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PeonForHer -> RE: bi or not bi? (2/8/2011 11:28:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact Social conditioning. I've said this on other threads. The attitudes regarding bisexuality has not caught up and become even between the genders when it comes to acceptance. In part, some of this can be attributed to porn that is geared toward heterosexual men. (Yes, I'm actually going to say something good about it.) That was a huge part of changing the climate regarding bisexuality in women. Heh. You know, I really think you might be onto something there. There always was that argument, purveyed insistently by e.g. Hefner, that porn was 'liberating'. No doubt there was a large amount of bollocks in it, but possibly a sprinkling of truth, too. I suspect, though, that the roots go very deep: that 'a woman loving another woman isn't unfeminine, but a man loving another man is unmasculine'.

81song -> RE: bi or not bi? (2/14/2011 9:31:40 AM)
From the sounds of it it is a turn on for you, so I would not worry about trying to label yourself bi or not, you enjoy s go with it. It might or might not last but see where it takes you.

sweetsub1957 -> RE: bi or not bi? (2/14/2011 10:54:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: nick51068 In regards to serving a man sexually to only please a Mistress, that is how it originated. But now I fantasize about it without a Mistress being present. With me being a Master’s slave and not a Mistress’s slave. Again I do not want to have vanilla sex with a man or enter into a long term relationship with a man, but serving as his “bitch” 1-2 times a month would be hot. I would call that situationally bi or hetero-flexible. On here, I call myself bi because there is no other option. On that "F" place, the other popular kink site, I call myself hetero-flexible. Bottom line is, it's all labels. I can sure understand why it's important to you, though, to know what to call it. I went through that sexual identity thing too & it can be very stressful until it gets resolved. quote: ORIGINAL: Sylverdawn Ever heard of the Kinsey Scale? I haven't heard about that scale in years! Thanks for reminding me. ~sweetsub~

FukinTroll -> RE: bi or not bi? (2/14/2011 11:17:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: nick51068 Hello everyone. i am a sub male who does not find men to be sexually attractive, but sucked a few cocks and been fucked to please my Mistress. Now even though i have no desire to suck cock or be fucked by a man in a vanilla situation, being used by a man in a S&M situation is hot to me and i masterbate to it quite a bit. So does that make me bi or just submisssive? nick Ya know, most people get twitchy over labels and the debate over the degree of labels. So I am going to offer some twitchy material. Bi-sexual: Will have sex with either sex as long as the partner is present. Either-sexual: Will have sex with either sex independently or together. You have been tossed into one of these... which one is it? YMMV

LPslittleclip -> RE: bi or not bi? (2/14/2011 7:05:25 PM)
i am a straight male that will do what pleases his Mistress that would make me situationaly bi. our society has been fed the homophobia since elezabeth the 1stwhen marqui de sade and leipold massoc were around. in countrys that have developed their own sexual identy there is no homophobia like thiland i think it was. for you i would focus on what makes you happy and enjoy

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