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RE: Looking for - 1/20/2011 1:30:07 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		couldn't you just sorta wrap up all those posts in one brief for me?

I ain't fuckin trixie belden amateur girl sleuth here, for fucks sake.


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RE: Looking for - 1/20/2011 2:10:26 PM   
Killerangel


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Status: offline 		I definitely look at the sender's profile if I'm even remotely interested and if it's completely blank like yours I am probably not going to be interested no matter what the email says.

In emails I look for nothing that's cut and pasted, no x-rated creative writing (blech), nothing sexual, something mannerly and polite and something that shows he is interesting as a person. I can find sex anywhere, I want to be able to talk to him. Good spelling and grammar count as a positive. Funny is good. No dick pictures. Someone that seems sincere and genuine and not like they're play-acting a role and trying to be what they think a Dom is. Oh...and no one that tells me to call them Sir or any variation of kneel, bitch.

Sigh, I forgot, no one-liners- Hi. Or how are you? If the best you can come up with is a lame couple of words please dont even try. I know it's frustrating for guys not to get answers but geezy peasy, put forth a second's more effort and you might get more replys.

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RE: Looking for - 1/20/2011 3:03:49 PM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		Yes, Hi or How are you or What's up are definitely not conversation starters.

Anything is better than those.

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RE: Looking for - 1/20/2011 3:20:17 PM   
angelikaJ


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Status: offline 		He asked me interesting questions (that were not BDSM or sex centered).

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RE: Looking for - 1/20/2011 3:24:50 PM   
angelikaJ


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Status: offline 		To be fair english is not his first language: he is from the Netherlands.

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RE: Looking for - 1/20/2011 3:56:40 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		I used to get a lot of mail whe i was new (not a big surprise). I wouls answer one liners as long a i was not offened at the mail. I mean my Masters first mailt to me was "so where in NY do you live?" So one liners are not neceressly a bad thing. On the other hand if some one starts off with saying well wehn i play i like to do... whatever that is not a good thing they got bocked and deleted. I have other interestes outside of BDSM . Like my rpofile says i love 80s music they could ask what are your aviorite singer/groups of the 80's then i knew they read my profile and encourage me to speak with them. Of course now i am taken but if i was not i would want the dom to read the profile. Talk to them about vanilla interests before getting into the BDSM stuff.

Matt's littleone

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RE: Looking for - 1/20/2011 4:50:56 PM   
CaringandReal


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Status: offline 		When I want to seduce someone (or at very least get them to notice and hopefully like me) I start by asking them interesting but non-threatening questions (about themselves, not about the weather! :p). It's hard for most people to resist an intelligently framed and clearly directed-at-them question, especially in this sort of place where almost nobody bothers to ask questions. Also, it benefits you to hear their answers, you learn something about the person from their responses that should help you see if they are actually a good match for you.



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RE: Looking for - 1/20/2011 5:49:17 PM   
mysouldesire


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ORIGINAL: dreammuncher

If your first contact is by an E-mail, what do you look for? What would catch your eye as to this would make a good master


It is what he said, how he said it, and how it was written and of course how I responded to it and who I was..... if that is my ONLY criteria.
But persoanlly, I prefer more criteria.

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RE: Looking for - 1/20/2011 7:01:01 PM   
porcelaine


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quote:

ORIGINAL: dreammuncher

If your first contact is by an E-mail, what do you look for? What would catch your eye as to this would make a good master


Greetings dreammuncher,

I appreciate someone that cuts to the chase and doesn't dance around with needless innuendo and self inflated bravado. I don't want to hear a litany of compliments nor a diatribe of what makes him worthy of ownership. I like breadth, intelligence, and someone with the capacity to expound on subjects outside of BDSM. Opening statements that read, "Hello slave, girl, etc." should be avoided.

Namaste,

~porcelaine


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RE: Looking for - 1/20/2011 8:26:52 PM   
poise


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Status: offline 		I did get one of those "one liners" the other day, and Im still smiling from it.
All it said was "poise will be poise"
Of course he was from New Joisey

< Message edited by poise -- 1/20/2011 8:27:45 PM >

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RE: Looking for - 1/21/2011 12:41:46 PM   
porcelaine


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quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

I did get one of those "one liners" the other day, and Im still smiling from it.
All it said was "poise will be poise"
Of course he was from New Joisey


Well you deserved it! And you're much nicer than I am.

Namaste,

~porcelaine


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RE: Looking for - 1/21/2011 1:13:22 PM   
Falcor64


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Status: offline 		I'm not a female sub, so I can't address the OP's question, but I have to smile at that one liner! Thanks for posting it. :)

Falcor

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RE: Looking for - 1/21/2011 1:21:21 PM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		I especially enjoy crude language and many cock shots. 




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RE: Looking for - 1/21/2011 2:15:50 PM   
LaTigresse


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

I especially enjoy crude language and many cock shots. 





You slut you!


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RE: Looking for - 1/21/2011 2:21:21 PM   
RapierFugue


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

I especially enjoy crude language and many cock shots. 


North Sea Oil!

... and ...


Happy to help :)




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RE: Looking for - 1/21/2011 3:21:18 PM   
WyldHrt


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quote:

submissivewomensecrets.com

From that site:
quote:

All you have to do is run a free online ad and wait for their "Please consider me" introductory emails and pics, then sit back and choose the submissive sluts you find most attractive and instruct them on how and when you'll meet.




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RE: Looking for - 1/21/2011 3:47:09 PM   
RapierFugue


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

submissivewomensecrets.com

From that site:
All you have to do is run a free online ad and wait for their "Please consider me" introductory emails and pics, then sit back and choose the submissive sluts you find most attractive and instruct them on how and when you'll meet.


Yippee!!!

quote:

ORIGINAL: WyldHrt




<realisation starts to dawn>

Oh ... big floppy donkey dick :(

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RE: Looking for - 1/21/2011 5:33:22 PM   
WyldHrt


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Status: offline 		Sorry to disappoint, RF 




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RE: Looking for - 1/21/2011 5:40:48 PM   
RapierFugue


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WyldHrt
Sorry to disappoint, RF 


It did sound slightly too good to be true, but you looked from your pic like you had an honest face.

How wrong I was! :)

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RE: Looking for - 1/22/2011 11:50:51 AM   
Bbare45


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1


2. don't say anything to her that you would not say if you met her in Whole Foods



I don't have Whole Foods here, is Piggly Wiggly ok?

I tend to agree. The few emails I've received have been like a conversation one would have in any public setting.


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