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mysouldesire -> younger men..... older women ? (1/21/2011 9:02:45 PM)
I am wondering..... how many older female submissives/slaves are looking for a mature younger man? Say like 25 yrs your junior. I see many doms with pics in their freinds circle with plenty of younger women 25+ their junior. This I understand...... But which of you ladies seek "younger mature" men ...... if this a deep inside desiren for a younger man? I ask because I could finally admitit out loud in my head, heart and with my lips just a few days ago.... this was a desire hard to admit to.

came4U -> RE: younger men..... older women ? (1/21/2011 9:06:01 PM)
No can do. If I was with a guy 20+ years younger...I'd be his 'bosslady' *shivers then faints from the distressful thought.

sexyred1 -> RE: younger men..... older women ? (1/21/2011 9:06:58 PM)
I don't necessarily seek younger men out...however, my ex is much younger than me and we were together for years and years. Our age difference was a non issue; and we looked great together. Also, I tend to get approached by men younger than me, especially in real life. So I have no problem with a younger man as long as he is mature and can handle me.

Twoshoes -> RE: younger men..... older women ? (1/21/2011 11:35:05 PM)
I seem to attract older women, seemingly by virtue of having a mature attitude towards—well—women. E: I was ahead in terms of emotional maturity growing up, so I couldn't help but be attracted to older women back then. I used to try to charm my teachers (especially my English teachers), my mother's philosopher/psychologist friends and anyone else with a combination of intelligence and sexual maturity. And I'll shamelessly admit I rather enjoyed that all they could do is smile coyly and nod, because I'm really good at nonverbal communication and shrouding everything with ambiguity, which means I never actually flirted overtly enough to get only equally vague reminders about boundaries—basically, I really loved teasing them (and whatever perceived power I imagined that gave me). Anyway, don't worry about your fantasy—it's not that unheard of. But being with someone just because they are a fantasy seems rather distasteful to begin with. So, while older women might hold some appeal, it's not nearly as appealing as someone your own age who you can share life experiences with for the first time and with wonderfully unrealistic dreams for the future.

DesFIP -> RE: younger men..... older women ? (1/22/2011 12:24:44 AM)
25 years younger would mean I would inevitably view him as a kid, because I have children that age. Not to mention he would have more in common with them than with me. But if this is what floats your boat, then go for it.

Twoshoes -> RE: younger men..... older women ? (1/22/2011 12:46:13 AM)
(Edited my complete failure of sentence.) quote: ORIGINAL: Twoshoes E: I was ahead in terms of emotional maturity growing up, so I couldn't help but be attracted to older women back then. I used to try to charm my teachers (especially my English teachers), my mother's philosopher/psychologist friends and anyone else with a combination of intelligence and sexual maturity. And I'll shamelessly admit I rather enjoyed that all they could do is smile coyly and nod. I'm really good at nonverbal communication and shrouding everything with ambiguity, which means I never actually flirted with them overtly enough to warrant much more than vague reminders about boundaries—basically, I really loved teasing them (and whatever perceived power I imagined that gave me).

NocturnalStalker -> RE: younger men..... older women ? (1/22/2011 12:49:14 AM)
I attract airheads. Life is grand.

MsSavra -> RE: younger men..... older women ? (1/22/2011 12:52:03 AM)
I am wondering..... how many older female submissives/slaves are looking for a mature younger man? Me. Count: 1

lally2 -> RE: younger men..... older women ? (1/22/2011 4:08:41 AM)
i dont seek any age specifically, younger men seem to gravitate to me quite a lot, but ive never gone there. id personally like to know why younger men look for women older than them. i always tell them that we're at different stages in our lives. hooking up with an older woman means that kids and family arent going to happen and that the age gap widens again as we start to get even older. in the end i just dont see it lasting through to my dotage and sharing the sunset with someone is important i think.

myotherself -> RE: younger men..... older women ? (1/22/2011 4:50:40 AM)
I haven't ever been attracted to younger men - even 5 or 10 years is a problem for me. There is no reason for this that I can discern, I'm just attracted to people who've lived through the same life experiences that I have. If they can't remember the street parties for the Queen's silver jubilee, then they're far too young! As for 25 years younger - no way. I teach teens for a living, and it would just feel wrong to date someone who was only slightly older than my students. As for submitting to someone that young - just couldn't do it. But having said all that, that's just me. I have friends who date much younger than themselves and are happy doing so. There's nothing wrong with it - it's down to your own personal needs and preferences.

