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complete surrender? - 2/26/2011 8:52:10 PM   
iambad69


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Status: offline 		What I am seeking is a complete taking over of my entire being by a strong Dominant Woman. Is this possible? Yes. But it seems there is no real Dominant who wants to take over the mind of a submissive without making it into a paying 'session'. In other words, just a commercial enterprise, instead of a real desire to posses. Are there no strong female Dominants out there who desire to take over a submissive being, just for the sheer desire? 
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RE: complete surrender? - 2/26/2011 8:54:13 PM   
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RE: complete surrender? - 2/26/2011 9:04:01 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Arpig

Yeah there are plenty of them....however they have this annoying desire for paragraphs




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RE: complete surrender? - 2/26/2011 9:07:32 PM   
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ORIGINAL: iambad69

What I am seeking is a complete taking over of my entire being by a strong Dominant Woman. Is this possible? Yes. But it seems there is no real Dominant who wants to take over the mind of a submissive without making it into a paying 'session'.

Baloney.

quote:

In other words, just a commercial enterprise, instead of a real desire to posses. Are there no strong female Dominants out there who desire to take over a submissive being, just for the sheer desire? 

Yes, owning him is all about My desire to do so.  That doesn't mean that I want to own everybody.  When you find somebody who wants to own you, I think you'll have a different perspective.


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RE: complete surrender? - 2/26/2011 9:42:52 PM   
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RE: complete surrender? - 2/26/2011 9:45:02 PM   
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RE: complete surrender? - 2/26/2011 9:46:17 PM   
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RE: complete surrender? - 2/26/2011 9:59:58 PM   
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RE: complete surrender? - 2/26/2011 10:12:09 PM   
porcelaine


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ORIGINAL: iambad69

What I am seeking is a complete taking over of my entire being by a strong Dominant Woman. Is this possible? Yes. But it seems there is no real Dominant who wants to take over the mind of a submissive without making it into a paying 'session'. In other words, just a commercial enterprise, instead of a real desire to posses. Are there no strong female Dominants out there who desire to take over a submissive being, just for the sheer desire? 


Good grief they're coming out in droves.

I'm starting to wonder if it's really the fact pro dominants exist that has your knickers in a wad, or the inability to pay that's the culprit. Your entire spiel screams me me me! But one has to question what's in it for the other party. You haven't made a very convincing argument.

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RE: complete surrender? - 2/26/2011 10:33:36 PM   
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ORIGINAL: iambad69

What I am seeking is a complete taking over of my entire being by a strong Dominant Woman. Is this possible? Yes. But it seems there is no real Dominant who wants to take over the mind of a submissive without making it into a paying 'session'. In other words, just a commercial enterprise, instead of a real desire to posses. Are there no strong female Dominants out there who desire to take over a submissive being, just for the sheer desire? 


Well if you're talking about a 'submissive being' then yes. They go to a pet shop and buy a dog. They do this because they know that the dog will be loyal to them, will put them first, will do what they require, and will do its utmost to bring them happiness and pleasure. They know that in buying a dog, they are guaranteed such submission, and almost all dogs generally understand instinctively the symbiosis of this relationship.

But then again a dog can reach down and lick its own balls and genitalia whenever it feels like it without requiring the involvement of anything or anyone else.

Human male submissives can't. This might explain why understanding the simplicity of symbiosis in a relationship appears to be way beyond the ability of some of them to grasp.

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RE: complete surrender? - 2/27/2011 12:22:55 AM   
CherryNeko


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It is kind of hard to believe that you'd WANT to surrender to like, any woman who agrees. I think, probably, you're not being completely honest with yourself because you have a desire for something Big, and you want it right now.
I would suggest, if that's the case, that you stop and think about it for a while. Writing it down makes it easier. What do you want? Why are you so desperate to find someone to take over completely? Wouldn't you be more comfortable with someone you knew pretty well? Why look for a stranger to do this? Please consider these questions, and try to give a sincere answer; because maybe you're skipping a couple of steps, and it probably won't be nice if you go on.

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RE: complete surrender? - 2/27/2011 1:19:04 AM   
IronBear


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ORIGINAL: stellauk


quote:

ORIGINAL: iambad69

What I am seeking is a complete taking over of my entire being by a strong Dominant Woman. Is this possible? Yes. But it seems there is no real Dominant who wants to take over the mind of a submissive without making it into a paying 'session'. In other words, just a commercial enterprise, instead of a real desire to posses. Are there no strong female Dominants out there who desire to take over a submissive being, just for the sheer desire? 


Well if you're talking about a 'submissive being' then yes. They go to a pet shop and buy a dog. They do this because they know that the dog will be loyal to them, will put them first, will do what they require, and will do its utmost to bring them happiness and pleasure. They know that in buying a dog, they are guaranteed such submission, and almost all dogs generally understand instinctively the symbiosis of this relationship.

