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Looking for - 1/20/2011 8:36:36 AM   
dreammuncher


Posts: 2
Joined: 1/20/2011
Status: offline 		If your first contact is by an E-mail, what do you look for? What would catch your eye as to this would make a good master
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RE: Looking for - 1/20/2011 8:40:09 AM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline 		I love threads like this.  It just screams "tell Me what subs want to hear so I can mimic it".

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Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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RE: Looking for - 1/20/2011 8:44:07 AM   
GreedyTop


Posts: 52100
Joined: 5/2/2007
From: Savannah, GA
Status: offline 		talk to me like I am a human, individual.

the rest may or may not come later.

(adn I agree with LadyP)

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polysnortatious
Supreme Goddess of Snark
CHARTER MEMBER: Lance's Fag Hags!
Waiting for my madman in a Blue Box.

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RE: Looking for - 1/20/2011 8:50:52 AM   
preytolife


Posts: 138
Joined: 11/29/2010
From: LaLa Land
Status: offline 		Genuineness. No mention of casual play. Honest admission of their own experience/inexperience. An indication that they're interested in personality, talking, laughing, something besides my ass coming in contact with a blunt object. The ability to laugh OR make fun of themselves instantly gives me a better opinion of them.

If there's not a "Master", "Sir" or "superuberatomicdommydomDOM" in sight then there's a gold star for them.

Pretty much the same things you'd expect from vanilla for me. I want them socially adjusted and not trolling for teh secks. Anything else comes after that, I need to know I can stand them first.

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RE: Looking for - 1/20/2011 9:04:18 AM   
sexyred1


Posts: 8998
Joined: 8/9/2007
Status: offline 		I despair at the inability of people to come up with simple solutions to an introductory email that require no more than:

1. write to someone after reading their profile and comment on something therein or give a nice compliment that sounds genuine
2. don't say anything to her that you would not say if you met her in Whole Foods
3. don't ever say the following: subbies, subby, I am a dominate, kneel bitch, I want to be your Master, what are your hard limits, got milk, or any other dumb line.

< Message edited by sexyred1 -- 1/20/2011 9:05:04 AM >

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RE: Looking for - 1/20/2011 9:08:14 AM   
kalikshama


Posts: 14805
Joined: 8/8/2010
Status: offline

Additionally, do add pictures and text to your profile. Only once have I responded to someone without an essay, and his intro email was quite well written.



< Message edited by kalikshama -- 1/20/2011 9:11:08 AM >

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RE: Looking for - 1/20/2011 9:12:08 AM   
Domduddie


Posts: 1
Joined: 1/20/2011
Status: offline 		Thanks but i have to stop now need to go to work thats wy i diddend finich
my profile

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RE: Looking for - 1/20/2011 9:15:42 AM   
LaTigresse


Posts: 26123
Joined: 1/15/2006
Status: offline 		Spelling better than a 3rd grader would also be helpful.

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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Looking for - 1/20/2011 9:25:56 AM   
poise


Posts: 9509
Joined: 7/3/2010
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: dreammuncher

If your first contact is by an E-mail, what do you look for? What would catch your eye as to this would make a good master

It would take alot more than one email for me to think of you as anything other than a man
wanting to communicate, so I wouldn't put so much pressure on having to come across as SuperMaster.
As others have said, open the dialogue with a non-sexual topic that you feel both of you can relate to.

I have a habit of checking forum post history from people that send me emails
out of the blue, and I have a feeling many other submissives do as well.
I don't feel your history to date is going to give off the impression you wish to convey.
(ie: asking others how to make contact...what is TPE, etc.)
I suggest taking some quiet time in reading the threads, especially in Ask A Master.


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RE: Looking for - 1/20/2011 10:21:33 AM   
FukinTroll


Posts: 6277
Joined: 2/6/2007
From: Under a bridge
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

talk to me like I am a human, individual.

the rest may or may not come later.

(adn I agree with LadyP)


So wut yer tellin me is, me treating you like a flying monkey hasn't really gotten me anywhere, right?


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TrollTopia
Greedy Groupie!

The Mods have me on speed Spank!! Gotta luv'em.

