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RE: How too? - 1/7/2011 6:04:56 AM

koejo1

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Thanks DesFIP.. Ill work on my 2nd and soo on email hehehe. Yeah people are pretty crude.. YIKES!

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RE: How too? - 1/7/2011 6:16:05 AM

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Decide what you are looking for and go with that.
Remember that there are people who consider themselves dominants and Masters and may have their own idea on ettiquette here on this site and it's not just a kink site. I have a fabulous gay friend who is bouncy and fun like you and your 'you are cute' approach wouldn't phase him at all. On the flip side, I know a very strict gay male, who would think it inappropriate and wouldn't give you the time of day.

I think, as long as you are not pretending to be anything other than yourself, just approach this as you would if you were meeting a new friend. Personally, I'm not big on respect and protocols but a bit of politeness and focus on something of interest rocks... like a photograph or a pair of shoes ... (if they are wearing Jimmy Choos for god sake mention them!

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RE: How too? - 1/7/2011 6:19:27 AM

koejo1

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WOW thanks RCdc. Thats the best advice I got from anyone on here. Just be myself. If they dont like me fuck them, Its not my lost.

Thanks again
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RE: How too? - 1/7/2011 7:03:40 AM

LillyBoPeep

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here's another thread you can check out -- http://www.collarchat.com/m_3513542/tm.htm

just be yourself. if you find someone who resonates with you, talk to them like you would if you met them in a public place in person. if someone is particular about protocol, it is really up to them to delineate that -- you aren't a mind reader and can't be expected to behave as such on an internet forum. being respectful in general, though, is almost always seen positively. :)

if you aren't being yourself, how can someone get to know you? if your personalities don't mix online, they probably won't mix in person either, at least not in the long-term. be comfortable with who you are, and someone looking for what you have to offer will be able to find you. =p

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RE: How too? - 1/7/2011 8:30:05 AM

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Well thank you crazyml I apperciate the help.. Problem solved...

Thanks to everyone else who has helped me and Thanks to the funny mean ones tooo. You guys put a smile on my face.

Best of luck to all of you's
Koejo1

I wasn't mean to you, Dude. All I did was tell you something that you probably should already know. I mean, it's not that much of a long shot for Me to bet that you weren't raised by wolves, right?

Most folks who get emails around here, appreciate it to be talked to like a person. OK, some folks don't want to be treated with courtesy and would rather be approached like a piece of meat, but that's not the majority. If you want to send a note to someone that considers himself a Master (anyone considering themselves a Mistress will feel the same way) the courtesy and respect approach is going to do you the most good.

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