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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/7/2011 4:37:14 PM

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/7/2011 5:11:01 PM

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Thank you for your wisdom and insight. I am actually a Buddhist and have been since 1984.

If I were to attempt to construct a formal argument for what makes what you presented to me as flat concerns the notion of completeness. Though you openly acknowledge that life is mysterious, what you presented me does not.

There is this notion in the Buddhist teachings as was pointed in a Wikipedia quote concerning the heroic-minded. You cannot be heroic-minded and not suffer. It is as simple as that. Not all suffering, however, is heroic. It is desirable to minimize non-heroic suffering and not suffering per se.

I'm rather pleased with myself with starting this thread because it is not about me; despite everyone's obsessive interest with "the language" as if I was surrounded by a bunch of attorneys. To quote the Four Reliances, "Rely on the spirit and meaning of the teachings, not on the words."

I will spare you further embarrassment, or try to (I doubt you will take any heed) but what you are referring to are the Four Noble Truths, not the Four Reliances. This is clearly stated on at least a dozen Wikipedia pages, maybe many more. The quote you ascribe to them comes from a completely different source.

It's not important where, because I'm not here to discuss or argue my own individual moral and spiritual hierarchy of values. This is my code, I live it, I see no value in enforcing my own spiritual and moral values on others, but leave it for others to work out on the basis of my words, actions and behaviour. Each to their own, as they say.

Please also don't kid yourself that my concern for you was anything other than concern for your suffering. I reach out to those who are suffering. It's in my nature. However since you have chosen to wallow in your suffering and misery and are yourself the architect of your own misfortune, please don't let who I am concern you or even what I write here. I did state, did I not that the choice was your's? So too are the consequences.

I'm okay with me, with other people, with the world, and if I were to die tomorrow, I'm cool with that too. I make my own decisions and accept the consequences of those decisions. I don't need your moral judgments or your assessment of my (limited from your perspective) intellect. Your opinion of me and my life doesn't add anything or take anything away. It means nothing.

I wish you well, I really do. Maybe one day at some point you will realize and take it upon yourself to do the same, if only for the sake of survival.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/7/2011 5:49:00 PM

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OK Benny, let's just get down to it. You are divine. How did you come by that ?

How I came to be what I am was that I was borne to a drunk Father who later proved his worth,. He was imperfect and as much as Mother was driven to hate him she refused to do so. Would have nothing to do with him for a time but eventually got on good terms for the sake of us kids. Later came the visits and I learned how to make the best pizza anyone I know has ever had. But before that it was a matter of thorwing TVs around the house (I mean the big old floor model kind) and pissing on the bookshelf. Book were my greatest "love", as my Parents taught me how to read well before kindergarden age.

Later I became a hellion and eventually had to go live with Father, because Mother simply couldn't handle me anymore. I was told by her verbatim "Go to hell with your Father", and in a way I did. We saw the nightlife, the bars, ther wildness of life. I had five DWIs before I was twenty five and I didn't give a shit who I might kill or injure. I did things, which if you want to research, I have already said that if they gave me twenty years for jaywalking we might be just about even - except for that one thing ......

Being taught well, no matter how negative the environment gave me a form of self control that is shared by very few, and a morality that comes from within, not from the outside. It is a form of objectivity that is hard to attain and I really don't believe that it can be attained without the proper strife applied at the proper time.

I have significant guilt about the things I've done in the past, and that's what makes me behave now. I fear no law enforcement because I know how to play them like a guitar. I know how to pick a lawyer and O.J. Simpson should've hired me to whack his cunt olady. And it wouldn't have taken five lawyers to get out of it anyway.

But the guilt remains, and that is why I have rejected Christianity. Ironically I do not reject Christ, I believe that he was among the greatest of Men to ever walk the Earth. However NOTHING can give Him the power to forgive me, as some of my transgresees have. And believe me this Benny, forgiveness DOES NOT remove the guilt, in fact it makes it worse. To think that I wronged this person and they let it slide, makes me wonder if I have the same capacity. Sometimes I do, and I exercise that when possible, when I know the guilt is there, when I know that they have true remorse. The rest can go fuck themselves.

