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RE: What totally and completely does it for you? - 1/16/2011 8:43:17 AM

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when I'm with someone who both totally scares me (at times) and make me fell totally safe.

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RE: What totally and completely does it for you? - 1/16/2011 2:43:34 PM

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Addicted to attention, like Des, yes, given in a complimentary or gracious fashion particularly but also something that is difficult to define for me.
Here's my attempt:
i'm addicted to the cheerful, rosey glow of a satisfied person. When they are at peace, calm, or "in the zone", "in their element", inspired, fulfilled, full of life. i'm intensely eager in aiding them come to that "place". That place where they feel balanced and stress-less.

When We achieve this together, i take steps to maintain it for as long as possible, take steps to achieve it again. If i cannot, i tend to experience a withdrawal style reaction, it is like a drug for me (to keep with the metaphor).

Plus, anything one might equate with a sexually inexperienced person's definition of "third base". That stuff makes me whimper and beg. :)

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RE: What totally and completely does it for you? - 1/16/2011 2:44:25 PM

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A well behaved, obedient girl with a smooth pussy, muchachos!

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RE: What totally and completely does it for you? - 1/16/2011 5:48:46 PM

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So, what addicts you? What makes you willing to do anything, absolutely anything, for more?

Nothing really. But I'm a literal person and I can't think of anything I'd do *absolutely anything* for more of.

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RE: What totally and completely does it for you? - 1/17/2011 8:22:58 AM

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I'm hooked on his love for me. The way he loves me just does me in.

And when he strongly exercises his power over me.

And the way he smells.

And....lol

But, like agirl, while I absolutely love the above, I wouldn't do "absolutely anything" for more of it.

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RE: What totally and completely does it for you? - 1/17/2011 9:12:03 AM

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So, what addicts you?

Violence and Pain does. I thrive on both of those.

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RE: What totally and completely does it for you? - 1/17/2011 9:49:12 AM

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I thought about this for a long time. What does it for me is not easy to figure out, not just one thing, so I'm going with approval. If he thinks well of what I've done, I'll just want to impress him more. If on the other hand, he points out my mistakes, I might try to impress him, but I'll have more reserves. It is more probable for me to stand impossible things for the first situation, than for the second one.
Of course, that is not all. I have to know the person, he has to have a great personality, and be a good human being... and all that.

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RE: What totally and completely does it for you? - 1/17/2011 4:10:01 PM

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when I'm with someone who both totally scares me (at times) and make me fell totally safe.

oooo, yummy!

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RE: What totally and completely does it for you? - 1/17/2011 7:14:49 PM

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A sharp word from her. An order to get on my knees. Definitely, a yank of my hair and a quick slap would do it. Also, I'd pretty much in a slave mode around a Domme, just not as intensely.

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RE: What totally and completely does it for you? - 1/18/2011 10:10:02 AM

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What does it for me is whrn he tells me i love you. That is the best for me. As the song goes 'Might as well face it your addictated to love." I am addicated to HIS love.

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RE: What totally and completely does it for you? - 1/18/2011 3:27:49 PM

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Hey submissives, slaves, submits (counterpart to dominates?), bottoms, masochists, the kept, and other below-sorts,

I was wondering. What experience, fetish, desire, need, activity, mental environment, physical characteristic, emotional experience, personality, or other thing absolutely hooks you, makes you feel "Ok, this is it. I give up. This totally does it for me." In case this is not clear, here is a rephrasing of the quesiton, What most addicts you to your version of submission?

I've been thinking about this lately. It was hard to choose one thing. There are so many things I like and always want more of. It's still largely theoretical for me, but in applying past experiences and attitudes with current thought I do believe for me it's fear. In the right circumstances, this experience is pure unadulterated emotional heroin for me. (It might be more appropriate to liken the experience of fear to a psychedelic, but I am trying to get across the concept of dependency here.) A close second for me is enforced servitude, i.e. something that I no longer freely choose. Its advantage is that it can be maintained over long periods of time, wheres fear tends to be a transitory emotion: you can't sustain large amounts of it for a lenghty time without going a little or a lot mad. And once you go mad, you may not be feeling fear anymore.

So, what addicts you? What makes you willing to do anything, absolutely anything, for more?

(And of course, those of you who frown on addiction--of any sort--or who are never addicted to anything are welcome to say youre piece, as well. I'm not particularly picky. I just like to know what others think.)

Five years ago I would have had a list of kinks that made me excited just thinking about them. Now, with the way my life has been for the past three months, I'm much more aware that it isn't any activity or mindset for me. It's him. I can live without all of the kink. I can't live without him.

