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March Roll Call - 3/1/2011 8:50:06 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		OK.  We kind of messed up by missing our February catch up, so there should be plenty of updated news now that it's March.

February was an amazing month for Me.  My kink life is in full swing.  I was asked to be the first 'official' presenter for a newly formed group that is closer to home than the munch group I have been attending.  This coincided with being co-presenter on the same day with MP on a demo about electrical play.  (His first one, but I ended up doing all of the work on the handout.)  I'm also sitting on the voting council now for the new group, so I've been spending a lot of time working on things like dungeon rules for play parties and all kinds of things under the sun.  All of this is on top of having plenty of fun in the play department.

With all of this in mind, I came to the decision that I really don't have the time to add another person to My household.  I just didn't feel that it was fair.  It's a bit on the disappointing side, but it was practical.  Once this decision was made, I also changed My profile here to reflect that I'm no longer open to considering potential submissives.  I already have more than enough play opportunities through the BDSM community, so I'm now listed as 'friends only'.

In March, I have another presentation coming up which is a shortened version of Fire and Ice.  I see it more as an introduction to fire play than anything else.  That one is an invitation only event, so I won't be listing it on the site.  In addition, the same group is doing a camping/sub hunt during that week.  I also have plans to be in Bakersfield and Fresno during the month as just your average kinkster.  It's going to be another busy month.




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RE: March Roll Call - 3/1/2011 9:21:52 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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Joined: 8/15/2005
From: Island Of Misfit Toys
Status: offline 		It's March! My toybag is packed away in the closet and will be for thw foreseeable future. A much needed break.

In real life, I might be buying an accounting practice. Eep.

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RE: March Roll Call - 3/1/2011 9:27:51 AM   
SweetDommes


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Joined: 10/5/2004
Status: offline 		We have puppies ... and between that and my coworkers being apparently unable to show up on a regular basis, I'm busy as heck.

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RE: March Roll Call - 3/1/2011 3:00:44 PM   
Tantriqu


Posts: 2026
Joined: 12/29/2006
Status: offline 		I had the toys and condoms all dusted off, and had to repack the former after a no-show, and pitch the latter after seeing the expiry date. Curses!

Ah, well, another month, another prospective pup. BTW, ladies, condoms now come in beautiful little tins.
I laughed at the expiration date of the new batch: 2014! Jesus! I hope so!



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RE: March Roll Call - 3/1/2011 5:21:47 PM   
YSG


Posts: 1001
Joined: 8/6/2010
Status: offline 		February was 28 days of sheer hell for me. Fighting with the now insignificant other, bomb threats and failed tests at school, nasty, sub-human scumbag customers at work, and my car breaking down repeatedly. Though I will admit, it was fun being a "temporary Packers fan" during the week of the Super Bowl

March, in my mind, comes as a reset button for me. I had my first really good day in about two weeks, including getting an A on my test in my buisness class, and getting hit on by this cute 18 year old girl.

The only thing I have left to say is, lock up your daughters, Im single again! Yeah Baby!

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RE: March Roll Call - 3/1/2011 7:26:47 PM   
LadyRian


Posts: 486
Joined: 9/5/2010
Status: offline 		I've been involved in buying some country property, and getting ready to move!
This is somewhere I've wanted to live for a long time, and has some fantastic mountain views.
Now all I have to do is actually build a house on it.


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RE: March Roll Call - 3/1/2011 7:53:38 PM   
hausboy


Posts: 2360
Joined: 9/5/2010
Status: offline 		Busy month for me as well--joined a local chapter of ClubFEM and having a delightful go at it.  Attending the Colonial Kink conference this weekend---it is the first leather conference I've attended since my transition--and the first leather/BDSM conference where I'm not a presenter--may actually get to relax and enjoy myself for once!  A local Domme has asked me to be one of her part-time houseboys, so now with two Households to mind, it's going to be a busy Spring cleaning!  My H.O.H. (Head of Household) will be at the conference this weekend and already told me to expect a long, sore drive home.  It's a good thing.

Rough winter with all the health issues (still not 100% on my hearing) and just hoping it's not going to be one of those all work and no play months. My medical unit has been notified of a potential field deployment so March could be more than I bargained for.  (Also a good thing.)

