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Novice Domina's playground - 2/25/2011 5:30:23 PM   
MissEmery


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Status: offline 		What were/are your first experiences dominating a restrained/chained sub?

My subs are all men whom I've met online. I'm interested in bondage. What fun do you have with your tethered subs?

Play safe is the obvious frontline advice/concern.
How about the fun part?




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RE: Novice Domina's playground - 2/26/2011 4:50:18 AM   
Madame4a


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Status: offline 		I think I need more coffee.   

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RE: Novice Domina's playground - 2/26/2011 6:25:19 AM   
dreamerdreaming


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Status: offline 		I love to get my fingers in his ass.

Also, I love to sit on his face and pee right down his throat.

Thanks for asking!

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RE: Novice Domina's playground - 2/26/2011 2:54:19 PM   
MaamJay


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Status: offline 		OK I'm going to take the OP seriously ...

Firstly, I don't necessarily tie/chain a new sub the first time I play with them ... it can freak some people out. I usually do other forms of play with them unrestrained ... or if they want the feel of rope on them, I might do a simple rope harness. At most I might tie their hands together behind their backs ... they still have the sense that they can flee if they feel the need (not that they do!).

However, once I have built enough trust with the sub in order to restrain them, then some of the activities are:
* obvious impact play, such as spanking, flogging, caning (if that's Your thing AND You know how to do that properly)
* sensory play, such as different textures, hot and cold, maybe tickling if it's not a hard limit
* traditional tie and tease ie genital stimulation, or maybe some CBT
* pubic shaving (will make him feel VERY vulnerable) ... the tease comes when You've done half and threaten to leave him like that ... and take lots of pics
* and of course if You are so inclined You can mount him and have Your wicked way with him
* wax play
and so on. That should be enough to get You going!

Maam Jay aka violet[A]

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RE: Novice Domina's playground - 2/26/2011 3:05:21 PM   
MissEmery


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Status: offline 		Thanks for the replies.
I'm interested in hearing any Miss-adventures that others would like to share.

Op

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RE: Novice Domina's playground - 2/26/2011 4:15:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

I love to get my fingers in his ass.

Also, I love to sit on his face and pee right down his throat.

Thanks for asking!


Do you deliberately drink a lot before a sesh, DD? Just wondering. Feel free to tell me to mind my own business if you like.

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RE: Novice Domina's playground - 2/26/2011 11:23:40 PM   
MistressSassy66


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Status: offline 		The first sub I met from here we went to a hotel,I made him bring a blow up sheep for him to F*CK
I put the sheep in the chair,got him on his knees behind the sheep...then I tied him to the chair
and made him F that sheep...which he did with enthusasim(sp) that made this Mistress proud
that is until the sheep went *pop* and *sssssss* and alas the sheep was no more. Did I mention
that while this was happening maintenance knocked on our door they got a complaint about the tv
being loud...I think it was actually us being loud...lmao

Damn ....that was a good day

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RE: Novice Domina's playground - 2/27/2011 6:53:51 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		I double checked to see your location.  You do know that Northwest Leather is coming up in just a few months.  You would get tons of ideas from attending.

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RE: Novice Domina's playground - 2/27/2011 9:00:26 PM   
MissEmery


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Status: offline 		Thank you.
I'm new to this area. I'm starting to meet people in the kink community here. The range of creative ideas is very encouraging.

And I can't wait to find a blow up sheep!

Miss Emery

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RE: Novice Domina's playground - 2/27/2011 10:39:14 PM   
dreamerdreaming


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quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer


quote:

ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

I love to get my fingers in his ass.

Also, I love to sit on his face and pee right down his throat.

Thanks for asking!


Do you deliberately drink a lot before a sesh, DD? Just wondering. Feel free to tell me to mind my own business if you like.


Shucks- YOU can ask Me anything!

I might not answer it publicly, I might CMail you the answer- but I'll answer you.

The short answer to your question has two parts:

1. I don't session. The things I do with my slaveboy are just a part of our everyday lives.

2. At least once, that I can think of- I did drink a bunch of water in anticipation of the yummy result. But this was because I was leaving, and wanted to pee in him before I left. I wanted to be sure I'd hafta go, before I left.


To get back to the OP: I LOVE keeping my boy chained at the ankles, with heavy chains. I do also bind his genitals, but my main fetish is metal and chains. YUM!


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RE: Novice Domina's playground - 2/27/2011 10:48:51 PM   
MissEmery


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Status: offline 		Great news!

I found the sheep!!!!!

http://www.muttonbone.com/?gclid=CLCioOefqqcCFRRqgwod2Tc3Cg

Love Ewe all.


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RE: Novice Domina's playground - 2/27/2011 11:56:46 PM   
dreamerdreaming


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Status: offline 		Eeeeewe.

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RE: Novice Domina's playground - 2/28/2011 10:31:08 PM   
MistressSassy66


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissEmery

Great news!

I found the sheep!!!!!

http://www.muttonbone.com/?gclid=CLCioOefqqcCFRRqgwod2Tc3Cg

Love Ewe all.





There is a local headshop that carried the sheep,a cow and a pig.
What fun it was to see them one day with slave janet with me.
That was a good day of teasing and the car ride home with animal noises...lmao
Simple things can be ohhh so fun!

I hope Ewe enjoy the sheep

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RE: Novice Domina's playground - 3/1/2011 3:57:43 AM   
PeonForHer


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissEmery

Great news!

I found the sheep!!!!!

http://www.muttonbone.com/?gclid=CLCioOefqqcCFRRqgwod2Tc3Cg

Love Ewe all.





I bet they're all pro-sheep masquerading as lifestylers. Typical.

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RE: Novice Domina's playground - 3/1/2011 5:17:01 AM   
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Status: offline 		LOL!  Bet that would let the air out of your pay piggie! 

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RE: Novice Domina's playground - 3/1/2011 1:22:36 PM   
ElanSubdued


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Status: offline 		Not sure why Peon's and Otters' replies tickled me so much, but they did.  I suggest a "boy pile" in aisle 5.  If Miss Emery wants to add shackles around our ankles, I'm good with that. :-)

E.

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RE: Novice Domina's playground - 3/1/2011 3:02:35 PM   
sunshinemiss


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MistressSassy66

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...and alas the sheep was no more...

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RE: Novice Domina's playground - 3/1/2011 5:08:59 PM   
kalikshama


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RE: Novice Domina's playground - 3/1/2011 5:34:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		Otter does animal noises..........you should ask him about them sometime!

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RE: Novice Domina's playground - 3/5/2011 1:17:58 PM   
MistressSassy66


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quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer


quote:

ORIGINAL: MissEmery

Great news!

I found the sheep!!!!!

http://www.muttonbone.com/?gclid=CLCioOefqqcCFRRqgwod2Tc3Cg

Love Ewe all.





I bet they're all pro-sheep masquerading as lifestylers. Typical.



LMAO... Read the book instead of just looking at the cover.

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