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RE: What totally and completely does it for you? - 1/18/2011 4:31:00 PM

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What Aileen said.

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RE: What totally and completely does it for you? - 1/18/2011 7:32:13 PM

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ORIGINAL: CaringandReal

I was wondering. What experience, fetish, desire, need, activity, mental environment, physical characteristic, emotional experience, personality, or other thing absolutely hooks you, makes you feel "Ok, this is it. I give up. This totally does it for me." In case this is not clear, here is a rephrasing of the quesiton, What most addicts you to your version of submission?

Greetings CaringandReal,

I thrive on intense sadism and have a penchant for bisexual men. I'm certain the latter is probably due to the other aspects of my personality that don't come out in my relationships very often. I find men with a well defined edge and darkness to be very attractive and hard to resist in some instances. Force is always welcome but when the other elements are part of the picture it heightens the activity and my satisfaction. In short I prefer situations where the gloves come off and we simply feed. I detest having inhibitions and other supposed norms that diminish mutual enjoyment.

Namaste,

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RE: What totally and completely does it for you? - 1/18/2011 10:37:16 PM

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The Good Lady getting me to do things I normally would not do unless it was by Her guided hand.
Testing my endurance and my worth. Removing my control.

Really these things need to be further explored for me to define what IT is but I can say it is the totality of the person (agirl) and not a simple pull of the hair of a slap of the face....

not to say those things are not delectable.

Just the icing on the cake.

I want cake.

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RE: What totally and completely does it for you? - 1/19/2011 4:46:00 AM

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More wonderfulness...from everyone! :) Hot thoughts, yum! I am so glad I made this thread.

PS: more please :D )

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RE: What totally and completely does it for you? - 1/19/2011 7:03:44 AM

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The process of giving complete trust, followed by being overpowered. Submitting makes me happy, but being Dominated is what I end up craving.

The "butterfly" feeling. Most people can't give it to me buy godDAMN when I find the ones that do.

That point when you're laying down crying uncontrollably and they just... stroke. Aftermath ftw.

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RE: What totally and completely does it for you? - 1/19/2011 11:13:41 AM

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The things that do it for me are definitely the ones that take me to subspace:
- forced orgasms while bound and gagged;
- being ordered / allowed to cum only after prolonged denial of permission - especially when Master has been playing with my pussy while ordering me not to come "or else;"
- being flogged, spanked or nipple clamped to the point where the pain transforms into pleasure and i completely surrender to my Master's power;
-being suddenly grabbed by the throat, pushed against a wall and ordered to cum. The surprise, the powerless feeling of being at the mercy of my powerful Master, His hand constricting my windpipe, and the sound of His command make me swoon.

my Master's power over me is so strong now that i have real, honest-to-God orgasms from His verbal command to "cum, now." i'm still amazed that He can do this to me, and soooooooooooo grateful!

But best of all is when He holds me in His big, strong arms, presses me to His chest, and lets me know that this is where i belong and who i am meant to be. i feel and know that i'm His most cherished possession and that i'm the luckiest girl in the world. i never knew this feeling until my Master found me, and it's the greatest joy I've ever known.

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RE: What totally and completely does it for you? - 1/19/2011 1:32:25 PM

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More wonderfulness...from everyone! :) Hot thoughts, yum! I am so glad I made this thread.

PS: more please :D )

*lol* You're such a perv. I love it!

Namaste,

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RE: What totally and completely does it for you? - 1/19/2011 8:13:09 PM

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More wonderfulness...from everyone! :) Hot thoughts, yum! I am so glad I made this thread.

PS: more please :D )

*lol* You're such a perv. I love it!

Namaste,

~porcelaine

:D You nailed me.

People are giving really inspired answers to the question though. I'm finding something really nice in all of them. :)

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RE: What totally and completely does it for you? - 1/19/2011 8:27:11 PM

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:D You nailed me.

People are giving really inspired answers to the question though. I'm finding something really nice in all of them. :)

I am also quite smitten when I hear him call me into the bathroom, where he stands, waiting for me to kneel in front of him and clean him off, with his hand on the back of my head and my mouth taking in his wonderful, slightly salty taste. It is all at once a service, a taboo, a thrill, and a warm connection to the man that makes my body want to do nothing other than swallow every part of him. Wrapping my arms around his legs and trailing my hands upward, trying to stop him from buckling up again...but he does anyway, and looks down at me smiling, knowing he has pushed my buttons, and playfully pulls my head back before he walks away, leaving me kneeling, and wanting, on the floor.

There. Find something really nice in that. :)

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