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How do you treat your master during play - 5/2/2006 8:36:12 AM   
gloriousangel


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Hi subs/and slaves

I would like to know how you treat your master during play.  I have been a slave now for nearly a month and things are going really well.

During one of my play sessions at a club I was back chatting my master and I did not realise I done wrong until he offered my arse the cane and my master knows I do not like the cane infact I hate it.

Is there any times when you have disobeyed you master and what happened

Please share experiences with me

I have also learnt a position which could get me out of be severly being punished

Thank you for your time and help
GloriousAngel

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RE: How do you treat your master during play - 5/2/2006 8:48:14 AM   
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i don't believe i understand the question.  i treat Him like i would when W/we are not in play.  Perhaps even with more respect and humility.

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RE: How do you treat your master during play - 5/2/2006 8:50:57 AM   
gloriousangel


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do you ever have a misunderstanding.


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RE: How do you treat your master during play - 5/2/2006 8:58:10 AM   
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glorious, do you mean during play, after a misunderstanding in which you feel the need for atonement but are looking for a way to "make it up to him" type situation?


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RE: How do you treat your master during play - 5/2/2006 8:58:13 AM   
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i think your Master must be teaching you how He wants you to treat Him, or he would not have offered your rump the cane, some Masters are more subtle in training then otheres

As for how i treat my Master, i treat Him with the upmost respect, i honour Him from the very depth of my soul, there are time when i treat Him as my best friend, my fiance and the man of my dreams as well and for those times that i step out of line He punishes me however He sees fit


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RE: How do you treat your master during play - 5/2/2006 8:58:24 AM   
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there are many times when i am getting punished and dont know why! of course, afterwards it gets explained to me or even while im being tied up to prepare for my punishment. as a new slave... i have a lot to learn. i am on  a long journey to become homebound. i see many punishments coming my way!

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RE: How do you treat your master during play - 5/2/2006 9:03:09 AM   
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Oh, i just read the title of your post ! i', sorry, i'm sleepy !

How do i treat my Master durning play? i treat Him as if He were god to me, for he provides everything i need, i trust Him with my body and mind and well being, i treat Him as He wants me to treat Him, still with respect like i posted above, to me, He is my world, my focus is only on Him and the task He wants me to do next

i dunno if that helps any...good luck


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RE: How do you treat your master during play - 5/2/2006 9:18:33 AM   
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How can you do something wrong and not even know what it was? Did he tell you exactly what the rule was? and did you nod your head and say "Yes Sir, I understand?"
If you did, then you knew you were doing something wrong, and if you didn't, then either he never told you it was a rule or was not clear in telling you what he wanted.


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RE: How do you treat your master during play - 5/2/2006 9:18:58 AM   
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I'm utterly confused.  Are you asking how we act towards them during a scene?  How we act when we're in public? 

Punishment without understanding of why?  Punishment without given clear explanation of expectations?  This all sounds like games that lead straight to Insecurity City to me.

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RE: How do you treat your master during play - 5/2/2006 9:42:41 AM   
unquenchable


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Confused here too.

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RE: How do you treat your master during play - 5/2/2006 9:57:18 AM   
TNstepsout


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

I'm utterly confused.  Are you asking how we act towards them during a scene?  How we act when we're in public? 

Punishment without understanding of why?  Punishment without given clear explanation of expectations?  This all sounds like games that lead straight to Insecurity City to me.


I just have to say LA, it seems strange hearing your words coming from a purple bunny.

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RE: How do you treat your master during play - 5/2/2006 9:57:58 AM   
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what i mean is he gave me permission to go to the club and he did not give me a time to be home so then I felt bad as if i made the error or not listened well  In the end he told me that he was wrong as well

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RE: How do you treat your master during play - 5/2/2006 10:00:10 AM   
gloriousangel


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

I'm utterly confused.  Are you asking how we act towards them during a scene?  How we act when we're in public? 

Punishment without understanding of why?  Punishment without given clear explanation of expectations?  This all sounds like games that lead straight to Insecurity City to me.


Yes during a scene and when out in public. you have hit the nail on the head

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RE: How do you treat your master during play - 5/2/2006 11:09:19 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: gloriousangel

Yes during a scene and when out in public. you have hit the nail on the head



during a scene:  with humble respect to His wishes and what pleases Him.  for example, if He decides any verbal responses or physical reactions from His slave are restricted, then they will be restrained.
 
when out in public:  same as above--with humble respect for His wishes and what pleases Him, also with quiet devotion, obvious admiration and displays of affection.

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RE: How do you treat your master during play - 5/2/2006 11:11:47 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: gloriousangel

what i mean is he gave me permission to go to the club and he did not give me a time to be home so then I felt bad as if i made the error or not listened well  In the end he told me that he was wrong as well


If he didn't tell you when to be home he had no right to punish you if you were later than he would have liked. You said he told you he was wrong "as well". "As well" as what? You didn't do anything wrong. Don't feel bad, it was his mistake. Hopefully he'll learn to be more precise in his instructions and will realize he should not punish you for his error. 

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RE: How do you treat your master during play - 5/2/2006 11:19:30 AM   
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During a scene, it depends. If he's doing a 'take down,' then I fight, those are visceral and primal and we both come out bloody and spent afterwards.. and feeling absolutely yummy. If it's high protocol then the behavior he requires during high protocol is the behavior he expects and gets.  I am not 'nice' and 'respectful' when he turns me into an animal and I'm not a bitch from the depths of hell when he requires grace and tranquility.

Outside of play, he is treated as anyone would treat someone whom they adore and who owns them... with respect, admiration, loyalty and service.

Celeste

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RE: How do you treat your master during play - 5/2/2006 11:19:37 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: TNstepsout
I just have to say LA, it seems strange hearing your words coming from a purple bunny.


Heehee, my actual bunny costume is white and pink and very sexy.

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RE: How do you treat your master during play - 5/2/2006 11:21:19 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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ORIGINAL: gloriousangel
Yes during a scene and when out in public. you have hit the nail on the head


During a scene- whatever comes, comes.  I'm expected to communicate when something is wrong, I'm expected to respond to him, I'm expected to obey.  But beyond that, if a reaction or emotion comes out, then it's there and dealt with as natural.

In general public- as a normal person.  90% of the time you wouldn't notice anything different, except deference and tending to him before myself

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RE: How do you treat your master during play - 5/2/2006 12:10:44 PM   
gloriousangel


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Thank you very much

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RE: How do you treat your master during play - 5/3/2006 12:55:39 AM   
gloriousangel


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Does anybody here hate the cane

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