The cats are good. I'm good.  Just gotta continue my quest to find a good woman who wants to keep my ass in line. 

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RE: March Roll Call - 3/1/2011 8:23:39 PM   
Wickad


Posts: 428
Joined: 3/12/2005
Status: offline 		Hmmm, I've never weighed in on this so .... here goes!!

February was cold as it usually is in Saskatchewan but we had an amazing break of above freezing temps. for about a week and a half. Totally unheard of up here. It was really nice.

The roaming Taboo: Naughty but Nice Sex Show was in town. Many of us in the local community went out and volunteered at the Dungeon and performed (good word) demo's for the mainly vanilla crowd. The booth next to us had one of their ....hmmm, "demo boys/ sales people / ignorant masses" collapse due to dehydration and he had to be taken away by the medics. I guess that's what happens when you don't know what aftercare is, play with for him two days, and work his little ass off as well. Sometimes I hate uniformed, intentionally ignorant folks. Aside from that Saskatchewan also has another group south of us that is all about putting on workshops and information nights. It's really good to see something other than munches arrive in our little neck of the woods.

Personally, I started riding lessons this month. I'm very excited about this as it's always been my dream to own horses and we're getting ours in just over a year and a half so ... guess it's time to start the riding lessons. I've been having a lot of fun with it even though I feel sorry for the poor horse for having to drag my expansive butt around the arena. I also learned I'm terribly out of shape and really need to work on that. As well I got to use a wonderfully snobby line the other day "I'm sorry, but I'll have to cancel my riding lesson as I just remembered I have symphony tickets for that night". Wow, when do you get to use that - lol. Now granted the symphony tickets were free because a friend plays in it but ... what a great line. ... and George Gao was wonderful!! It was an amazing night.

I think that's about it and I guess I'll check back later.
Wickad

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RE: March Roll Call - 3/1/2011 9:32:18 PM   
SthrnCom4t


Posts: 343
Joined: 9/9/2007
Status: offline 		February gone already...damn!

I'm not sure where the time has gone, although we've been home more than usual. Sinus/head colds have been prominent this season, so the 'downtime' hasn't been as productive as we'd have liked. Otter is plenty busy with his consulting and my work is having some upsides as well. $$ to spend on the fun things in life is a blessing.

The highlight of the month was a weekend in Steamboat Springs, CO over Valentine's. We rented a nice 2 bed/2 bath condo with another Femdom/girlie boy couple who we really enjoy. We went snowmobiling and tubing and played like kids. GREAT FUN! The pool was heated, next to the hot tub, and it was beautiful to look at the stars, have 5 foot piles of snow adjacent to the fence, and soak in the steamy hot water. At least 3 foot of snow covered the rooftops, so it's no surprise that this is where American winter Olympic athletes come to train. Dinner at a fancy restaurant that Saturday night gave us some wonderful ideas for recipe combinations to try once we came home. And there are now very cute pics of a naked girlie boy, begging to come in off the balcony, which have been be added to My collection.

March is going to be a busy month, starting with a private Mardi Gras /play party this coming weekend, and ending with a 6 day vacation with kinky friends to the city of New Orleans. Add some hosting of friends and a snow-shoeing date in there, and the month is already completely full with social events already.

Blessed Be to All!




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RE: March Roll Call - 3/2/2011 7:36:52 AM   
pyroaquatic


Posts: 1535
Joined: 12/4/2006
From: Pyroaquatica
Status: offline 		Oh oh oh....

Major upswing in terms of emotional stability. Medication is working and now I am going to therapy for the first time in a while. Dialectical Behavioral Therapy plus some other stuff.

Though because of this I am broke broke broke which really ruins my chances of finding a decent mate/lifepartner. Regardless I have bravely put myself out on the meat market again, confident that I have the proper tools to beat back that foul depressive beast and I can leave my drama with my therapist.

Also, my birthday is on the 16th. No longer will I be a prime number. This year went by fast for me.

I feel like moving again to somewhere new where there are more people, more opportunities, and a viable kink scene.


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RE: March Roll Call - 3/2/2011 8:14:51 AM   
YSG


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Status: offline 		Pyro, Im glad to hear you're doing better. You'll get there bro, it just takes some time.

Also, happy (early) birthday!