What about you ? Tell us in your own words, not in a bunch of quotes and bullshit, damn, you're worse than DKen ! What does everything have to be told to you ? Think for yourself. You want to connect with people give up a little bit. What is lurking in your mind ? Why art thou holier ? Because you believe a bunch of written words that have no bearing on life now ?

It is your turn to write some words, without the haughty hubris, without Christ or anyone else. Do it by yourself. Tell us what made you what you are. And of course tell us what you are. You are not divine, and neiuther is your Christ, at least not anymore than anyone else.

Out with it, unless you have something to hide.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/7/2011 9:38:34 PM

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Oh Nooo. Not the slurping troll awaiting approval... Who's going to be as good a male slut around here?

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/7/2011 10:17:36 PM

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Oh Nooo. Not the slurping troll awaiting approval... Who's going to be as good a male slut around here? M

In order to try to stem the onslaught of mail on his behalf that is surely to follow, I will say that his post was a fake waiting approval.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/7/2011 10:29:04 PM

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*smooches 21*

YAY! the best bit of the thread so far, for me!!

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/7/2011 10:42:53 PM

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Ooh, thank you kindly 21.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/7/2011 11:17:53 PM

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In order to try to stem the onslaught of mail on his behalf that is surely to follow, I will say that his post was a fake waiting approval.

You just had to mess with his ploy for a wave of sympathy mail, didn't ya 21?

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/7/2011 11:19:36 PM

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Rho!! *hugs*

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/8/2011 12:34:11 AM

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Hugz ya back, Greedy.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/8/2011 12:43:41 AM

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This is psycho-babble. You are denying that life is mysterious. None of you seem to understand what truth is. Truth is something you can rely on. You cannot rely on assertions such as this. They are often false. They are only sometimes true. That it is sometimes true doesn't make it true.

The assaults on me have been superficial. Look see, the man with gold, he is wise! So if you are a man with a bitch, surely he is wise too. Your views are materialistic and wishfully so. The primary means by which many of you get sex is by lowering your standards. There is little point in me lowering my standards because even then I wouldn't get it. It is easy to demonstrate that materialism is a dead-end. I do not feel inclined to explain it to all of you. It is in fact obvious. It will never give us what we really want or deserve.

I am very different from all of you. Who knows, maybe I'm a star child here to assist mankind. It's a lonely job, but someone has got to do it.

can anybody translate this into english for me

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/8/2011 1:32:36 AM

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Jennister, just to be nice I will show you the ropes. Well not the real ones we keep out back, but the regular ones.

"This is psycho babble"

That means "I can't understand it".

"You are denying that life is mysterious. None of you seem to understand what truth is."

That means "You are failing to understand that I am supreme, that I am everything anyone any everyone wants, and you have no idea yet that you cannot live wothout me"

" Truth is something you can rely on. You cannot rely on assertions such as this. They are often false. They are only sometimes true. That it is sometimes true doesn't make it true. "

Don't rely on assertion, except for his, because my fifty years of life in a very unusual circumstance mean nothing. Only his experience has brought him next to godliness. In laymen's terms, his truth makes people sick.

"The assaults on me have been superficial. Look see, the man with gold, he is wise! So if you are a man with a bitch, surely he is wise too."

He has lost both of the fights he was in in his life.

"Your views are materialistic and wishfully so."

He wears a tie to go to McDonald's.

"There is little point in me lowering my standards because even then I wouldn't get it. "

He doesn't want it, he is afraid of i t.

"I do not feel inclined to explain it to all of you."

Trust me, come to my hell and when you run away, I'l get on the internet.

"I am very different from all of you."

The classic well subliminated inferiority complex. A bit of smoke, and a mirror.

