Aynne88
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Is there something that he really likes for a treat for himself? Like a specialty food item or wine? My man loves a certain type of cigar so a while ago I went to a shop out of town that carries the and got him 2 boxes, along with a sweet card and a bottle of his favorite scotch. I delivered it to him at the office and he was really really touched, not just that I bought them but that I went out of my way to hunt them down, and make it a surprise. Last winter he was feeling really run down and I did a bunch of online research and set him up with a fantastic herbalogist right here in town that I wasn't even aware of, he loved it. She really made a difference in his energy and he was so grateful that I took notice and was proactive in taking steps to do something beneficial. Keep in mind that I am his sub not a slave and fairly on my own as far as making those kind of decisions, he loves my take charge attitude when it comes to servicing him, we aren't high protocol and he is quite open to my new ideas for him, like the herbalist and acupuncture, but a lot of Doms might not like someone so independent that way, so just keep that in mind. Good luck :)
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