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What kind of submissive/slave are you - 1/29/2011 2:45:10 PM   
osf


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Status: offline 		i see submissives/slaves falling into 3 major types, there may be more

1 taken in hand where they want a father figure/disciplinarian but not a lot of wild kink

2 the maso that enjoys what is done to her or made to do but is not service inclined

3 the one needing minute control and is willing to do and endure anything for that level of control, she needs strict structure/rules

am I missing any?

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RE: What kind of submissive/slave are you - 1/29/2011 2:52:14 PM   
MaxsGirl


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Status: offline 		4, all of the above.  I need strict control, a good amount of play (but not a ton of pain, I'm not really a masochist), and someone who treats me like a pet and spoils me a bit.

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RE: What kind of submissive/slave are you - 1/29/2011 2:56:15 PM   
LillyBoPeep


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Status: offline 		5. service oriented ones who aren't really masochists but play because it's a way to serve

6. those motivated by love, and those who aren't

as for myself, i'm a "point between" several of those. a service oriented, masochistic, slave-leaning slutty girl who is fond of control, brute strength, creativity and love. and a rational, realistic viewpoint on the lifestyle. =p lawlz.


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RE: What kind of submissive/slave are you - 1/29/2011 3:01:33 PM   
preytolife


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Status: offline 		I think so. I don't need a daddy or someone to write a schedule for me. I want a fucking alpha-type who can keep up with me, who's stronger than I am and not afraid to knock me on my ass to show it. I'm competent and opinionated and pretty damn mouthy, but after a while I just feel lost without someone in the lead. Does that make me a mix of all three too? I dunno.

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RE: What kind of submissive/slave are you - 1/29/2011 3:07:27 PM   
Kittenmrow


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Status: offline 		Definitely a mix of all of those.  :) Everybody else has explained it in ways that I agree with, so I'm not going to talk a whole lot about it since my point of view matches the ones before me. :)

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RE: What kind of submissive/slave are you - 1/29/2011 3:09:27 PM   
Phoenixpower


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ORIGINAL: Kittenmrow

Definitely a mix of all of those.  :) Everybody else has explained it in ways that I agree with, so I'm not going to talk a whole lot about it since my point of view matches the ones before me. :)


what she said

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RE: What kind of submissive/slave are you - 1/29/2011 3:14:35 PM   
peppermint


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Status: offline 		How about the ones who love to feel needed?  They love to do things for others.  They like to make another's life easier or better in some way.  

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RE: What kind of submissive/slave are you - 1/29/2011 3:26:03 PM   
happylittlepet


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quote:

ORIGINAL: osf

i see submissives/slaves falling into 3 major types, there may be more

1 taken in hand where they want a father figure/disciplinarian but not a lot of wild kink

2 the maso that enjoys what is done to her or made to do but is not service inclined

3 the one needing minute control and is willing to do and endure anything for that level of control, she needs strict structure/rules

am I missing any?


Would any of these major types that you list meet your expectations, standards, approval, or fit with how you define either submissive or slave.

When I look at each type I wonder who has more control, the D/M or the s/s.

Each type you describe is in great contrast with what you want, as per your sigline:

i want a woman to make into the woman she never wanted to become

Would such a woman be a slave? Or is there some other term?


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RE: What kind of submissive/slave are you - 1/29/2011 3:28:31 PM   
TotalDiscipline


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i want a woman to make into the woman she never wanted to become

Would such a woman be a slave? Or is there some other term?


I think they call themselfs Dolls
Sqw a few profiles from females that want body modifications and such.

< Message edited by TotalDiscipline -- 1/29/2011 3:29:10 PM >

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RE: What kind of submissive/slave are you - 1/29/2011 4:03:08 PM   
osf


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quote:

ORIGINAL: happylittlepet

quote:

ORIGINAL: osf

i see submissives/slaves falling into 3 major types, there may be more

1 taken in hand where they want a father figure/disciplinarian but not a lot of wild kink

2 the maso that enjoys what is done to her or made to do but is not service inclined

3 the one needing minute control and is willing to do and endure anything for that level of control, she needs strict structure/rules

am I missing any?


