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WhiteCobra -> Where in the world did this ever come from? (12/18/2010 8:38:56 PM)

Hello everyone, would someone could please explain to me, as well share their feelings about the various Dommes on CollarMe, as well other fetish websites, holding up their middle finger in their profile image....{if I see another I'm gonna scream.}

And the one constant, is that they almost aways appear very young, and as if they belong on Face Book or My Space instead of a s&m website, I'm old school, and the most disturbing issue I have with this aside from thee obvious, most of them have no inclination what-so-ever what the lifestyle is truly about and really no interest to learn.

But as well I see this as indicative and just a microcosm of what America has become and the attitude of it's youth, I.E. a "fuck you society," that wants what I want now and I don't care how I get it.

As a Mistress, as well anyone else whom may wish to chime in, please share your opinions, also, once more, where in the world did this ever come from, and what kind of poor lonely idiot would even consider replying to a Woman, no matter how hot she was if she's essentially telling him to fuck himself in her profile photo?



Aynne88 -> RE: Where in the world did this ever come from? (12/18/2010 8:59:01 PM)


I have been on here for 3 years and have never seen that once. Maybe change your search parameters? Or are you saying that it happens randomly and frequently, which is weird...



WestBaySlave -> RE: Where in the world did this ever come from? (12/18/2010 9:03:08 PM)

I see this in many a ( male ) dom profile too, and even among guys twice my age. I just roll my eyes and move on.



DMFParadox -> RE: Where in the world did this ever come from? (12/18/2010 9:08:43 PM)

What? Flying the bird is just fun. Don't read too much into it.



Aynne88 -> RE: Where in the world did this ever come from? (12/18/2010 9:12:17 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: WestBaySlave

I see this in many a ( male ) dom profile too, and even among guys twice my age. I just roll my eyes and move on.



Agrees...reeks of juvenile twat behavior and classless, especially in someone the deemed themselves a successful person. Just don't follow the  logic...



igor2003 -> RE: Where in the world did this ever come from? (12/18/2010 9:12:53 PM)

I don't know about the male dom profiles since I don't read those as a rule, but I do agree with the OP about the female dommes.  Most are under 30, tho I've seen a very few even in their 40s.  They seem to think that showing their middle finger makes them look "dommely".  To me it is simply an indication of their IQ and I move on to the next profile.  Hopefully it is just a passing fad.



Lockit -> RE: Where in the world did this ever come from? (12/18/2010 10:02:15 PM)

I like it about as much as I like someone with a hidden profile, that asks questions. I shrug and figure it's their business and then go mind mine if it isn't any more than that. 



DMFParadox -> RE: Where in the world did this ever come from? (12/19/2010 12:35:23 AM)

igor - According to my last test, my IQ is upwards of 5 standard deviations on the normal curve (SB test, not weschler). And I say, flying the bird is fun, so don't get your pants in a wad. Offensive is what you make of it.



sunshinemiss -> RE: Where in the world did this ever come from? (12/19/2010 1:05:53 AM)

As always, I appreciate when classless jackasses show up with a big neon sign over their head that says "I'm a jackass."



SexyBossyBBW -> RE: Where in the world did this ever come from? (12/19/2010 1:21:09 AM)

I tend to think it lacks common sense and class, but it's the internet, and everyone expresses freely, not realizing it shows poor home training sometimes.
Anyway, you can hide a lot of profiles, I've discovered, and mind my business, without worrying what the flicker is doing.    M



DarkSteven -> RE: Where in the world did this ever come from? (12/19/2010 3:45:51 AM)

Aynne, I would estimate that maybe 5% of Domme profiles flip a bird.  I've even seen it in sub profiles as well.

Helps with the insta-decision making process.

Edited to add: I noted a profile of a Domme local to me who showed a bird in her main pic.  She's 20 years old, and here's a snippet from her profile:

Hope i have some of you bicthboys around on here. I have been super busy with a move. and am now finally able to get on here again and start controlling you pathetic fucks again. My rules are simple. you obey me, we're both happy. i like tyo take control over your cock, when i say you can touch you can touch, if not you pay the price. open your walltes sluts, lets see how long you last. I do require tributes. and am more than willing to cam verify.

-----------------

Any questions regarding class?



sunshinemiss -> RE: Where in the world did this ever come from? (12/19/2010 4:23:04 AM)

Well, I'll tell you this much, Steven.... she's not in MY English class....



DarkSteven -> RE: Where in the world did this ever come from? (12/19/2010 4:33:11 AM)

Give her an etiquette class first, sunny.



BonesFromAsh -> RE: Where in the world did this ever come from? (12/19/2010 4:52:16 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: igor2003

<snip> They seem to think that showing their middle finger makes them look "dommely".  To me it is simply an indication of their IQ and I move on to the next profile.  Hopefully it is just a passing fad.


Agreed....for both male and female.



thishereboi -> RE: Where in the world did this ever come from? (12/19/2010 5:05:47 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

As always, I appreciate when classless jackasses show up with a big neon sign over their head that says "I'm a jackass."


I totally agree. I am not looking right now, but if I was, I would appreciate the pic. That way one look and I know to move to the next profile. Talk about a time saver.



LaTigresse -> RE: Where in the world did this ever come from? (12/19/2010 5:10:57 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: WhiteCobra

Hello everyone, would someone could please explain to me, as well share their feelings about the various Dommes on CollarMe, as well other fetish websites, holding up their middle finger in their profile image....{if I see another I'm gonna scream.}

And the one constant, is that they almost aways appear very young, and as if they belong on Face Book or My Space instead of a s&m website, I'm old school, and the most disturbing issue I have with this aside from thee obvious, most of them have no inclination what-so-ever what the lifestyle is truly about and really no interest to learn.

But as well I see this as indicative and just a microcosm of what America has become and the attitude of it's youth, I.E. a "fuck you society," that wants what I want now and I don't care how I get it.

As a Mistress, as well anyone else whom may wish to chime in, please share your opinions, also, once more, where in the world did this ever come from, and what kind of poor lonely idiot would even consider replying to a Woman, no matter how hot she was if she's essentially telling him to fuck himself in her profile photo?



My opinion is...... Hi, I don't care, thank you.

There are a vast number of trolls that those types of profiles appeal to. If it didn't, they wouldn't exist. I simply do not care that either exist. Shallow people with shallow minds barely register on my radar.



Aynne88 -> RE: Where in the world did this ever come from? (12/19/2010 8:57:29 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

As always, I appreciate when classless jackasses show up with a big neon sign over their head that says "I'm a jackass."


Moi aussi. [;)]. They make it oh so easy.



chiaThePet -> RE: Where in the world did this ever come from? (12/19/2010 9:05:15 AM)


My Dominants used to flip me the bird all the time.

But they stopped when the beak marks began to raise questions.

chia* (the pet)



Hillwilliam -> RE: Where in the world did this ever come from? (12/19/2010 9:07:30 AM)

I dont like it when these young Dommes flip Me the bird.

I wanna see their tits.

I'm a perve that way.



thishereboi -> RE: Where in the world did this ever come from? (12/19/2010 9:51:26 AM)

Have I told you lately how much I love you?



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