult to people, or used to denigrate their "realness"? I can tell you, I contain multitudes and I can envision myself doing any of the above for fun depending on my partner and what he likes. I do not understand using these labels as a way to measure the character of a person, or their orientation. They were terms used to describe different dynamics, but they have been twisted into barbs.

My question is this: For those of you who think negatively about these terms because they would not be dynamics YOU enjoy, why do you need to universalize this as somehow making another person an inferior D/s partner for everyone?


This is very good and it happens to correspond to how i personally see the 'lables' (since we all fit and are all right in my view of things anyway LOL) and in no way ment for it to degrade anyone and certaintly never on a personal level.

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I'd be more willing to believe you were honestly trying to make a joke and it didn't come across well if you weren't now complaining about how we have no sense of humor and are making drama out of it. Whatever happened to just saying "Gosh, I'm sorry. I didn't mean for it to come across that way. So sorry!" and leaving it at that?


I did do that and would have left it at that if the personal jibes had not been made about my relationship, when quite clearly, the person making them knows nothing at all about my relationship. If any person were to make similar jibes at you and your relationship when they clearly knew nothing at all about it, there is a decent probability that you would have been equally perturbed and would have reacted in your own way to show that.

live well,
Andrew's tyr


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RE: Need payback - 12/20/2010 2:33:23 PM   
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ORIGINAL: tyrasia

I did do that and would have left it at that if the personal jibes had not been made about my relationship, when quite clearly, the person making them knows nothing at all about my relationship. If any person were to make similar jibes at you and your relationship when they clearly knew nothing at all about it, there is a decent probability that you would have been equally perturbed and would have reacted in your own way to show that.

live well,
Andrew's tyr



Poor dear. You jibbed that Aynne was topping from the bottom and then were responded to in kind. How terrible for you. And then, instead of realizing that you had (according to you accidentally) made a jib and apologizing, you continued to make jibes.

If said jib was an accident than you, as an intelligent adult who has illustrated that people who have been insulted tend to insult back, than you know that their response was nothing more than a response to your insult that Aynne has to top from the bottom to get laid.

Therefore: Why not simply say "I'm sorry - I meant it as a joke and did not mean to imply that Aynne tops from the bottom"? Why must you continue to jib when you were the one who started this?

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RE: Need payback - 12/20/2010 2:35:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Aynne88
Most adult men like a little initiative in their sexual partners. He does.


Next month, I'm giving that man biscotti.  Yes I am. 


Yes ma'am and at lunch today he told me to talk  to you and get the goddamn tickets!!! I can't wait!!! !!!  I am so excited! :)


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RE: Need payback - 12/20/2010 2:38:11 PM   
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Is there more to come? Only I'll stay up if there is ;-)

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RE: Need payback - 12/20/2010 2:41:12 PM   
Aynne88


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Status: offline 		Aqua sweet thing, thank you so much, you said it better (and nicer) than I did...really tryasia, a laughing icon and the hard limit one don't exactly reek of humor, they came across exactly as you meant it, mean and snatty. Whatever, but at least own it.  When I am a bitch, I fess up. No I don't know about your relationship but I do know you are continents away, so you hung yourself on that one honey.

Des....I love apple crisp, you could wake me up for that anytime! Yum!


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RE: Need payback - 12/20/2010 2:41:49 PM   
AquaticSub


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GRRR STupID interNEtZ persons!!!!11111111 THink of the CHILDREN!!!!11111 I IZ teh onLY TrU SUBBIEEE!!!!11111


That might stir up some shit. And people say I never give anything to these forums.


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RE: Need payback - 12/20/2010 2:44:39 PM   
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Aqua sweet thing, thank you so much, you said it better (and nicer) than I did...


Hey, if I gotta stay home from work sick I might as well be of use to beautiful sassy women.


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RE: Need payback - 12/20/2010 2:45:24 PM   
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RE: Need payback - 12/20/2010 2:49:37 PM   
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