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RE: How many people are actually looking? - 12/30/2010 5:22:35 PM   
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RE: How many people are actually looking? - 12/30/2010 5:27:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		Before this thread I never realized how clueless men are. All those times I worried about being too forward... Silly me.

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RE: How many people are actually looking? - 12/30/2010 5:57:11 PM   
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I shave my head, so I don't even have THAT advantage.. I get people rubbing my head.

Doesn't matter tho, about two days later it will hit me like a 2 x 4 in the back of the head.. WAIT!! Umm.. Could that have meant??  Hmmm..  LOL!!



Try to keep track of how many times breasts are shoved in your face while a woman rubs in your head. The should be a ratio of at least 1:2 for cleavage display to head rubbing.


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RE: How many people are actually looking? - 12/30/2010 6:01:31 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

Before this thread I never realized how clueless men are. All those times I worried about being too forward... Silly me.


Sunny, men have a yardstick for determining a woman's interest: if she climbs into your lap and gyrates vigorously, and you're not in a strip club, she's interested. Anything less obvious than that, you can't be sure.

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RE: How many people are actually looking? - 12/30/2010 6:30:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		Some women are just as clueless! I have hit on some women and they were totally oblivious to it being anymore than me just being my playful self.

Sometimes it is a fine line between being to forward and to subtle.

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RE: How many people are actually looking? - 12/30/2010 6:45:32 PM   
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It's difficult enough looking for decent conversation.

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RE: How many people are actually looking? - 12/30/2010 7:13:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Valyraen


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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

Before this thread I never realized how clueless men are. All those times I worried about being too forward... Silly me.


Sunny, men have a yardstick for determining a woman's interest: if she climbs into your lap and gyrates vigorously, and you're not in a strip club, she's interested. Anything less obvious than that, you can't be sure.


Yes, it's hard to be sure why someone is flirting with you (or suddenly becomes incredibly shy about doing so). It's much clearer if they do something that puts them at risk for rejection like asking you out.

I'm just thankful some women are both aggressive and persistent.

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RE: How many people are actually looking? - 12/30/2010 7:44:10 PM   
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RE: How many people are actually looking? - 12/30/2010 8:11:38 PM   
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so unless somebody has a fetish for the hobbling domme, play is just not an option
Hobbling Domme sounds like some kind of Norwegian theatre sport.

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RE: How many people are actually looking? - 12/31/2010 1:32:52 AM   
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Hrm... am I "looking"... well, yeah... I guess I always sort of keep my eyes open for possibilities... am I pounding the pavement trying to find someone... Nah, not really. See, I'm a firm believer in what's worked for me in the past. I get out and do things that -I- like to do, and if someone comes into my sphere who seems like a good fit, and that person seems amenable, I start a dialog, and then see what grows from there.

Except for maybe in high-school, I was never what someone would call "actively looking" for a partner or partners. I've always just let it be the organic process, and that's always worked pretty well, even for finding casual play partners.

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RE: How many people are actually looking? - 12/31/2010 9:59:21 AM   
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RE: How many people are actually looking? - 12/31/2010 12:35:04 PM   
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RE: How many people are actually looking? - 12/31/2010 4:33:19 PM   
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where I'm going as otherwise I tend to walk into doors.


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RE: How many people are actually looking? - 1/2/2011 4:45:58 PM   
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RE: How many people are actually looking? - 1/2/2011 5:59:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		male submissive ... kind a looking ... know a couple of GREAT single Dommes ...

but she has to be able to tolerate my out of town business trips ... as well as crackberry going off at 4 AM until 8 or 9 pm ... ROFL

And not even my cats can stand that!


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RE: How many people are actually looking? - 1/2/2011 6:23:00 PM   
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RE: How many people are actually looking? - 1/2/2011 6:37:04 PM   
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RE: How many people are actually looking? - 1/2/2011 8:06:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

Before this thread I never realized how clueless men are. All those times I worried about being too forward... Silly me.


There are more than one type of guy out there.. Let's not forget the guy who tucked a $20 into the dancers G-string, and was truly convinced "She wanted him" when she came by and sat next to him after her dance was done.

But yeah.. That's clueless too... LOL!!

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RE: How many people are actually looking? - 1/2/2011 10:18:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss
Before this thread I never realized how clueless men are. All those times I worried about being too forward... Silly me.
Contrary to popular opinion, social intelligence is attractive.  The inability to tell when a woman's interested and close the deal is not.  I find it difficult to believe that a man could fail to lead the interaction and still call himself a Dom.

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RE: How many people are actually looking? - 1/2/2011 11:03:32 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Awareness
Contrary to popular opinion, social intelligence is attractive.  The inability to tell when a woman's interested and close the deal is not.  I find it difficult to believe that a man could fail to lead the interaction and still call himself a Dom.


Is there some rule that I have missed saying that the dominant has to make the first move or else they are not a real dom?


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