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Why do woman nag?

They like to eat away at the guy

9% (4)

They do not realize they do it

11% (5)

They love conflict

9% (4)

They don't nag- they "discuss"

27% (12)

because chatter is love to them

20% (9)

to raise the guys bood pressure!

6% (3)

Unsure

13% (6)

Total Votes : 43

(last vote on : 9/21/2011 2:15:53 AM)
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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/3/2011 5:04:07 PM

Icarys

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Do you enjoy sleeping with your eyes open?

I know you're joking abit

but I'll answer that anyway.

If I felt like I was with someone I needed to keep one eye open for..She'd be one of two things...Handcuffed to something immovable or out the door for good..It's not something I worry about.

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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/3/2011 5:15:22 PM

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ORIGINAL: 0ldhen

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

If you bitchslap most of them..they usually shut up. If that doesn't work..there's always choke them till their eyes roll back.

Do you enjoy sleeping with your eyes open?

Back in the 70's there was a lady whose husband beat her. One night she waited until he was drunk and passed out. Then using a carpet needle she carefully sewed the blanket to the mattress, then took a baseball bat to his head.

She did time but he never bothered her again.

True story, I think her first name was Jody. I'll have to see if i can locate that one online somewhere.

When I got out of jail, she would regret that I was a good long distance marksman.

I wouldn't necessarily shoot, but she would know for the rest of her life that her next second might be her last.

Would it be worth it?

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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/3/2011 5:15:34 PM

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Looking back, I take my feeling a need to nag, as a sign of being in a relationship with someone I’m not compatible with. The things that mattered most to me; paying bills; reliable transportation; a decent place to live; picking up after one’s self, among other things, just didn’t rank as high with them.

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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/3/2011 5:18:26 PM

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Hunky, I get the feeling that you're getting nagged. Make sure that the woman is in agreement with what's happening, and she won't nag.

You forget, he's gay. The woman in question is either his mother or his elderly female neighbor. They're being the parent and he's playing the child. If he would interact as an adult, it wouldn't happen.

what about his sister?

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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/3/2011 5:18:54 PM

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By the way, My definition of nagging is more or less this. Your SO says at dinner "honey, the gutters need to be cleaned out". Next morning, you're walking out back with the ladder over your shoulder and she pokes her head out the door and says "Hey, don't you remember, the gutters need cleaning".

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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/3/2011 5:27:45 PM

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Because most males ignore difficult subjects and won't sit down and discuss them. The woman feels unheard and invalidated and presses the point in order to feel heard and not marginalized. If a man would give an honest answer saying that he heard her, he needs to think about the subject, and he'll sit down come Saturday over coffee to discuss it, and then do just that, then women wouldn't need to be repetitive.

Strangely enough, the problem will not go away if you hide your head in the sand long enough.

Oh that's so true. But you can say that to a man over and over again, until you're blue in the face. But will he listen? Will he hell!

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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/3/2011 5:44:42 PM

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I won't speak for all women, but if I'm doing what could be called nagging it's because I have the need to repeat Myself when the issue is not resolved. In other words, if we have brought it up before and I'm told that X will be done on Saturday, I actually expect X to be done on Saturday. I'm the same way about Myself though. If I said Saturday, barring emergencies, it's done Saturday.

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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/3/2011 6:42:20 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I'm the same way about Myself though. If I said Saturday, barring emergencies, it's done Saturday.

Me, too...

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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/3/2011 6:48:24 PM

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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I'm the same way about Myself though. If I said Saturday, barring emergencies, it's done Saturday.

Me, too...

Ah, but did you specify which Saturday?

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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/3/2011 6:52:34 PM

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Contractual details... very smartly played, DC.

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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/3/2011 7:06:02 PM

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

Nobody in my intimate relationships has the authority to look over my shoulder..If I said I'd do it I'll do it..In my time not hers.

If I decide not to do it then I don't...It's all up to me..Just the way I like it. A female pushing me to do things usually winds up not getting what she wants.

Not an unusual response. But I don't see it as a matter of authority... more a matter of trustworthiness. How can you ever depend on someone when you never know if or when they'll do what they say? Obstinacy and unpredictability aren't terribly reassuring character traits.

