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CaringandReal -> What Frightens You? (1/2/2011 5:56:07 PM)
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Not generically. This question is aimed primarily at partnerless submissive men and women.
What fears do you have about meeting a dominant?
I know these forums contain a lot of partnered submissive posters so here is your version: what frightened you (past tense--er, I hope) about meeting your current partner. What did you fear or dread might happen or, even if you were perfectly fearless and had a prospective master who perfectly put you at ease, what did you have a niggling worry about?
This could be anything from "his not liking my haircut" to "her cooking me over a bonfire."
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With my former master: I feared he would turn out to be a psychopath once I was safely ensconced in his house for the first time. Why? He was formidibly intelligent, not just moreso than myself but moreso than anybody I'd ever met before, even the most brilliant college professors, and he had an acting background. I was naturally paranoid (still am as a matter of fact) and it occurred to me that if anybody could be a psychopath and trick someone into thinking they were an ordinary perverted master looking for a slave, it was him.
With future partners: I fear something different these days. I like dominants who like extreme levels of control and I fear that I might become irresistibly attracted to someone like that due to the control compatibility but find their personality to be bleakly, shiveringly cold, but not be able to resist them due to needing that level of control. I fear chronic despair.
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