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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/8/2011 7:03:17 AM   
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ORIGINAL: BenevolentM

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You are lonely because you are unable to connect with people.


This is psycho-babble. You are denying that life is mysterious. None of you seem to understand what truth is. Truth is something you can rely on. You cannot rely on assertions such as this. They are often false. They are only sometimes true. That it is sometimes true doesn't make it true.

The assaults on me have been superficial. Look see, the man with gold, he is wise! So if you are a man with a bitch, surely he is wise too. Your views are materialistic and wishfully so. The primary means by which many of you get sex is by lowering your standards. There is little point in me lowering my standards because even then I wouldn't get it. It is easy to demonstrate that materialism is a dead-end. I do not feel inclined to explain it to all of you. It is in fact obvious. It will never give us what we really want or deserve.

I am very different from all of you. Who knows, maybe I'm a star child here to assist mankind. It's a lonely job, but someone has got to do it.


Since this has been brought up in other posts, but was initially a response to me, I figure I may as well answer it.

I am not denying that life is mysterious. That is vast extrapolation on your part.

"None of you seem to understand what truth is. Truth is something you can rely on. You cannot rely on assertions such as this. They are often false. They are only sometimes true. That it is sometimes true doesn't make it true."

You are absolutely correct on that.
But-
If something is sometimes true, it does not automatically make it false.

"The assaults on me have been superficial. Look see, the man with gold, he is wise! So if you are a man with a bitch, surely he is wise too. Your views are materialistic and wishfully so. The primary means by which many of you get sex is by lowering your standards. There is little point in me lowering my standards because even then I wouldn't get it. It is easy to demonstrate that materialism is a dead-end. I do not feel inclined to explain it to all of you. It is in fact obvious. It will never give us what we really want or deserve."

I am not judging you for being alone.
I am not judging you for being lonely.
Those are facts as determined by you; there is no judgement in that.

My views are not at all materialistic.
It is true that before my wants were clearly defined, it could be perceived that I lowered my standards, but actually that was not the case. I just did not know better in the many layers of that.
And then just over 2 years ago when I wasn't looking at all, someone who was local to me joined CM. He cmailed me within a few days of his joining.
Emails followed and then lunches.
Our first 'play' if you will was a shared bath.
He is my Master now.
There are no lowered standards.

I want to go back to the statement that you parsed which began this exchange:
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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

You are lonely because you are unable to connect with people.


If I were to say you are lonely because people are unable to connect with you, that makes it no less true..and may be closer to the mark.
My suggestion would be the same: find a competent therapist that you can develop a rapport with.
You can't change all the other people who are unable to connect with you.
You can however, investigate possible impediments as to why that might be and what actions/changes you could take on your end that might have a positive effect should you choose to impliment them.

Think of it this way: the way you might be able to alter the perceptions of the therapist and then the influence upon other people you could connect with which could be of benefit.

'Où sont les hommes ?' reprit enfin le petit prince. 'On est un peu seul dans le désert.'
'On est seul aussi chez les hommes', dit le serpent.
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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/8/2011 8:26:27 AM   
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Oh Nooo.   Not the slurping troll awaiting approval...  Who's going to be as good a male slut around here?    M


In order to try to stem the onslaught of mail on his behalf that is surely to follow, I will say that his post was a fake waiting approval. 



Hey! That was my "preservation post" see how it was just frozen there with everyone sitting in anticipation of what it could be? I could have left them hanging for years... I was trying to be a good Troll I was, uh huh- I was, and show the OP how to preserve ones self and keep the audience captivated with anticipation.

I think it would be the perfect preservative for him, but I am sure that after the meeting Theta started, the conclusion was STOP FEEDING THE GOBLIN! We just haven't caught on to that yet.

SLURP~
*Troll enterprises does not condone the feeding of Goblins but encourages all Goblins to be put on the endangered species list , [Awaiting Approval]. Void where prohibited, coming to a bridge near you.


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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/8/2011 8:29:50 AM   
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In order to try to stem the onslaught of mail on his behalf that is surely to follow, I will say that his post was a fake waiting approval. 

You just had to mess with his ploy for a wave of sympathy mail, didn't ya 21?


