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Word History: The allusion to the cuckoo on which the word cuckold is based may not be appreciated by those unfamiliar with the nesting habits of certain varieties of this bird. The female of some Old World cuckoos lays its eggs in the nests of other birds, leaving them to be cared for by the resident nesters. This parasitic tendency has given the female bird a figurative reputation for unfaithfulness as well. Hence in Old French we find the word cucuault, composed of cocu, “cuckoo, cuckold,” and the pejorative suffix -ald and used to designate a husband whose wife has wandered afield like the female cuckoo. An earlier assumed form of the Old French word was borrowed into Middle English by way of Anglo-Norman. Middle English cokewold, the ancestor of Modern English cuckold, is first recorded in a work written around 1250.

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In a true cuckold relationship. the male is subservient to the Dominant Female. Perhaps the couple is married, or perhaps not. The cuckold not only submits to the fact that his cuckoldress will have lovers, he is aroused by the fact that She has other lovers.

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Often these lovers are referred to as "bulls". Generally speaking, they are not sub males. They are straight Dominant males engaging in sexual acts with the cuck present or aware of the activity. The cuck often is required to prepare the "bull" male as well as his cuckoldress orally. The cucks biggest dream is the cream pie clean-up. This is the oral cleansing of his Lady's vagina or anus, i.e. drinking the "bulls" seed.

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A cuck will also prepare his Lady for an evening out. He must wait patiently for his Lady to arrive home, and then clean or care for Her after Her evening of activity. What I am describing here is the purest form of cuckoldry. So the answer to your question would be NO. The cuckoldress does not engage in sexual activity with another sub. She is enjoying affairs with straight lovers, even though these lovers often are also involved in BDSM as the "bulls" and thus are very aware of the Lady's lifestyle and the fact that she is a Dominant Female in a cuckold relationship. As a final note, the cuck is rarely if ever allowed to penetrate His Lady. he is limited to strict oral servitude.

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ORIGINAL: MaitresseEden


Ok. I personally have issues with the whole "bull" mentality, as a Naturally dominant woman it goes against every fiber of my being to be with a "dominant male".

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ORIGINAL: GoddessDustyGold

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ORIGINAL: MaitresseEden


Ok. I personally have issues with the whole "bull" mentality, as a Naturally dominant woman it goes against every fiber of my being to be with a "dominant male".

I do not like the term bulls Myself, and and should not have said Dominant Male. I should have said equal partners in a bedroom relationship, be it a one night stand (with which I am not comfortable) or a regular lover, "vanilla" or in the lifestyle.

You are certainly correct, Ms. Eden, and I imagine W/we can take many terms which have been defined in the dictionary and are now used and
re-aligned in the BDSM lifestyle. I know many cuckolds, and, in the context of this lifestyle, this is what they desire, and most often, how the role is played out. My humble opinion from My experience: In the context of this lifestyle, I would say that a husband who allows his wife to "swing" or swings himself, is not a cuckold in this lifestyle. A relationship (marital or not) wherein there may be another reason for outside sexual activity, outside of the context of the BDSM lifestyle, is not a cuckold.

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ORIGINAL: MzBerlin

Is there a term for female subs that are "forced" to watch their sig. other "get it on" with another female?
Just curious.
Thanks, y'all!!
Berlin

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ORIGINAL: GoddessDustyGold

As a cuckoldress (part of My lifestyle) and an AM of a cuckold group, I can answer some of this. In a true cuckold relationship. the male is subservient to the Dominant Female. Perhaps the couple is married, or perhaps not. The cuckold not only submits to the fact that his cuckoldress will have lovers, he is aroused by the fact that She has other lovers. Often these lovers are referred to as "bulls". Generally speaking, they are not sub males. They are straight Dominant males engaging in sexual acts with the cuck present or aware of the activity. The cuck often is required to prepare the "bull" male as well as his cuckoldress orally. The cucks biggest dream is the cream pie clean-up. This is the oral cleansing of his Lady's vagina or anus, i.e. drinking the "bulls" seed. Of course, in this day of necessary "safe sex" I always laugh and say, "but where is the cream pie?" Sometimes it is saved in a condom and the cuckold is made to drink it. A cuck will also prepare his Lady for an evening out. He must wait patiently for his Lady to arrive home, and then clean or care for Her after Her evening of activity. What I am describing here is the purest form of cuckoldry. So the answer to your question would be NO. The cuckoldress does not engage in sexual activity with another sub. She is enjoying affairs with straight lovers, even though these lovers often are also involved in BDSM as the "bulls" and thus are very aware of the Lady's lifestyle and the fact that she is a Dominant Female in a cuckold relationship. As a final note, the cuck is rarely if ever allowed to penetrate His Lady. he is limited to strict oral servitude.