LadyRian -> RE: younger men..... older women ? (1/22/2011 5:57:39 AM)
I like the idea, and certainly wouldn't turn one away just because he was younger! When you start to get to the point where they're mostly younger anyway, I see it as a definite plus that so many seem to desire women older than themselves.

littleone35 -> RE: younger men..... older women ? (1/22/2011 8:13:00 AM)
I have always been attracted to older men. My Master is older than i. If i was not collared i would not turn a younger man away based on age within reason. I am 41 i don't think i could submit to a 21 22 year old. 30 and up it would depend on him and how mature he was. Younger men are not my thing, but OP if it is yours go for it more power to you. Matt's littleone

CaringandReal -> RE: younger men..... older women ? (1/22/2011 8:59:00 AM)
I do not seek younger men out. My first master was 13 years older than me, he set the bar. However, I still seem to encounter/attract a lot of younger men. The age difference always embarasses and discomfits me but I will deal with it, if the have the sort of personality I need. Some do. Far more so than the men my own age or older, I have to admit. Life sucks. :/

HisEvelyn -> RE: younger men..... older women ? (1/22/2011 11:24:18 AM)
At almost 33 years old, I seem to attract a lot of younger men for some reason. 18-24 year olds seem to just really like me. Probably because I'm a huge video gamer who's relatively attractive (certainly no model, but pretty enough), and a lot of men that age are into games. I never really seek them out, they just kind of find me. Master is younger than me by 8 years (he's 25). It wasn't his age that attracted me, however, it was his intelligence, wit and maturity, combined with an irresistible dominant confidence that simply made me melt. I can't imagine NOT submitting to him. But that is just who he is, age has little to do with it.

mysouldesire -> RE: younger men..... older women ? (1/22/2011 12:08:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Twoshoes Anyway, don't worry about your fantasy—it's not that unheard of. But being with someone just because they are a fantasy seems rather distasteful to begin with. So, while older women might hold some appeal, it's not nearly as appealing as someone your own age who you can share life experiences with for the first time and with wonderfully unrealistic dreams for the future. I never did say it was a fantasy twoshoes...so I am not worrying. It might be a fantasy in the back of your mind, since you mentioned it ?? [:D]

mysouldesire -> RE: younger men..... older women ? (1/22/2011 12:13:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HisEvelyn At almost 33 years old, I seem to attract a lot of younger men for some reason. 18-24 year olds seem to just really like me. Probably because I'm a huge video gamer who's relatively attractive (certainly no model, but pretty enough), and a lot of men that age are into games. I never really seek them out, they just kind of find me. Master is younger than me by 8 years (he's 25). It wasn't his age that attracted me, however, it was his intelligence, wit and maturity, combined with an irresistible dominant confidence that simply made me melt. I can't imagine NOT submitting to him. But that is just who he is, age has little to do with it. bingo Evelyn, bingo

HisEvelyn -> RE: younger men..... older women ? (1/22/2011 12:24:09 PM)
Thanks, SoulDesire. Though, I must admit... the fact that my Master is smoking hot didn't hurt his chances with me. :)

mysouldesire -> RE: younger men..... older women ? (1/22/2011 12:41:57 PM)
I know what you mean by smoking hot Evelyn.

sexyred1 -> RE: younger men..... older women ? (1/24/2011 10:30:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyRian I like the idea, and certainly wouldn't turn one away just because he was younger! When you start to get to the point where they're mostly younger anyway, I see it as a definite plus that so many seem to desire women older than themselves. Same here. I never once questioned why a younger man would find me attractive and I have been told that confidence in oneself is what is appealing in any age.

Charles6682 -> RE: younger men..... older women ? (1/24/2011 10:34:21 AM)
2010 was the year of the Cougar and it continues well into 2011!!I see nothing wrong about an age difference.Except for mabe Hugh Heffner being old enough to be someone Granfather!.For the older beautiful Women,I feel,good for them.Society seems okay with older Men and younger Women.So,whats wrong when its in reverse.Lately the past year or so,"Cougars" have been coming out more and they are on the prowl!I have heard of the Flordia Cougar!After all,I live in FL.The Flordia Cougar does not seem so dangerous,well,maybe a little!They might might!

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