Rho Rho luvs me this I know
Cuz her posts tell me so
Little Troll you're the one
You're getting gold mail just for fun
Yes, Rho Rho luvs me
Yes, Rho Rho luvs me
Yes, Rho Rho luvs me
All u goblins better run

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/8/2011 10:39:08 AM   
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In order to try to stem the onslaught of mail on his behalf that is surely to follow, I will say that his post was a fake waiting approval. 

You just had to mess with his ploy for a wave of sympathy mail, didn't ya 21?


Actually I was referring to my mailbox, which was surely about to be filled with missives from his hordes of adoring fans. I would not want to be set upon by Team Troll.



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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/8/2011 10:40:48 AM   
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Actually I was referring to my mailbox, which was surely about to be filled with missives from his hordes of adoring fans. I would not want to be set upon by Team Troll.




Yeah you would....*snickers*



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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/8/2011 10:58:39 AM   
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Edited to say... Bwah hah hah, I got it in

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/8/2011 11:05:07 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ModTwentyOne


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ORIGINAL: VideoAdminRho


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In order to try to stem the onslaught of mail on his behalf that is surely to follow, I will say that his post was a fake waiting approval. 

You just had to mess with his ploy for a wave of sympathy mail, didn't ya 21?


Actually I was referring to my mailbox, which was surely about to be filled with missives from his hordes of adoring fans. I would not want to be set upon by Team Troll.


Ya know I love ya baby! Just because of you I am going to change the 20 minute warning to the 21 minute warning.

SLURP~

*Troll enterprises feels it is necessary to clarify the significance of the 20 minute warning. FukinTroll is a primal fukin sex monster and always extends the caveat that states: Tell me 20 minutes before you have had enough so I can finish up. Troll Enterprises would like to (snickers) EXTEND our debt of gratitude to Mod 21 for bringing FukinTroll into the modern age and adding a minute of warning to his future victims.


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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/8/2011 11:16:35 AM   
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Theologically speaking, it is because all Sins are not committed against your alleged victims. They were committed against God. As such He has total jurisdiction in this matter. God has the victim right to forgive or condemn.



Theologically speaking, this is inaccurate.

When we sin, or do wrong to some one, we have broken God's Law. Jesus died in order that God forgive us the sins of violating his law. That does not mean we haven't also sinned against our fellow man. It's two fold, my friend. We broke God's Law by sinning against our fellow man. God does not take over our sins or become the " victim " of an individual sin. Our sins are ours, those whom we sin against are our victims. Not God's victims.

The sin or wrong doing is clearly on the person who commits the act, and God does not take responsibility for it. The Bible is full of references that we must forgive others who do wrong to us " as God has forgiven you "

"Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven" (Luke 6:37).

"Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you." Colossians 3:13

"And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive him, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins" (Mark 11:25)

Nowhere in the Bible I read is there a passage that my own sins against my fellow man is not really a sin against man but a sin against God. God ain't taking away personal responsibility to do good.

Benevolent: As a Christian, I find your version of Christianity very convenient. " Hey, if things aren't going well.. it's "God's will " If I hurt some one, it's not really the person I am hurting, it's God. The person isn't a victim, God is.

You are unpartnered not because of God's will. God gave us all free will to go out into the world and live according to his law. That means we are responsible for our own lives. Between birth and death we have the ability to control our own destiny as any other person does. It's called personal responsibility and Jesus preached quite extensively about it, albeit not using those words.

And I know this will fall on deaf ears and be re created and bastardized, but I can't stand your using God as an excuse for anything that doesn't fall your way. And it's not because I am a religious fanatic, it's just that these sort of ramblings are, in part, what gives Christianity a bad name.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/8/2011 10:36:50 PM   
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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/8/2011 10:51:33 PM   
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Actually I was referring to my mailbox, which was surely about to be filled with missives from his hordes of adoring fans. I would not want to be set upon by Team Troll.

I dunno, 21, some of them guys and gals are awfully cute, and 'set upon' kind of sounds like fun... if I get to watch, anyway

FT- awww, love it!

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/8/2011 11:00:53 PM   
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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/9/2011 12:06:48 AM   
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Status: offline 		"That does not mean we haven't also sinned against our fellow man."