But then again a dog can reach down and lick its own balls and genitalia whenever it feels like it without requiring the involvement of anything or anyone else.

Human male submissives can't. This might explain why understanding the simplicity of symbiosis in a relationship appears to be way beyond the ability of some of them to grasp.


Wonderful insight, supurb comentary which created a Monty Python image and senario in my mind.. Still laughing at the though of the OP in Lady Neets tender care and gentler hands (after she puts down the oxy torch.........) love the aroma of human flesh on the BBQ........


Edited to add that I have a really warped SoH at times


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RE: complete surrender? - 2/27/2011 1:33:41 AM   
LadyNTrainer


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ORIGINAL: iambad69

What I am seeking is a complete taking over of my entire being by a strong Dominant Woman. Is this possible? Yes. But it seems there is no real Dominant who wants to take over the mind of a submissive without making it into a paying 'session'. In other words, just a commercial enterprise, instead of a real desire to posses. Are there no strong female Dominants out there who desire to take over a submissive being, just for the sheer desire? 


Yes, but I already own two men who are collared and branded, and they're quite wonderful.  They're really all I have time for, so not in the market for any more despite being poly. 

Not being able to find a partner you don't have to pay is not a reflection on there being no such thing as a lifestyle dominant woman.  Consider what you might be doing wrong in your approach or your strategy for seeking partners.  If all you're doing is trolling the Internet and saying vaguely insulting or at least unflattering things about femdoms, don't be surprised if your results are pretty poor and no lifestyle femdom wants to jump into a relationship wirh you.  Get yourself out there for local Munches and BDSM events, and you'll meet more real people and fewer Internet scammers.

Lead with your human self and your personality, not your kinky desires, and you'll get to know a lot more real people *as* people.  That's a pretty crucial start to any intimate relationship, let alone a 24/7 D/s relationship.


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RE: complete surrender? - 2/27/2011 3:22:43 AM   
pyroaquatic


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Status: offline 		1.) You want your entire being taken over but not your wallet.

2.) While money isn't everything what can you offer in stead of monetary gain?




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RE: complete surrender? - 2/27/2011 4:04:42 AM   
NocturnalStalker


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ORIGINAL: iambad69

What I am seeking is a complete taking over of my entire being by a strong Dominant Woman. Is this possible? Yes. But it seems there is no real Dominant who wants to take over the mind of a submissive without making it into a paying 'session'. In other words, just a commercial enterprise, instead of a real desire to posses. Are there no strong female Dominants out there who desire to take over a submissive being, just for the sheer desire? 


I am not sure how successful you will be in the future with a dominant female but I could always use more sycophants if it does not work out.


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RE: complete surrender? - 2/27/2011 4:19:52 AM   
kalikshama


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RE: complete surrender? - 2/27/2011 4:38:44 AM   
Prinsexx


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ORIGINAL: Arpig

Yeah there are plenty of them....however they have this annoying desire for paragraphs

And syntax.
And punctuation.
And irony.
A few iambic pentameters wouldn't go amiss either.
In fact I have a fetish for those.


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RE: complete surrender? - 2/27/2011 4:53:06 AM   
LaTigresse


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ORIGINAL: stellauk


quote:

ORIGINAL: iambad69

What I am seeking is a complete taking over of my entire being by a strong Dominant Woman. Is this possible? Yes. But it seems there is no real Dominant who wants to take over the mind of a submissive without making it into a paying 'session'. In other words, just a commercial enterprise, instead of a real desire to posses. Are there no strong female Dominants out there who desire to take over a submissive being, just for the sheer desire? 


Well if you're talking about a 'submissive being' then yes. They go to a pet shop and buy a dog. They do this because they know that the dog will be loyal to them, will put them first, will do what they require, and will do its utmost to bring them happiness and pleasure. They know that in buying a dog, they are guaranteed such submission, and almost all dogs generally understand instinctively the symbiosis of this relationship.

But then again a dog can reach down and lick its own balls and genitalia whenever it feels like it without requiring the involvement of anything or anyone else.

Human male submissives can't. This might explain why understanding the simplicity of symbiosis in a relationship appears to be way beyond the ability of some of them to grasp.



It is nice to see you this morning Stella. You've brought a smile to my face, as I sit here, with a dog on either side of me and one curled into my lap.

< Message edited by LaTigresse -- 2/27/2011 4:54:24 AM >

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RE: complete surrender? - 2/27/2011 8:02:11 AM   
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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

There is one "do-me" sentence in your profile and no pictures. FAIL.


Exactly.  In addition, every single one of your Likes is kink based.

OP, wimmins generally like to think of life outside the bedroom as well.  What kind of restaurants do you like to eat at?  What sports do you play?  What shows do you watch?

If you DO in fact want a kink delivery system, then go pay a pro Domme.  If you don't, then let your profile reflect it.


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RE: complete surrender? - 2/27/2011 8:43:43 AM   
Lucienne


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