Would any of these major types that you list meet your expectations, standards, approval, or fit with how you define either submissive or slave.

When I look at each type I wonder who has more control, the D/M or the s/s.

Each type you describe is in great contrast with what you want, as per your sigline:

i want a woman to make into the woman she never wanted to become

Would such a woman be a slave? Or is there some other term?



most of us grow up with learned expectations of what we may think we want

it takes a bit to unlearn


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RE: What kind of submissive/slave are you - 1/29/2011 4:22:38 PM   
angelfire83


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Status: offline 		 I am a lot like you but i am also driven by LOVE. my Dom was my best friend for many years. We dated before he was into the lifestyle, and now we are back together and he is teaching me the ropes. I serve him because I love him and because it pleases me to serve him. I like feeling needed. I feel like it gives me a purpose. 

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RE: What kind of submissive/slave are you - 1/29/2011 4:27:59 PM   
IrishMist


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quote:

ORIGINAL: osf

i see submissives/slaves falling into 3 major types, there may be more

1 taken in hand where they want a father figure/disciplinarian but not a lot of wild kink

2 the maso that enjoys what is done to her or made to do but is not service inclined

3 the one needing minute control and is willing to do and endure anything for that level of control, she needs strict structure/rules

am I missing any?

What about the masochist, who needs structure and control, is not submissive, yet is willing to submit unconditionally to the right kind of person...and not because the masochist is getting what 'they' want...but because they truly want to give their partner everything within them?

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RE: What kind of submissive/slave are you - 1/29/2011 5:04:34 PM   
nightfury


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Status: offline 		It is kind of like having a lot of different ingredients to make a drink...too many different ones to name and the different ingredients all make a different drink...I am just a Master...plain and simple...lol

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RE: What kind of submissive/slave are you - 1/29/2011 5:46:27 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		none of the above.

Just me who happens to be a submissive personality and I serve him because he inspires me to want to do so in whatever way he wants.

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RE: What kind of submissive/slave are you - 1/29/2011 5:48:48 PM   
kalikshama


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ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep

as for myself, i'm a "point between" several of those. a service oriented, masochistic, slave-leaning slutty girl who is fond of control, brute strength, creativity and love. and a rational, realistic viewpoint on the lifestyle. =p lawlz.





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RE: What kind of submissive/slave are you - 1/29/2011 6:26:46 PM   
LPslittleclip


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Status: offline 		i am a service oriented masso slave i have a need to be loved so i am a very lucky slave to have found my Mistress

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RE: What kind of submissive/slave are you - 1/29/2011 7:08:45 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		None of the above. I'm in it for emotional transparency and love. Oh and hot bondage and sex can't be beat either.

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RE: What kind of submissive/slave are you - 1/29/2011 7:30:08 PM   
MaxsGirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: preytolife

I think so. I don't need a daddy or someone to write a schedule for me. I want a fucking alpha-type who can keep up with me, who's stronger than I am and not afraid to knock me on my ass to show it. I'm competent and opinionated and pretty damn mouthy, but after a while I just feel lost without someone in the lead. Does that make me a mix of all three too? I dunno.


How did I manage to create another screen name and post this without realizing it?

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RE: What kind of submissive/slave are you - 1/29/2011 9:51:51 PM   
mummyman321


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Status: offline 		I cannot speak for the female side of subs/slave but from the male side those 3 do not cover me. I would classify me as service oriented. A bondage freak with a bit of a masochistic streak. Someone who adores TPE. I am very dominant outside of my submission to a Domme.

subs/slaves comes in all varieties and flavors. To try and stereo type one is just silly.

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RE: What kind of submissive/slave are you - 1/30/2011 12:23:10 AM   
TotalDiscipline


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Status: offline 		In the years here..I also noticed there is a type of sub/slave..that does need attention ( they feel very lonely and are desperate for a partner)...and serve you in return.

But even then..they are all unique.

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