Very well put MB, but don't expect me to convert just yet. And really, Christians are supposed to forgive, and I am all for it. But not when your transgresors have an attitude like "fuck you". If they really are sorry that they wronged you, then it is apropriate. The rest of the time, just shootem.

"Do not judge, and you will not be judged"

You mean lest ye be judged ? I can read, and if it just said do not judge, it would mean one thing. But with the end on it it means something else. I think the whole thing means that if you got it in your head that you should judge others, prepare to also be judged. I don't find this unreasonable, I judge and I think we all do. I admit it and I will maybe be judged one day. So what ?

And this comes from someone who has done so much bad that it made me good. I wouldn't hurt a fucking fly now.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/9/2011 1:39:48 AM   
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"That does not mean we haven't also sinned against our fellow man."

Very well put MB, but don't expect me to convert just yet. And really, Christians are supposed to forgive, and I am all for it. But not when your transgresors have an attitude like "fuck you". If they really are sorry that they wronged you, then it is apropriate. The rest of the time, just shootem.

"Do not judge, and you will not be judged"

You mean lest ye be judged ? I can read, and if it just said do not judge, it would mean one thing. But with the end on it it means something else. I think the whole thing means that if you got it in your head that you should judge others, prepare to also be judged. I don't find this unreasonable, I judge and I think we all do. I admit it and I will maybe be judged one day. So what ?

And this comes from someone who has done so much bad that it made me good. I wouldn't hurt a fucking fly now.

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Nawwww.. I wasn't trying to convert anyone, termy. Sorry if I gave that impression. I was speaking directly to the OP regarding his use of God/Christianity as an " excuse ".

Judge not, lest you be judged is from Mathew, not Luke. If one reads further in Mathew 2 it says : For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.

So in a way your correct when you say be prepared to be judged yourself.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/9/2011 1:48:29 AM   
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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/9/2011 2:12:51 AM   
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Status: offline 		One thing I am grateful to the OP for is highlighting just how much good and evil is a matter of perception rather than principle. This in itself is testimony of why spirituality and morality is an individual matter and why we all need to decide such matters for ourselves.

I applaud maybemaybenot's postings here 200%, and wish that many others would follow her example.

Reading this thread made me think of the civil rights struggle that is taking place in Iran right now and the recent spate of executions carried out, averaging one hanging every eight hours, mainly for 'moharebeh' (enmity with God).

Had this have all taken place in Iran there would be no Collarme, for a thread like this the OP and everyone running this website would be on death row for moharebeh, being tortured, we would all be persecuted and living in fear.

And it's not just Iran, but elsewhere. And all because of people perceiving evil as good and treating God as an imaginary friend.

The problem isn't religion. There is a lot of good going on in the world today, and a lot of love, friendship, and sharing. Much of it is unstated, not spoken about, but experienced and shared between a majority of people who are at one with God and other people.

The problem is with some people, individual people, and how they perceive the world and God, and the decisions they make as a result.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/9/2011 3:08:37 AM   
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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/9/2011 4:11:32 AM   
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Actually I was referring to my mailbox, which was surely about to be filled with missives from his hordes of adoring fans. I would not want to be set upon by Team Troll.

I dunno, 21, some of them guys and gals are awfully cute, and 'set upon' kind of sounds like fun... if I get to watch, anyway

FT- awww, love it!


We can invite TwentyOne to the party, so far you and VAA owes me spankens, LillyBoPeep is gonna eat me, and Poohbear is gonna paint me green, hmmm....so it's only fair that TwentyOne can just sit and enjoy being "set up" by the hordes of horny Trollops. After all one should not be selfish and keep all the happy for oneself. Hope TwentyOne likes redheads though....and blondes...and brunettes.......

Plus watching will let me rest and recover between mod rounds......

Excuse me...I needs a towel.....

Think I better buy a carpet cleaner before we schedule this party!

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/9/2011 4:55:34 AM   
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o_o it's about to get serious.


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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/9/2011 7:22:35 PM   
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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/9/2011 7:31:36 PM   
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i think a "Team Troll" tshirt would be a wonderful addition to His Trolliness's TrollTopia. just sayin'...


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