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LadyHugs -> RE: other than looks..what turns you on?or off? (5/5/2006 7:44:24 AM)
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Dear Redpetals, Ladies and Gentlemen;
Good topic.
Turn offs and Turn ons:
Poor hygiene -- I especially get sick if I see some man bend over and didn't wipe his ass right before it is to be spanked, whipped or such--That is a RED on my scenes; same with not cleaning themselves out before fisting. I also don't like men who drip dry after they piss. Clean it guys! My hand will be there, often I wear white formal gloves--not good getting them dirty down under. It is a turn off if they don't take a shower/bath, don't shave and don't body shave. I prefer a smooth body and no pubic hair. Don't like hair grease, prefer a military close cut/flat top and or bald. I don't like any facial hair.
Poor grooming/dressing -- Some of the huge turn offs for me is to see sloppy men in their photographs as submissive/slave types. If they can't dress themself and be neat, why should I have them dress me as a slave/servant/vallet/butler? This is a huge turn off of mine, dominant and or submissive. Appearences counts. I see the local dom here in DC, dresses like a slob, acts like a slob and the girls look like they dressed proper; then you get some dominant women who dress, their subs look like they walked off a hippie compound. So--that is a pet peeve of mine/turn off.
Attitude-- Depending on the circumstances, that governs my selection process. Shoulder shrugs, I don't know, lazy and couldn't be bothered attitude, not being helpful and kind to others. I do love a gentleman--I don't get turned on by men who are just out for attention, stuck up, self centered, pompus or arrogant sorts--especially if they call themselves submissive and or slave. I don't like chronic complainers, poor me, gossip, drama queens/kings, do me and maybe I'll do for you. I am turned on when my slave steps in as "Guard" and protector, keeping idiots out of my way, this is why the attitude is depending on circumstances. I like happy positive men, humor if it is in good taste and timing. Military men active/retired-US Marine/US Army are the best in showing their obedience, promptly and smartly take commands and carry themselves well. US Air Force seem to be the most sloppy in that regard but--boils down to the man himself.
Behavior -- Most telling of any individual -- Talk is cheap--show me the behavior that goes with the attitude. Claim to be a gentleman--prove it by being one. I like quiet men, not super shy men; I like men who take it on themselves to give service to me, not have to be commanded like a obedience dog. I want to trust the behavior, so if I am not looking that slave wearing my collar represents me in a good way. Not behave just when he is watched--but always; I'm not a warden or babysitter. I dislike slutty men. Sex on the two heads sort. I don't like men's eyes straying period. I dislike smokers, drinkers and poppers. It is a deal breaker if they do illegal drugs, alcoholic and horny slut types. I am not fond of femme men, even though there are very nice sissie and CD types. I go more for the masculine. I dislike hover over type men--men who paw on me, like a cat scratching pole and or a humper. But, I do like affectionate men, who are laying a cheek on my thigh, hugging my legs (if in slacks) or petting my shoes/heels in my gowns/skirts. It is a turn on to have men purr when I pet them and show attention. I like discreet behavior in public but, evident they are lifestyle by following protocols I use. Dislike fence sitters.
Turn offs: Professors, White collar professionals that are in demanding jobs that are more dominant in his life than me, religious employed, politicians, telemarketers, unemployed.
Turn ons: Male Nurses, Male Doctors, EMT, ex-Military and or active military, police, judges, firemen, lawyers, historian buffs (Especially local history), mechanics, aides to politicians.
Respectfully submitted,
Lady Hugs
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