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RE: deep throat - 1/25/2011 6:05:58 PM   
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That was Diana, not Anna


yeah, you are right.

Maybe she was thinking of Aynne at the time she said that. ROFL

*not sure I have the right spelling. doh


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RE: deep throat - 1/26/2011 1:50:43 AM   
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we did try forcing and it made me puke



Buy a good flexible silicone dong, next time you have some masturbation time get yourself turned on using this thing, try and deep throat that, just by yourself, no pressure no forcing. Control the gagging,  and as you take it deeper and deeper in your mouth you'll make lots of snot and slime, that is good use it and enjoy it and have a good cum.
Maybe in a while you can do it for him too

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RE: deep throat - 1/26/2011 2:55:51 AM   
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A> Research the difference in fellatio and irumatio

B> Try a "how to" book on sword swallowing

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RE: deep throat - 1/26/2011 4:23:13 AM   
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Are you trying too hard?
You have to be relaxed in order to do it. You also have to be patient, and if you can't do it the first time, I wouldn't be surprised.
Start by handling only what you can, take care of the rest manually. Get accustomed, and WITH TIME AND PRACTICE, you'll be able to stand it more. If it gets difficult AFTER A WHILE, he can help you with his hand... oh and it helps if he's verbally encouraging.
It just takes a while to get used to it, so don't get discouraged or impatient. Take your time. If you keep trying, one way or another you'll get used to it. Just don't push yourself too much. Relax and be patient.

Oh, and no spitting. It's not nice, it's disgusting, for both of you. Swallowing is easier, and sexier.

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RE: deep throat - 1/27/2011 5:21:21 AM   
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Lol, sorry, not laughing at the OP, laughing at the comments - I don't find vomit sexy - if you're bulimic, you might have an overdeveloped gag reflex, or just a sensitive trigger - an ex told me she practiced with her toothbrush until she overcame her gag reflex and she could hold her breath for a really long time.

I try not to go too crazy with somebody inexperienced, go deep, and pull out right away before she vomits - technically, it can be called a form of breath play so you should be careful, and read up on the dangers of breath play - don't know anybody that dropped dead from giving a BJ, but depriving the brain of oxygen for an extended period is never a good thing, give her a chance to breathe.

The best part for me anyway, is when she's all nom, nom, and chasing after it - I've never orgasmed from oral sex, so it's just a stalling tactic for me for the most part.


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RE: deep throat - 1/27/2011 5:30:35 AM   
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he needs to get a firmer grip on your head, problem solved


lol...pretty much. Also hard to resist when you are in restraints.




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RE: deep throat - 1/27/2011 5:41:10 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: came4U

quote:

That was Diana, not Anna


yeah, you are right.

Maybe she was thinking of Aynne at the time she said that. ROFL

*not sure I have the right spelling. doh



Hey!! ! I don't use my teeth ever. Unless of course you are into that.


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RE: deep throat - 1/27/2011 5:53:49 AM   
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Hey!! ! I don't use my teeth ever.

<ticks box on checklist>

<contented sigh>

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RE: deep throat - 1/27/2011 7:24:47 AM   
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C'mere big boy. Let's get snowed in together. .

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RE: deep throat - 1/27/2011 7:34:07 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Aynne88
C'mere big boy. Let's get snowed in together. .


<tapes 2 tennis racquets to feet>

On my way!*

*I would have said "I'm coming!", but in the context of this thread I thought that might be a dangerous statement to make.

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RE: deep throat - 1/27/2011 8:48:20 AM   
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Yes, but that bitch Anna would use her teeth and we all know how much men hate teeth. No matter how hard she tried, she could never cover those chompers.

That was Diana, not Anna

~ GeekyWyld



Right, I forgot the post was about the original V. I am watching the new V right now and Diana is Anna's mother. Anna also can open wide and has big chompers. She is actually much scarier than Diana!!

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RE: deep throat - 1/27/2011 11:12:48 AM   
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Thank you CherryNeko maybe I am trying too hard

Oh and I was always taught that nice girls don't spit, and I do try to be a nice girl.

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RE: deep throat - 1/27/2011 11:17:18 AM   
came4U


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Hey!! ! I don't use my teeth ever. Unless of course you are into that.


nope, been known to bite the occasional ankle or kneecap though.

and only picked you, because you were the only one around here who posts with a name similar to 'anne', that I have seen anyways.


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RE: deep throat - 1/28/2011 12:19:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: oxsub70

I am having trouble deep throating my Master and wondered if anyone has some advice or tips on how to do it as it is something that He really enjoys and I want to be able to please Him



The easiest method that I've had success with is to have the woman lay down on her back on a bed, and hang her head off the edge.  Tongue MUST be out, and usually my dick slides in as easy as when we're doing anal.  Sometimes I can feel something in the back of a girl's throat that feels like a half open door, but when you get the right angle, it slides in without much resistance.

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RE: deep throat - 1/28/2011 12:35:34 PM   
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I've always wondered if practicing with a dildo, where you control the depth of insertion, would help get used to it. Did someone already mention that?

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RE: deep throat - 1/30/2011 2:51:15 PM   
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it helps with your head over the edge of the bed


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RE: deep throat - 2/1/2011 12:31:11 AM   
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ORIGINAL: oxsub70

Thank you CherryNeko maybe I am trying too hard

Oh and I was always taught that nice girls don't spit, and I do try to be a nice girl.



Good luck!!!

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RE: deep throat - 2/3/2011 9:49:44 PM   
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what works for me is to just relax and not get nervous or uptight, but again that's just me......... i love it so much :)

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RE: deep throat - 2/6/2011 4:20:31 PM   
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There isn't really that much too it, besides practice. If you're going for the clean way, just go slowly and do an inch at a time. If you don't mind doing it the dirty way, get in the shower and let the guy decide the pace. If you gag a bit too much, cleanup is easy.

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ORIGINAL: NovaDomme01

I agree with OSF and SexyRed1... Have him grab a handful of hair and force the issue.  Something I have found that works very well when teaching a sub to deep throat a strap-on, is to have them kneel with their back against the wall, place my legs one on each side of their body, grab a fist full of hair, force the strap-on down their throat and hold them there.  Personally I enjoy watching them gag and struggle to do anything to get away from it.  Generally, if you talk to them calmly, remind them to breathe through their nose, and just let them get used to it for a few minutes, they start to get the hang of it.  If not... simply rinse and repeat.  :-)

Hope this helps! 



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RE: deep throat - 2/14/2011 3:17:17 PM   
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I'd like to learn to do this also. My first Master was very "gifted" and I always thought that one day I'd like to have this ability. There is something enthralling about submitting to this for me, but as I'm not a masochist, I want it to be something I can give without ridiculous suffering. I like the idea of me controlling the movement until I'm good at it, but ultimately, the appealing part is having to take whatever comes...I'm optimistic the techniques in the link will help. Now, I don't have a Master to practice on (and don't want one!) But if I did, I would, over and over and over :D

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