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littlestrange -> How many people are actually looking? (12/28/2010 12:07:47 PM)

As someone in search of playmates, I wondered how many people are actually looking at the moment. I understand there are significantly more guys looking than women but thought it may be interesting if people here know of others that are looking / not looking so we can have a totally useless and unscientific poll. Would you lovely readers be able to think of the kinkster friends you know in real life and represent their current status with Looking first and Not Looking second e.g:
4 x M, 1 x F ---- 5 x F, 2 x M

M= Male
F= Female

And, yes, I know it doesn't really mean anything and is a waste of time but feel free not to join in if it makes grumpy lines appear

x



LaTigresse -> RE: How many people are actually looking? (12/28/2010 1:50:15 PM)

Perhaps it would be wise to actually create your poll in the section designated for such.



CynthiaWVirginia -> RE: How many people are actually looking? (12/28/2010 1:55:41 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: littlestrange

As someone in search of playmates, I wondered how many people are actually looking at the moment. I understand there are significantly more guys looking than women but thought it may be interesting if people here know of others that are looking / not looking so we can have a totally useless and unscientific poll.


I know one female CM member in my area, and she is taken and not looking.
 
The guys I've met from CM...all looking, whether they are taken or not.
 
Myself?  Female and looking.   



leadership527 -> RE: How many people are actually looking? (12/28/2010 2:58:57 PM)

Pretty much everyone we know is "not looking". But seriously, what does that really tell you other than "Carol & Jeff, in a ln-term committed relationship, prefer the company of other people also in long-term, committed relationships.". It is just SOOO much more likely that I'd buy plane tickets to visit a couple than I would a single person.



Prinsexx -> RE: How many people are actually looking? (12/28/2010 2:59:25 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: littlestrange

As someone in search of playmates, I wondered how many people are actually looking at the moment. I understand there are significantly more guys looking than women but thought it may be interesting if people here know of others that are looking / not looking so we can have a totally useless and unscientific poll. Would you lovely readers be able to think of the kinkster friends you know in real life and represent their current status with Looking first and Not Looking second e.g:
4 x M, 1 x F ---- 5 x F, 2 x M

M= Male
F= Female

And, yes, I know it doesn't really mean anything and is a waste of time but feel free not to join in if it makes grumpy lines appear

x

I remember some male writing in his profile:
Not looking but finding......



LadyPact -> RE: How many people are actually looking? (12/28/2010 3:07:27 PM)

Female Dominant and definitely not looking.  I was joking with My husband the other night that, if I didn't add anybody else to the play calendar, I might be able to finish up all of My commitments by the end of March.



mummyman321 -> RE: How many people are actually looking? (12/28/2010 3:23:10 PM)

Male sub looking. Though a little thing called work keeps getting in my way. I am not sure if I would call it active looking. It depends on the week LOL. I would more say I am patiently looking.



DarkSteven -> RE: How many people are actually looking? (12/28/2010 3:24:57 PM)

Male Dom.  Putting search on hiatus while working to see if I'm compatible with a sub right now, but I could be on the market again soon.  Or not.



DesFIP -> RE: How many people are actually looking? (12/28/2010 5:52:53 PM)

If you want to set this up as a poll, you need it moved to PORS where that option exists.



poise -> RE: How many people are actually looking? (12/28/2010 5:56:20 PM)

I know of several men in a few states that are looking, and I am keeping my eyes
out in case I come across a good candidate for them. [:D]

the ever helpful poise



SylvereApLeanan -> RE: How many people are actually looking? (12/28/2010 6:19:19 PM)

Female dominant, not looking.  But I'm not *not* looking either.  If someone comes along and we click, I'm open to the possibility.  But he or she would have to be pretty damn amazing to get my attention and even more amazing to keep it.



SpaceSpank -> RE: How many people are actually looking? (12/28/2010 6:21:40 PM)

I am certainly looking, even when I'm not I always have my eyes open in case something pops up in unexpected places. A friend or casual conversation can lead to some interesting places at times when you don't expect it.



SAMHAIN09 -> RE: How many people are actually looking? (12/28/2010 6:22:41 PM)

I will have you know that I am seeking true love.



littlewonder -> RE: How many people are actually looking? (12/28/2010 6:29:42 PM)

fem slave and not looking at all for anything.



sexyred1 -> RE: How many people are actually looking? (12/28/2010 8:55:20 PM)

I am currently single and while I am open, I am not proactively looking...how can you really look? I would rather be found.

If I meet someone wonderful great, but I am not looking as in desperately looking...I meet too many who seem that way and it is not attractive.




MasterFireMaam -> RE: How many people are actually looking? (12/28/2010 9:14:56 PM)

While We are always open to those Spirit might send Our way, We are currently looking for someone VERY specific and much more than just a play partner. It's been years since We have actively looked.

Master Fire



Tantriqu -> RE: How many people are actually looking? (12/28/2010 9:40:55 PM)

Currently single since summer, actively looking. But received rather nice msgs from a rather nice prospective sub-man, so perhaps January might be a rather nice month indeed.
And just received another taunt from another troll that I'm single because I wouldn't respond to any of his profiles or do-me msgs, lol. I'd far rather write doggerel and curl up with great memories of good men and a Hitachi for a long winter's nap than be desperate enough to touch a do-me bottom with a ten-foot strap-on. Especially one with a ron jeremy 70's porn moustache: ew!
I knows what I needs, and I knows who I likes, and soon the twain shall meet!



mbes -> RE: How many people are actually looking? (12/28/2010 10:30:20 PM)

My other half would be quite happy to run across a playmate, I'm sure, but isn't actively looking as far as I know.
I'm not looking.



AlexandraLynch -> RE: How many people are actually looking? (12/28/2010 10:50:42 PM)

I'm sort of window-shopping. Kind of looking in spare moments, and being open to the universe sending me what I want. Otherwise, eh, I've got enough on my plate.



sunshinemiss -> RE: How many people are actually looking? (12/28/2010 11:56:29 PM)

I'm buying new spectacles so I can look better.

Hey that didn't come out quite right...



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