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ORIGINAL: someuniquename

This spawned from an old fantasy of mine but have any of You Ladies studied martial arts as a little extra asset to add to Your bag of tricks and help You out in the dungeon?  Have You considered or think it may be a good idea to learn some control techniques or if You are already a skilled martial artist, do You make use of it during sessions?  I would think that Female Dominants in particular would really benefit from those kinds of skills given that in BDSM, we sometimes play with people we’ve only known for a short time and a little self defense skills aren’t a bad thing to have.
 
Besides, if used with care and by an expert, they could add an interesting dimension to a Domme/sub relationship.
 
Respectfully,
 someuniquename