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RE: question - 1/18/2011 12:56:16 PM

Killerangel

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This is not a small thing to keep to yourself. You missed the boat on not telling her right away, how sad for her. She made a decision to be with you without knowing all of the pieces. If I were her I'd show you the door and never look back, I want to be with a man who represents himself truthfully, not a someone that I'd have to keep guessing at whether he was being honest or not.

Everyone has preferences, you're taking away her right to fulfill hers by misrepresenting yourself. She might like the fact that you're bi or she might not, she has every right to have her preferences just like you have yours.

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RE: question - 1/18/2011 1:11:06 PM

JohnWarren

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ORIGINAL: lonley951sub

so far mommy is loving i just worry she wont love me when she learns im bi

Wait a second. You asked if a submissive could have friends. What do friends have to do with your sexual orientation. I'm straight and I have friends of all orientations. It's my sexual activities that are limited.

If you're in a monogamous relationship, being bi doesn't matter. If you are in a poly one, this is a matter for discussion between you and your "mommy."

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RE: question - 1/18/2011 6:55:46 PM

SexyBossyBBW

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I just read my post again, and stand by it, if your domina is allows you some sexual outlet. If she does not, than you may need to, in addition to asking for friendships, ask if you are allowed to pursue sexual partners outside of the home. M

< Message edited by SexyBossyBBW -- 1/18/2011 6:56:07 PM >

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