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RE: Crossroads - 1/19/2011 5:55:43 PM   
plasticshark


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Status: offline 		Well, I'm really more of a Ripper Owens guy myself.









...well, not really.

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RE: Crossroads - 1/19/2011 6:19:59 PM   
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Well, I'm really more of a Ripper Owens guy myself.









...well, not really.



You'll fit in well here.

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RE: Crossroads - 1/19/2011 7:58:34 PM   
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Someone is breaking out the Cat Stevens already! I'll try to keep up!



:( I'm just lame enough to like that song.

Word to the wise: don't ever ask me for advice about scene music.

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RE: Crossroads - 1/19/2011 8:22:27 PM   
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:( I'm just lame enough to like that song.

Word to the wise: don't ever ask me for advice about scene music.


Aw, don't take it that way. I actually have that song (as well as Trouble and The First Cut) on my iPod. Meanwhile my brain still fights with the memories of the awesomeness of Harold and Maude versus Chevy Chase hawking t-mobile phones whenever I hear 'If You Want To Sing Out'.

I sound a lot like Cat when I sing, which is fine and dandy now that I'm middle aged and bearded, but sucked when I was 20 and playing guitar and bass in an industrial band.

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RE: Crossroads - 1/20/2011 12:37:05 AM   
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Come to think of it, a man in flannel is pretty hot too.




Especially in the summer.

ba dum bum.

I'm here all week folks!

To the OP (that's you plastic shark):
You sound pretty dang good. Clear, smart, unassuming. Do you hear that sound? It's all the wimmins running to bang down your door.

Good luck in this new adventure.
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RE: Crossroads - 1/20/2011 5:07:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		What Sunshine said and do you have an application that can be filled out by one of the "wimmins", lol. Keep posting Plasticshark, it will happen with whom and when it's supposed to, as they have told me over and over, take your time, it's not a race. You sound like you are moving in the right direction for what you are looking for and learning what that is. Good luck to you.

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RE: Crossroads - 1/20/2011 6:17:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		An application? No. Should I have one? Hot damn I have a lot to learn. I suppose the practical side of what I've described would require some sort of "Get". So long as I don't have to file quarterly payroll taxes or unemployment.

It's how it starts, isn't it? Next thing you know you've got the Guild of Sidekicks breathing down your neck over having her catsuit mink oiled on a regular basis and pushing for a separate stereo in the sidecar on your hero cycle. Maybe the arch-villains have it figured out.


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RE: Crossroads - 1/20/2011 9:33:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		Welcome to the boards, Plasticshark.  Please stick around. Use the search feature and read, flesh out your profile and most of all, enjoy yourself. 

*quietly drools a little over post number #16*

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RE: Crossroads - 1/20/2011 10:16:33 PM   
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Welcome to the boards, Plasticshark.  Please stick around. Use the search feature and read, flesh out your profile and most of all, enjoy yourself. 

*quietly drools a little over post number #16*



Well, if'n ya want the Hill dude to spank ya, ya gotta change ya name... I ain't gonna spank my monkey in public yaknow. That gets ya arrested and stuff.

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RE: Crossroads - 1/21/2011 2:32:52 AM   
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Hillwilliam

for

I ain't gonna spank my monkey in public yaknow.


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RE: Crossroads - 1/21/2011 8:49:27 AM   
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RE: Crossroads - 1/21/2011 9:37:28 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

Sunny
Quote of the Day
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Hillwilliam

for

I ain't gonna spank my monkey in public yaknow.




*takes a bow*

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RE: Crossroads - 1/21/2011 5:53:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		So my brother...he's gay. He always knew he was attracted to guys, but he didn't always admit it to himself or others, as is often the case, and he dated lots of women. Once he did admit it to himself he went way overboard. Lost a few friends because of it - not because he was gay, but because for a good year or so that seems like all he was. He had lots and lots of anonymous sex in all kinds of situations. Making up for lost time. He eventually settled back down and is pretty low-key about it.

I'm not really "looking" right now. It'd be a shame to drag someone into a head space that's still a bit in flux, you know? Sadly, just the mere thought of finding someone I'm really sexually compatible with has my brain going into overdrive. Too many years of boring sex. I actually went a spell where I was still having sex, but very bored with it, to the point of faking orgasms (I even call it "pulling a Kramer" as shorthand when talking to my brother). It's so bad that I went in for a haircut today and the girl who cut my hair was astounding - imagine Saffron Burrows with lots of tattoos and piercings and a pack-a-day voice - and, I must admit, I got a bit mentally aroused. When she was finished she noticed I had hair all over me and asked if I wanted her to give me a shampoo.

"No, I'm really very, very good. Thanks."

I'm quite ready to quit feeling like a pent-up bunny. Ugh. This subsides, right?

