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RE: older men - 2/12/2011 8:32:41 PM

blkswitch

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OMG, I'm so with you on older men that don't take care of themselves and want the young woman.

But to each his own.

Just don't bother me (cause I really expect them to read my profile and of course they don't) lol

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ORIGINAL: lizi

........I'm not sure why people aren't entitled to look for what they have themselves determined to be what they want. If I want cereal for breakfast I'm pretty much going to have it. I don't find much older men attractive to me sexually, so I'm not going to choose them as a partner no matter how much experience they have.

Are you saying that submissives are supposed to just accept play or a relationship with an older man because he desires it and claims experience? How....quaint. If that's the case it seems rather self-serving doesn't it....?

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RE: older men - 2/16/2011 2:46:56 AM

Nanako

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Hello sir, im replying without having read the thread

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ORIGINAL: keepmehard

why do subs say that age is a factor? it sseems to me a lot of subs are just looking for boyfriends, not an experienced master

Would you have dated a 68 year old woman when you were young? A lot of subs DO like older men, but 68 is just too old for many of the younger ones.

In addition, your profile, and your username, read like you're only about kink. says nothing about you as a person, and doesn't speak any details about this apparent experience you have. I can see that a lot of subs would reject you on those grounds, and use your age as an excuse so you don't try to change their mind

Be a person, and not a cardboard cutout

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RE: older men - 2/16/2011 3:59:32 AM

Sundowner

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I love younger people - they're amazing (and I should know, I used to be one). In business I make time for them, employ them, and it's usually very rewarding. Commonly they teach me a lot and - how wonderful - we find I can teach them a lot too.

I've lots of older friends and business colleagues and they have their place but on balance I prefer the youngsters.

And - surprise surprise - that preference extends to the bedroom too with the added advantage that a twenty-something usually looks a lot hotter than a sixty-something. Not so easy to meet young ladies who enjoy older men's company in bedroom play, but not impossible.

I think the OP has the situation turned on its head. In vanilla situations it's more common to see the same age groups in close personal relationships; but when it comes to bdsm stuff it's less uncommon to see young girl and older man.

So stop complaining and see the bigger picture - you're going to have better opportunities to get up close and personal with a younger girl in a dom/sub context than in a vanilla one. Aren't we the lucky ones!

And sheesh OP - the picture of your dick in your profile (the last one with the clothespegs)? Not only on the small side but it's absolutely the strangest dick I've ever seen - I would so remove that if I were you. Maybe that's what's putting girls off?

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RE: older men - 2/16/2011 4:20:36 AM

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And sheesh OP - the picture of your dick in your profile (the last one with the clothespegs)? Not only on the small side but it's absolutely the strangest dick I've ever seen - I would so remove that if I were you. Maybe that's what's putting girls off?

Good grief, 3 weeks into this thread and his profile is still lame. Sheesh. I didn't look at his pics last time. Ick to the cock shot!

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RE: older men - 2/16/2011 6:38:09 AM

Killerangel

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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

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And sheesh OP - the picture of your dick in your profile (the last one with the clothespegs)? Not only on the small side but it's absolutely the strangest dick I've ever seen - I would so remove that if I were you. Maybe that's what's putting girls off?

Good grief, 3 weeks into this thread and his profile is still lame. Sheesh. I didn't look at his pics last time. Ick to the cock shot!

Dear God why did I look! Holy cow.

The profile is different and better in some ways, but now it's almost empty. The interests are almost all kink, there just isn't anything there that is personal or intriguing but I wish the OP happy hunting and please consider taking out the cock in a plastic tube w/clothespins picture. If I were considering writing you that would seriously make me run for the hills. I'm not being snarky, that is NOT good advertising.

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RE: older men - 2/16/2011 7:24:32 AM

LillyBoPeep

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i keep looking for this bizarre alien cock, but all i see is a clit in a suction device. =p (pumps are pretty fun to play with really! =p hahaha)

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RE: older men - 2/16/2011 9:07:45 AM

RapierFugue

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ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep

i keep looking for this bizarre alien cock, but all i see is a clit in a suction device. =p (pumps are pretty fun to play with really! =p hahaha)

"It's like a penis ... only smaller" :)

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RE: older men - 2/16/2011 10:28:03 AM

Sundowner

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ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep

i keep looking for this bizarre alien cock, but all i see is a clit in a suction device. =p (pumps are pretty fun to play with really! =p hahaha)

Duh.

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RE: older men - 2/16/2011 1:58:07 PM

oceanwynds2

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That age thing...I was married to someone 15 yrs my senior. The age factor never played in. Now that I am getting up there in numbers, it still doesn't play a major factor. If the person has a wide variety of interests, it is easy for me to be among them, but if they can only sing songs of fantasy and cant get past the female body, they will begin to bore me senselessly.

I have met a few "Masters" who personally I thought their years as a practicing Dom/Master, would give them credence. I learned quickly not the case. Number of years just means that, and nothing else in my eyes.

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RE: older men - 2/16/2011 3:09:42 PM

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Lol @ alien penis comments- "OMG Look at that... Oh, wait, it's just a strange mushroom. We're clear ppl!"

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RE: older men - 2/16/2011 4:24:56 PM

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OP, so you've now taken down the offending pic. 1 point for you. Your written profile is 1 line and your interests list just about every kink imaginable. -9 points.

Also realize that some subs, myself included, don't want someone who's closer in age to their own father than their own age. In this case, you're 20 yrs older than me, but only 7 yrs younger than my dad. Personally, that just doesn't appeal to me. A 10 yr difference, plus or minus a few years is more *my* generation. Same points of reference I should hope, more of the same preferences, etc.

A submissive in most cases doesn't want to be seen as just there to satisfy your needs. She has needs of her own that must be met or she'll wither under your care. I don't want that for me. Been there, done that, wore the t-shirt to shreds. I want to be treated as a human being and have vanilla interests we would both enjoy together.

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RE: older men - 2/21/2011 10:58:43 PM

sublime65

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I think women hlike older m3en . For many reasons .

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RE: older men - 2/22/2011 5:32:35 AM

reekon

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OP It looks like your into younger girls for what reason? is it purely sexaul ( what i am thinking) or do you think they make better subs?
why not find a sub more your own age? I think you find younger girls more attractive that's why you want them

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RE: older men - 2/22/2011 7:34:34 AM

yournewfriendx

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ORIGINAL: keepmehard

why do subs say that age is a factor? it sseems to me a lot of subs are just looking for boyfriends, not an experienced master

You kind off give off a creepy negitive vibe my friend. Go back to the drawing board and don't look for that person you have in your imagination because she is only in your imagination. You are online but this is not porn, these are real people just like you and I. Take a good long hard honest look at who you are and then look at profiles of people that are looking for you. This is a good place to start.

Keep a positive attitude and just have fun making new friends, everything else will just happen.

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RE: older men - 2/22/2011 4:04:53 PM

MsNightShade

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: keepmehard

i want to thank everyone who answered my question and it brought me to the realization that a lot of them were right. i did sound like a 20 year old sleezeball, so i chamged my profile to what i am looking for

I'm really glad you said this.

You know, it occurs to Me that someday (in 20+ years) I am also going to be a senior citizen. At that point in My life, chances are that there is going to be somebody out there who is at least twenty years younger than Me, who is more appealing to play with, and who has a much greater longevity factor for a long term relationship. When that time comes, I am going to have to accept the fact that it's somebody else's stage and I've already had My turn.