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RE: looking for my dominatrix - 1/24/2011 10:26:41 AM

BonesFromAsh

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

And like my girlfriend Bones said above - women aren't summoned like genies. They need effort. And the right ones are worth it.

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ORIGINAL: flameyalive
This is for darksteven thanks man for the advice i know what im looking for but didnt know how to go about it and yes your wife is compleatly right the right one is worth it!!

I think I missed a memo.

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RE: looking for my dominatrix - 1/24/2011 10:41:50 AM

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That DarkSteven is SO domly!

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RE: looking for my dominatrix - 1/24/2011 10:43:39 AM

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If one wants to look for a top then one should look and search but keeping in mind, a top is a person and it is not like going to the store and going to room # 16 looking under Domme. It may take a while but in the search you might learn a lot along the way.

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RE: looking for my dominatrix - 1/24/2011 10:45:40 AM

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Well, Bones, if looks like flameyalive just officiated at our marriage. Report to Colorado and commence your wifely duties.

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RE: looking for my dominatrix - 1/24/2011 10:52:46 AM

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The thing is, it's romantic to think that you can find someone that completes you... but really that isn't much more than a romantic thought and it isn't realistic. Expecting someone to fix you up, to fit into your life as you are without fixing yourself up, defeating yourself and expecting too much that you owe yourself, isn't realistic. We don't have to be perfect, but we darn well need to polish ourselves up. It isn't that someone cannot complete certain things in our life because they can and do... but we have to be working as a whole person.

Wanting someone and focusing on certain aspects, not willing to do the work to get someone... will hinder our search and relationships will suffer. We can't think our wounds/experiences make us special and less should be expected of us. We can't diminish submission or the submissive by being helpless and thinking all we have to do is be there and someone will do what we want and need.

Doing so, will keep people from us and run them off because most are seeking someone that has done their emotional homework and have worked out some things on their own. Complaining that it isn't happening is proof at least to me, that someone hasn't done some emotional homework and self refinement.

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RE: looking for my dominatrix - 1/24/2011 10:58:31 AM

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Well, Bones, if looks like flameyalive just officiated at our marriage. Report to Colorado and commence your wifely duties.

Wifely duties ?!?!

What happened to the wine and dine...the flirting...the "journey"?

And we need to have a talk about all these CM women you've recently collared.

Mazel Tov

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RE: looking for my dominatrix - 1/24/2011 11:00:23 AM

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LOL BonesFromAsh!

She's got you Steven! I can't say I am not enjoying this! lol

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RE: looking for my dominatrix - 1/24/2011 11:19:11 AM

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We've been married less than forty minutes and you're already complaining? What happened to the honeymoon period?

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RE: looking for my dominatrix - 1/24/2011 11:20:58 AM

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ORIGINAL: BonesFromAsh
Wifely duties ?!?!

What happened to the wine and dine...the flirting...the "journey"?

And we need to have a talk about all these CM women you've recently collared.

Mazel Tov

Look at the bright side. Your new marriage already includes a house staff and plenty of people to make cookies.

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RE: looking for my dominatrix - 1/24/2011 11:22:41 AM

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ORIGINAL: BonesFromAsh
Wifely duties ?!?!

What happened to the wine and dine...the flirting...the "journey"?

And we need to have a talk about all these CM women you've recently collared.

Mazel Tov

Look at the bright side. Your new marriage already includes a house staff and plenty of people to make cookies.

At this point I think the cookie eaters outnumber the cookie makers.

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RE: looking for my dominatrix - 1/24/2011 11:24:09 AM

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It's pretty good sized but I wouldn't call it a "house staff".

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RE: looking for my dominatrix - 1/24/2011 11:26:07 AM

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We've been married less than forty minutes and you're already complaining? What happened to the honeymoon period?

*sigh*....it seems to have gone the way of the courtship. I'm an old-fashioned kinda gal, ya know.

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RE: looking for my dominatrix - 1/24/2011 11:29:13 AM

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Look at the bright side. Your new marriage already includes a house staff and plenty of people to make cookies.

Hmmmm, I see your point. Lady of the Cookie Manor....has a nice ring to it.

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RE: looking for my dominatrix - 1/24/2011 11:30:51 AM

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You have a point, Bones. I'm kinda busy, but I'll see if I can schedule in some courtship time later this year.

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RE: looking for my dominatrix - 1/24/2011 11:47:33 AM

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Steven, darling, I think we may have jumped the gun a bit. I'm also busy and while Colorado is a lovely state to fly over, I'm more of a coastal kind of lady.

I also have to admit to a unbreakable love of pork products.

I'm sure you'll find the right one...just give it time. Remember to enjoy the journey itself, not just the destination.

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RE: looking for my dominatrix - 1/24/2011 11:59:50 AM

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Young kids nowadays. Never take commitments seriously.

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RE: looking for my dominatrix - 1/24/2011 2:44:47 PM

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ORIGINAL: BonesFromAsh
I also have to admit to a unbreakable love of pork products.

A fetish for pork bellies? Really? :)

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RE: looking for my dominatrix - 1/25/2011 3:46:49 PM

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shall i drop another boo boo? what are all these women doing out of the ketchen any way!? wait for it guys its gonner expload!!!

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RE: looking for my dominatrix - 1/25/2011 3:50:41 PM

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Nah. I'm thinking you did enough of the boo-hoo thing when the thread was created. The kitchen comment is just nailing the coffin shut.

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RE: looking for my dominatrix - 1/25/2011 3:50:49 PM

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You wish, it just showed you're trolling... We don't tend to feed trolls - much.

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