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RE: Crossroads - 1/21/2011 5:57:27 PM   
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I'm quite ready to quit feeling like a pent-up bunny. Ugh. This subsides, right?

I'll support you if you want to start the D-type equivalent of the infamous "sub frenzy".


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RE: Crossroads - 1/21/2011 6:10:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		Thanks. I never really forget ideas - when I'm song writing, I don't have to record or write it down because I'll remember it for ages. I've got an entire back-catalog of every single wicked thought I've ever had mid-flight but unable to act out on. That part of my brain looks a bit like the moleskine notebook in Jack Kerouac's back pocket. I just need to stay away from the inhaler strips.

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RE: Crossroads - 1/21/2011 6:22:58 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: CaringandReal

:( I'm just lame enough to like that song.

Word to the wise: don't ever ask me for advice about scene music.


Aw, don't take it that way. I actually have that song (as well as Trouble and The First Cut) on my iPod. Meanwhile my brain still fights with the memories of the awesomeness of Harold and Maude versus Chevy Chase hawking t-mobile phones whenever I hear 'If You Want To Sing Out'.

I sound a lot like Cat when I sing, which is fine and dandy now that I'm middle aged and bearded, but sucked when I was 20 and playing guitar and bass in an industrial band.


Oh, don't mind me. I *like* to take things that way. ;)

I like Trouble. Thanks for reminding me of that song! I wonder if I have it in my mp3s? The "advice about scene music "remark was a joke on myself, a reference to an atrocious thread I made not too long ago (well, my fantasy in it--being severely tortured to "Lalalalalalala Life is Wonderful" and the like--was atrocious; the rest of the posts were actually just fine!)

LOL, Cat Stevens singing industrial. That's a very amusing idea. I can _almost_ hear it.

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RE: Crossroads - 1/21/2011 10:04:13 PM   
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LOL, Cat Stevens singing industrial. That's a very amusing idea. I can _almost_ hear it.


And thank whatever deity you adhere to if any that it's only almost. I remember back in '95-'96 club owners were telling me that nobody wanted to hear some guy with computers and an 808 and a guitar. How times change, thankfully.

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RE: Crossroads - 1/21/2011 11:03:22 PM   
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just saw you're from Houston..

I have some great memories from there..including seeing Fates Warning (can NOT recall the name of the club there), and Lizzy Borden..

good times :)

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RE: Crossroads - 1/22/2011 6:34:11 AM   
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My brother is convinced that what I need is an old-school 50's housewife. ... I'm worried about finding a niche - I'm never going to be a leather guy, though I'm definitely kinky, but of course I'm mostly just looking for a monogamous, hopefully lifetime relationship with someone who will let me take care of her and is sassy and smart enough to make me keep her in line. Is there more to it in that, generally?

Don't worry, you don't "Find" a niche here.. you carve one out for yourself. It's the only way you're gonna get an exactly YOU sized niche. The relationship you are describing pretty much describes my marriage sans the 50's housewife imagery. Carol is simply a submissive personality. Interpreted into plain english, that means she is an ordinary person like you and me, but in her own priority scale, she judges things differently than I do... placing more emphasis on things like "harmony" and "getting along" and less on "getting any specific way". She'd prefer to follow, not lead, given a choice. She doesn't want to be in the limelight or take the burdens of leadership. It's not all that unusual of a personality profile.

Lots of people like following a GOOD leader. If you're that kind of leader, then you won't have a hard time finding a woman to follow you.

Carol and I are not "leather"... or even all that kinky really. I still find lots of useful value here on sites like collarme.

Have fun :)

~Jeff

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RE: Crossroads - 1/22/2011 12:20:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		You sound like a fabulous person, Shark. Welcome to the forums.

You remind me a lot of myself about a year ago, taking my first fumbling steps into BDSM. I always wondered why I was so bored with vanilla sex, and why I inevitably, no matter who I was with, ended up not wanting sex at all because it seemed more like a chore than fun. I was always a people-pleaser, and very turned on by dominant men and villains. I didn't want to be the 'strong, powerful woman of the new century' who walked all over men with her stiletto heels because she deserved the right to do so. I just wanted to make a man happy in my relationship.

I was lucky in that my introduction to BDSM came with the man who collared me, and we are still happily together today. When you finally find that exact dynamic that works for you, it's absolutely cathartic. I've never been happier or more fulfilled in my entire life, now that I know that where I belong is knelt at the feet of my Master. I'm still a strong, intelligent woman who has her own opinions and spirit. I'm not 'weak' or 'pathetic' for being submissive. I'm an integral half of a beautiful whole.

Best wishes for figuring it all out for yourself. There are some amazing people on these forums. This is a good place to be to find yourself.

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