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RE: new, need a dom, help wth finding - 2/11/2011 8:15:18 PM

0ldhen

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ORIGINAL: FukinTroll

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ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep

(following OldHen around)
i wonder where that "the Dom should find me" idea comes from anyway?
i think a lot of times newbies get mystified by this idea of the Dom standing majestically on a mountain top, in all of his black leathered glory, with a paddle and flogger in each hand, gazing into the sunset, his hair whipping in the breeze, whilst the subs in their Conan-cover-art-style bikinis grovel at his feet, hoping for just a glance from his shadowed eyes to let them know... "you're the one."

that's not real life, unfortunately. =p
(note, OP i'm not trying to make fun of you or anything; i'm in a bad mood and spinning yarns makes me happy.)

Heh, You saw me at that meet did ya?
SLURP!

Pssssttttt Lillybpeep........I haz pictures.........

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RE: new, need a dom, help wth finding - 2/11/2011 9:11:23 PM

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Go find a white T-shirt. Put on T-shirt. Spill a bucket of water over your head. Film it. Post to Collarme.

Quick hijack - be gentle with me mods please

Last friday I was out with the bloke I am seeing (whom I met here and I messaged him first - oh see, it is on topic!!) and I wore a white singlet covered by a sheer white long sleeved shirt and he had on his work clothes which included a white shirt. The weather was fine when we met but about an hour later a storm passed through the city and we both got absolutely drenched. I don't think he figured out why I kept walking behind him but may I just say that men's white shirts go extremely see through when wet

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RE: new, need a dom, help wth finding - 2/11/2011 10:43:51 PM

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being active in the search for what you desire will help. don't be afraid to do some driving to some events chat regularly and look at profiles and read them before messaging them.

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RE: new, need a dom, help wth finding - 2/16/2011 5:04:04 PM

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I'm a single submissive at the moment. Although I'd like someone in my life, I'm in no rush. I'd rather be alone than settle again and end up on the wrong end of the stick, so to speak. I hang out in the forums, I make contributions where I think they'll help. I've made some great friends on here who help me through some rough patches.

I've had ridiculous cmails, one liners, crude requests, it runs the gamut. But I want someone who'll make me the other half so we can be a whole. I know what I want, who I'd like to be with, general terms of course and how I want to be treated. So if I have to wait, then wait I will. I'm not into one night stands or being a plaything, I want the whole enchilada, not just the salsa.

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RE: new, need a dom, help wth finding - 2/16/2011 6:02:16 PM

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Well, I was going to see if I could give any advice, but that seems to be covered. Now I'm curous though...

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You could also try attending your local munch and meeting local guys.

WTF is a munch?

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RE: new, need a dom, help wth finding - 2/16/2011 6:31:22 PM

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A munch is an event local to your area, usually in a restaurant or some such place, where like-minded people meet for a meal, coffee, drinks. Casual dress usually and depending on the group, the conversation is all over the place. It's a place to meet and make friends, possible connections.

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RE: new, need a dom, help wth finding - 2/17/2011 9:25:24 AM

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You can always use the filter function to find someone who shares some vanilla interests as well as kink.
You may not find a "one twu domly dom" that way but you can have some interesting conversations and learn a lot.

And, occassionaly, you run across someone you would like to have in your life.

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RE: new, need a dom, help wth finding - 2/17/2011 1:03:00 PM

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I just made a new journal entry that you should go read. That should help you.

OMG!! I LOVE that journal entry!! So true, yet so entertaining!!

~sweetsub~

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