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RE: Commanding on an Unknown Hard Limit - 2/24/2011 8:54:41 AM

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owie owie owie!! haha

needles are instant crying for me, too -- i've seen some people shoot through the moon and go into moany bliss with them; not me!
but some of those things are "with the right person, maybes" -- sometimes what you have with a person can fuel you through anything, no matter how scary it seems.

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RE: Commanding on an Unknown Hard Limit - 2/24/2011 10:07:23 AM

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Not THOSE lips...... The lips on my face!....lol

He keeps threatening to do the other lips, though....I can't imagine that'd hurt a great deal more than my mouth did. And that hurt, a lot. He also stapled from the top of my bum right down the back of my legs and threaded ribbon through, like laces, so that I could only hobble....VERY carefully. That also hurt a lot more than I thought it would and I cried throughout most of it.

He did let me put one in his arm though, he's nice like that :)

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Sorry! I didn't know what a "gob" was, and my perverted mind went to the wrong lips, lol. Still......ouch!

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RE: Commanding on an Unknown Hard Limit - 2/24/2011 1:14:47 PM

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ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep

owie owie owie!! haha

needles are instant crying for me, too -- i've seen some people shoot through the moon and go into moany bliss with them; not me!
but some of those things are "with the right person, maybes" -- sometimes what you have with a person can fuel you through anything, no matter how scary it seems.

....also not having a choice about it helps, and there's a lot to be said for being resigned...;)

But yes, even though I spend half of my life semi-terrified, I wouldn't want it any other way because we are so *together* at those times.

I don't like needles either, I'm quite a wuss about them too...but he still uses them now and then when he gets an evil glint in his eye :(

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RE: Commanding on an Unknown Hard Limit - 2/24/2011 1:15:09 PM

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Wow, stapling lips together...I just found a new limit.

I have had someone tell me to shut the fuck up but....yikes!

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RE: Commanding on an Unknown Hard Limit - 2/24/2011 1:16:30 PM

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Sorry! I didn't know what a "gob" was, and my perverted mind went to the wrong lips, lol. Still......ouch!

Puts a new spin on * Shut yer gob!*.....lol

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RE: Commanding on an Unknown Hard Limit - 2/24/2011 1:23:37 PM

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Wow, stapling lips together...I just found a new limit.

I have had someone tell me to shut the fuck up but....yikes!

I was more worried that I'd vomit and spray it through the gaps, as I often feel nauseous with sharp pain...lol

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RE: Commanding on an Unknown Hard Limit - 2/24/2011 4:22:51 PM

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It happens.

It's not really a BDSM issue. It's a relationship issue. Vanillas encounter this as well, when suddenly he realizes he cannot stand to go clothes shopping, or she realizes that she can't handle his old college roommate. Just talk about it and work it out.

This. i experienced this exact scenario although the gender pronouns were reversed.

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RE: Commanding on an Unknown Hard Limit - 2/25/2011 5:31:15 AM

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Surgical staplers. Ummmmmmm.

(wanders off in a Homer Simpsonesque daze)

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RE: Commanding on an Unknown Hard Limit - 2/25/2011 5:47:48 PM

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A lot of my hard limits are physical. No inverted suspension as it causes vertigo. No duct tape gags as they cause panic attacks. There's no way for me to say "self, today you are a slave and therefore no longer have vertigo". I wish there was.

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