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RE: Looking for - 1/20/2011 10:54:40 AM   
LillyBoPeep


Posts: 6873
Joined: 12/29/2010
Status: offline 		chiming in to agree with sexyred and kalikshama -- something that shows the person actually read my profile, and isn't just spamming every F - sub - insert age group here. Something showing a handle on language, though if there's an explanation of dyslexia, then i can totally understand that. something to show that there actually ARE shared interests.
if your message was composed after reading submissivewomensecrets.com, then just scrap it and start over.
most people object to inappropriately sexual, demeaning, or demanding messages from others they do not know. if you get the urge to send a message saying "hello fuckmeat," or "suck my dick, bitch," then you should probably re-evaluate your tactics.
oh AND -- if the profile says "i'm interested in mental aspects of blah blah blah," then sending a huge copy-n-paste about some wacky play scene is probably not going to impress that person.

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RE: Looking for - 1/20/2011 10:58:12 AM   
RapierFugue


Posts: 4740
Joined: 3/16/2006
From: London, England
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep
if you get the urge to send a message saying "hello fuckmeat," or "suck my dick, bitch," then you should probably re-evaluate your tactics.


<hastily scribbles notes>

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RE: Looking for - 1/20/2011 12:09:32 PM   
GreedyTop


Posts: 52100
Joined: 5/2/2007
From: Savannah, GA
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: FukinTroll

quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

talk to me like I am a human, individual.

the rest may or may not come later.

(adn I agree with LadyP)


So wut yer tellin me is, me treating you like a flying monkey hasn't really gotten me anywhere, right?



ok, for YOU... flying monkey works ;)

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polysnortatious
Supreme Goddess of Snark
CHARTER MEMBER: Lance's Fag Hags!
Waiting for my madman in a Blue Box.

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RE: Looking for - 1/20/2011 12:17:47 PM   
kalikshama


Posts: 14805
Joined: 8/8/2010
Status: offline 		I also look for signs of intelligence. Creating several profiles and posting using the wrong one is a minus.

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RE: Looking for - 1/20/2011 12:19:06 PM   
mnottertail


Posts: 60698
Joined: 11/3/2004
Status: offline 		Ya, but it was only the one time, so.....

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Have they not divided the prey; to every man a damsel or two? Judges 5:30


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RE: Looking for - 1/20/2011 12:21:04 PM   
kalikshama


Posts: 14805
Joined: 8/8/2010
Status: offline
quote:

submissivewomensecrets.com


I was wondering if there actually was such a site and now I am ROFLMAO

You get it all - an $85 dollar value in total - For only $19.99!
But order today before the price is increased!

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RE: Looking for - 1/20/2011 12:34:13 PM   
sexyred1


Posts: 8998
Joined: 8/9/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep

"hello fuckmeat,"


Ahhhh....yes, that always warms the cockles of my heart when a stranger writes an endearment like that. 


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RE: Looking for - 1/20/2011 1:07:02 PM   
LillyBoPeep


Posts: 6873
Joined: 12/29/2010
Status: offline 		@kalikshama -- submissivewomensecrets is one of the most hilarious sites i've ever read. i'm pretty sure every internet loser "Dom" was spawned from that site. =p

@sexyred1 -- i know, right? can't you just feel the fires of your slaveheart burning? =p

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RE: Looking for - 1/20/2011 1:09:16 PM   
mnottertail


Posts: 60698
Joined: 11/3/2004
Status: offline 		Goddammit!!!!! You bitches are acting just like you are in the bathroom together!!!!

Us men want to know what you are doing in there all secretive, so spill!!!!

what are submissive womens secrets, and I ain't paying no 19.95....

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Have they not divided the prey; to every man a damsel or two? Judges 5:30


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RE: Looking for - 1/20/2011 1:28:08 PM   
kalikshama


Posts: 14805
Joined: 8/8/2010
Status: offline 		For the secret to seducing submissive women, please see posts 3, 4, 5, 6, 8, 9, 11, and 14.

Alas, if you are looking for insta-sub secrets, you will not find them there.


quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Goddammit!!!!! You bitches are acting just like you are in the bathroom together!!!!

Us men want to know what you are doing in there all secretive, so spill!!!!

what are submissive womens secrets, and I ain't paying no 19.95....


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