I don't want to tear this fucker down so. Really. But this attitude, well it actually doesn't annoy me, it just gives me something to do. The hubris is so blatent. Henry fucking Kissinger didn't have quite this attitude. And I am treating him better than they treated me when I first got here.

Just ly out any specific questions. This is the forum. The patient is here for a reason.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/8/2011 2:19:34 AM

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I realize this will be anticlimactic for some. Much like what FukinTroll wrote, what you wrote Termyn8or is laden with land mines. This is less obvious in what FukinTroll wrote, however. Statements such as "neiuther is your Christ" (you misspelled neither) and queries such as

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OK Benny, let's just get down to it. You are divine. How did you come by that ?

in what you wrote are attempts to snare me. Your goal, apparently, is to either snare me or claim that since I did not cooperate that I'm a troll or as you put it "Out with it, unless you have something to hide." Since these were attempts to snare me, you are not behaving in an honorable fashion; hence, I have no obligation to respond to what you wrote apart from what I have just written. Upon having made this declaration I have no obligation to respond to anything you may write henceforth. It will be entirely at my discretion. I will, however, say this: Your life story was moving. What is important is not the beginning of the journey, but its end. Why is Jesus Christ able to forgive your Sins? Theologically speaking, it is because all Sins are not committed against your alleged victims. They were committed against God. As such He has total jurisdiction in this matter. God has the victim right to forgive or condemn. I hope that I or others have laid a seed of doubt in you and your soil is rich so that one day perhaps after a long and tortured journey. I recommend that you watch the 1986 film The Mission starring Robert De Niro. It depicts a man played by Robert De Niro who is tortured by guilt. It is also worth watching just for the scenery. The film is set in a Brazilian rainforest.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/8/2011 3:09:10 AM

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Thank you termyn8or - you are a sweetheart

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/8/2011 3:15:34 AM

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"Theologically speaking, it is because all Sins are not committed against your alleged victims. They were committed against God. As such He has total jurisdiction in this matter. "

And that is EXACTLY what I totally reject. If you wrong me, it is up to me to decide to forgive you, not some 2,000 year old hippie that got kicked out of his tribe for exactly that same shit.

You got it ? I don't fucking buy the bullshit. Go to church, be happy.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/8/2011 3:38:44 AM

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"Thank you termyn8or - you are a sweetheart "

No, I am not. I sin. I am not perfect. When they catch me that is my problem, although they might think it their's. I am not beladen with any bullshit fantasies or anything of the sort. No member of my immediate family has said "I love you" in the last decade at the very least. My Mother knows what I am doing and my Father knew what I was going to do after he died and I fucked the systyem out of about fifty grand and I'm working on the next.

I am not fucking around on this planet any more. I want every dime back I ever paid in taxes, and all my Parents and Grandparents paid,. I want it all. The only problem right now is that I'm making more than I can con the stupid fucks out of, which concerns me. I am tired of working.

But I admit it. I make no pretense. Friends get cut alot of slack - ALOT. I've had people rip me off and let it slide. There's that forgiveness. But it is at my discretion. And those I worng, well it is at their discretion.

I am lower than snake shit, but I can dominate damnear anyone. My whole family and damnear all my friends, who DO stick around by the way. But they know and I know who and what each of us are.

I will kill for a friend, dying I would have to think about. Fuck everybody else. But I will have to add that my family happens to be friends of mine. Also there is a contingent of chosen family, who I guard and regard in the same light.

I am forfeit. I have wrecked my life. All I want to do is live the rest of it in some measure of peace, with the occasional ruckus of course. I took what I took, and I will take what I take. And what's been takern from me is gone. And at the end of my life, fair or not, we are even.

At that point I don't care.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/8/2011 5:08:23 AM

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I still think you are a sweety

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/8/2011 5:11:58 AM

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Jenni. he's a lunatic.. but he's a charming lunatic. Unlike the OP....

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/8/2011 5:14:56 AM

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The op's just delusional.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/8/2011 5:19:52 AM

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delusional is being kind.

(I'm not entirely convinced I dont know this ..person..)

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