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LadyConstanze -> RE: BDSM and good 'ol sex! (1/26/2011 5:44:30 PM)
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ORIGINAL: fucksuckwhore
I've been told my screen name is a bit off-putting - quote 'sounds like it should be on adult friendfinder'; or on a porno films credits. All offers for the latter. please go direct to my inbox! But - it says how I regard myself, and to a great extent the way I want to be treated in a relationship. But I've also been criticised for not being 'service orientated' and basically wanting a kinky sex relationship. Hang on; what exactly is wrong with me wanting that, if its my thing? Why should I have to be offering myself to 'serve' others; unless they, as is made clear in my profile, are interested in the kind of service I am interested in giving? This 'service orientation'in my view can be a great way for women, and men, to genuinely 'use' someone to do what they want, and then spit them out. I have in fact been used in exactly that way in the past. Once I'd done all her back ironing, helped her with her studies and boarded out her loft, I was dumped. So, question: is bdsm in reality about one person serving another? Or is it about glorious foreplay for good sex?
You've been told so because you asked why people delete your mails unread
http://www.collarchat.com/m_3544788/mpage_1/tm.htm
Nothing wrong with wanting what you want, but you asked why people might delete your mails unread, people gave you suggestions...
You think BDSM is just about foreplay for good sex, again nothing wrong with it but possibly not something everybody here agrees with, hence after a quick scan of your profile people possibly delete your mails unread because they will think you're not compatible or they might not like the profile.
Look, why are you bothered about it if you're getting what you want? Shouldn't you be laughing about getting it in the way you want it? Now if you don't then possibly a few people gave you hints about why not, but again, you can just ignore it all if you're getting what you want as often as you want it...
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