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RE: Why Subs Top from the Bottom - 12/27/2010 6:05:57 PM   
anniezz338


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RE: Why Subs Top from the Bottom - 12/27/2010 6:09:18 PM   
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You are ALL fakes.


I read it right here.

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RE: Why Subs Top from the Bottom - 12/27/2010 6:18:09 PM   
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RE: Why Subs Top from the Bottom - 12/27/2010 7:40:49 PM   
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RE: Why Subs Top from the Bottom - 12/27/2010 8:03:28 PM   
SorceressJ


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RE: Why Subs Top from the Bottom - 12/27/2010 8:10:37 PM   
mummyman321


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Status: offline 		hmmm.....never thought about being a sock puppet. Wonder what it would like like full size? How about duct tape instead...LOL

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RE: Why Subs Top from the Bottom - 12/27/2010 8:15:21 PM   
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RE: Why Subs Top from the Bottom - 12/27/2010 9:17:29 PM   
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What? Is that all you got? Are you just playing at domination? Isn't there one true dominant among you? Where's the sadistic young lady who can cut with a word? Yeah, it's what I thought. There's no more BDSM here, because the D dominants and S sadists have left the room. All that's left is what's in between, only B**M, only the occasional Bowel Movement.


Be a good boy, shut up, sit down and eat your happy meal. <--- this what you looking to hear?

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RE: Why Subs Top from the Bottom - 12/27/2010 9:19:37 PM   
mummyman321


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Status: offline 		For some odd reason I just like the idea. Now I am going to have to find a way to convince a Domme to turn me into a sock puppet. She is going to think I have gone bonkers :)

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RE: Why Subs Top from the Bottom - 12/28/2010 11:23:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		When I had a Master, I usedto top from the bottom but then he was not all that dominant and I was a switch.

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RE: Why Subs Top from the Bottom - 12/28/2010 1:31:06 PM   
wulfenstraat


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Status: offline 		Thanks. A nice clean statement without dubious value. I appreciate it.

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RE: Why Subs Top from the Bottom - 12/28/2010 1:34:56 PM   
wulfenstraat


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Status: offline 		No and no. You have failed to get anything but the least of my attention. Try harder...or shut up.

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RE: Why Subs Top from the Bottom - 12/28/2010 5:29:52 PM   
StrongSpirit


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Status: offline 		Ignore the issue of fakers - because it is insulting and not helpful.

Some people are Dominant. Others are Submissive.

Then there are Sadists and Masochist.

The secret is that just because you are a Sadist does NOT mean you are Dominant. Similarly, just because you are a Masochist does NOT mean you are Submissive. There is nothing 'wrong'. 'fake', 'not real', or 'not true'. about this.

In fact there are quite a lot of people that are Masochists but not Submissive.
That is why you think subs are topping from the bottom. They are awesome masochists that are not submissive (was going to say 'just' but felt that re-ignited the faker issue, so used awesome instead.)


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RE: Why Subs Top from the Bottom - 12/29/2010 12:46:06 AM   
SexyBossyBBW


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Status: offline 		I'm not a submissive, and having matured a little, can now say, topping from the bottom is not an all bad thing....   Consider being new, and inexperienced, but finding someone who is experienced, but willing to be told what to do at all times; when to start, when to stop, how to try, etc...     M

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RE: Why Subs Top from the Bottom - 12/29/2010 12:48:08 AM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		I never top from the bottom.. I make my needs/wants/comfort levels known... communication, yanno?



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RE: Why Subs Top from the Bottom - 12/29/2010 12:49:17 AM   
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Topping from the bottom. Another subjective phrase. What is topping for one Dominant isnt for another.

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RE: Why Subs Top from the Bottom - 12/29/2010 1:11:41 AM   
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Status: offline 		I agree, communication is key.   For myself, everyone I met years back, had experience when I had none.   Certainly, domination is not what one does for me, but there was fun stuff I wanted to experiment with.   So, I found willing subjects, and used trial and error, to the extent that I didn't do harm.    I did know someone very experienced, who would acquiesce to my lead, but unfortunately, life got in the way, and I never got to play with him, bossing him around, while he taught me some things.   Fortunately, at this point, I've done just about everything I've wanted to try, but not without thanks to my gracious guinea pig/s. *blushes as I recall*

I know, play spaces would be a good way to learn, as well as naming self bottom...  Those options didn't work well with me, mostly because my relationships/sex life are private, and exhibitionism isn't my thing.  M

< Message edited by SexyBossyBBW -- 12/29/2010 1:15:24 AM >

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RE: Why Subs Top from the Bottom - 12/29/2010 3:25:24 AM   
mummyman321


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Status: offline 		Topping from the bottom is not necessarily a bad thing. I can hear the strict dominant or sub gasping for a breath at this statement but please realize not everyone has that set of rigid set of rules. Some of use do like to play outside the box. I think SexyBossyBBW gives a great example where topping from the bottom occurs and is welcomed. A Domme who wants to learn but has limited experience but has a sub who has lots of experience and is available to play. As an experienced sub I love to share what I know with others even if that means I top from the bottom. For me topping from the bottom is not a bad thing. Whatever the 2 people playing agree on is what is important. :)

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RE: Why Subs Top from the Bottom - 12/29/2010 5:56:25 AM   
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No and no. You have failed to get anything but the least of my attention. Try harder...or shut up.

How's about I report you for the firearm?


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RE: Why Subs Top from the Bottom - 12/29/2010 6:16:45 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Prinsexx

quote:

ORIGINAL: wulfenstraat

No and no. You have failed to get anything but the least of my attention. Try harder...or shut up.

How's about I report you for the firearm?



Prin,

I will make a guess it isn't real... (although he might not know that ... he's quite mixed up about a lot of things).





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