It is one thing if it's a generic comment like, "we're going to start working out." There's no time frame associated with that, and I'm not likely to make any comment as a reminder. If, however, I'm told something specific like, "we're going to go to the gym on Saturday morning at 9am" and then he carelessly stays up until the wee hours Saturday morning then sleeps until 1pm, I'm likely to ask for confirmation if he makes plans to go the following Saturday. If again the plans go by the wayside, then I'm going to wonder if he can be trusted to keep his word. *

It really has nothing to do with dominance, either. So you want to control your life. No problem. Take responsibility for what you do, and what you say you're going to do. Don't let some little ol' female wrest promises out of you that you have no desire to keep.

Sheesh... I can manage to do that and I'm just a submissive.

* Disclaimer: This is an entirely fictitious example. Firm never promises to go to the gym. We have one at home, anyway.

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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/3/2011 7:37:56 PM

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How can you ever depend on someone when you never know if or when they'll do what they say?

Actions and time. Simple..Do I need to tell her that I'm going to clean the gutters on Saturday? No..She'll see by my actions that I get things done. I haven't come as far as I have in life doing the opposite of what needed to be done.

The rest of what you've written is irrelevant as far as I'm concerned.

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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/3/2011 7:46:22 PM

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

I haven't come as far as I have in life doing the opposite of what needed to be done.

If you're with a compatible partner with whom you are in agreement about what needs to be done, then you likely don't have a problem with "nagging". Good for you.

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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/3/2011 8:12:12 PM

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If you're with a compatible partner with whom you are in agreement about what needs to be done, then you likely don't have a problem with "nagging". Good for you.

I wouldn't have a problem with it one way or another Treasure. Have I had a female attempt to do what I would call nagging? Sure I have. I just don't put up with it.

William brought up a similar scenario that I've had before. I had planned on doing some work around the house ealry in the day and got a little sidetracked as I can on occasion. Melanie and I were new together so there was of course a learning curve for her in how I did things. She learned quickly that I would do what I said but that I didn't always work by a voiced schedule outwardly. She also learned that certain days were more relaxed than others..Like the weekend. and so on and so on.

I imagine most of you still think I'm single huh?

I wouldn't have it any other way or would I?

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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/3/2011 8:20:37 PM

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Well it might, but not because the problem went away, but because one person who'd had enough got up and walked away.

I nag Daddy because if I don't the shit that needs doing won't be done. I have to constantly keep after him to get him to do things.

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Because most males ignore difficult subjects and won't sit down and discuss them. The woman feels unheard and invalidated and presses the point in order to feel heard and not marginalized. If a man would give an honest answer saying that he heard her, he needs to think about the subject, and he'll sit down come Saturday over coffee to discuss it, and then do just that, then women wouldn't need to be repetitive.

Strangely enough, the problem will not go away if you hide your head in the sand long enough.

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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/3/2011 8:23:17 PM

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I thought you were gay. Are you living with your mother or sister? If not, tell them, I'm going to hang up the phone now.

You realize all of your replies are anti-women.
Your statement is gospel, and we are only to choose why it is true; there is no "you are full of it, or you're a delusional hunk choices. M

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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/3/2011 8:33:13 PM

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ORIGINAL: SexyBossyBBW

I thought you were gay. Are you living with your mother or sister? If not, tell them, I'm going to hang up the phone now.

You realize all of your replies are anti-women.
Your statement is gospel, and we are only to choose why it is true; there is no "you are full of it, or you're a delusional hunk choices. M

Why have a choice for it when you guys could just let him know in your posts like so many of you do. He hears his fair share of that.

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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/3/2011 8:38:54 PM

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I've never discussed women with the hunk, ever.

This is what I get, for taking his research semi seriously as to think, he meant for women to actually have a choice, since it is about women. I forgot I was in random stupidity.

For the record, I absolutely do not nag. I ask once, twice is usually too many, and I find a way to get it done. M

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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/3/2011 8:45:16 PM

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Oh, y'all are way overthinking this whole thing. The simple answer to the question is: Because we can.

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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/3/2011 8:55:45 PM

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ORIGINAL: SexyBossyBBW

I thought you were gay. Are you living with your mother or sister? If not, tell them, I'm going to hang up the phone now.

You realize all of your replies are anti-women.
Your statement is gospel, and we are only to choose why it is true; there is no "you are full of it, or you're a delusional hunk choices. M

I have dinner with the neighbor lady. When I say "I dont want to talk about it", she wont let it go. We do not live together- we are not dating-

I am to the point where I dont want to tell her any of my serious problems- because then she wants to know "what are you going to do about it", which if I knew what to do about it- I would resolve it. ...and when we get to the point where she understands- the full brunt of the problem- she will then pray about it- and they next day- we go thru this all over again. ....easier for me to be the strong silent type.

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