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RE: March Roll Call - 3/2/2011 10:13:40 AM   
SylvereApLeanan


Posts: 8275
Joined: 11/1/2007
From: Hell
Status: offline 		So far, 2011 has not been great but it finally seems to be shaking off 2010: The Year That Would Not Die and is looking better.  My hubby, Spyder, was finally able to get enough hours at his part-time IT job so that he could quit his job at the auto plant.  This means he's now working from home (yay!) and having to put in fewer hours (yay! x2).  His health is already improving and I'm looking forward to the arrival of the eCig so maybe he can finally quit smoking. 
 
I'm also working at a temp job for some extra money to bail us out of the financial hole created by a few months of Spyder being laid off at the plant.  The in-danger-of-foreclosure-and-homelessness period is over and, by my calculations, we should be able to pay off several other debts, including some of the student loans, by the end of the year.  Sooner if Spyder's boss can get him more clients so he can have full time hours.
 
Kinkwise, I'm not doing much.  The winter months combined with needed car repairs mean I haven't gotten to see my girl  but that should change once we get the tax refund and can fix the van.  I've realized that I've been missing my ex-play-partner (xpp), not because I miss him, but because I miss some of the things I could do to/with him.  I'm contemplating looking for a new partner with similar fetishes, but this time I'm going to make sure I get the upgraded version.  Since rubber/latex tends to be a male-dominated fetish (no pun intended), this means I'll be in the market for a submissive male.  I have very mixed feelings about that. 

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RE: March Roll Call - 3/2/2011 9:10:04 PM   
Delilya


Posts: 4108
Joined: 2/2/2011
Status: offline 		After 10 years of celibacy, this year I decided to come out of mourning, and find someone new. I don't really have the opportunity to go out to meet, because of my long work hours. I can be very patient when I want something. So far it's been fun, annoying and a learning process. Heck, I am still trying to get my profile to sound sane..haha.

I look forward to getting to know all of you better. The forums have been a wealth of information and I appreciate those who post.

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RE: March Roll Call - 3/2/2011 9:34:21 PM   
MaamJay


Posts: 2101
Joined: 9/2/2005
Status: offline 		February we finally got moving again ... though not all that far! Still moseying through central NSW (that's Australia for newbies who don't know Me). Have done some sightseeing but the bursitis in My foot flared up again and became full on tendonitis. After the LONG rest over Dec-Jan to allow My thigh muscle to heal (which it did!), it seems the foot problem isn't going away, and the cortisone injection I had in October didn't work either. So, after much discussion esp about $$, we decided it's not worth spending money travelling the countryside for at least the rest of this year if I can't get to see what I want without suffering badly. The foot causes Me to limp which then throws My back out causing more pain!

So, we bought a travelscoot - it's a very lightweight (16kg) foldable scooter which can take the weight of a 320lb person (and I'm not that, though I am very substantial!). With a lithium battery it has great mileage and should recharge many many times successfully. Got it 2 days ago and took it out sightseeing yesterday. OMG it's awesome!! I was able to get straight on and ride it round and round the caravan park, it's very easy to ride. And yesterday I went around 4 museums and then around 'The Dish' (Australia's famous radio telescope) ... so easy. I couldn't have walked all that, after the 4 museums I would have been in serious agony and exhausted. Half the time I'm stuffed just walking in from the carpark as spaces in Australia aren't built for something the size of the Chev so we can never park close to the door. It's ideal for someone like Me who CAN walk ... just not hugely far or fast. It's light enough to pick up and carry up a flight of steps. It won't handle really rough terrain, so there will still be bush tracks I will have to walk along, but I can 'save My strength' for those if I can scoot around the rest of the time. It can go in shops etc too so no more will Master be doing most of the shopping alone as He has been for the past 3 months (He's happy about that!). Poor Master was the one who ended up a bit knackered yesterday ... trying to keep up LOL! Of all the testimonials I read on the website before I purchased, I really liked the one that said 'freedom is spelled travelscoot'. Reckon I agree with that!

So, March is looking really good as we continue to wend our way southwards, seeing lots of things (in more comfort) and heading towards Victoria by April (hopefully!). The study is going really well too, I had a bit of an epiphany on My thesis structure on the weekend which My supervisor loves, so am really getting into full scale writing up My case studies mode. All very exciting too.

A lack of anything much bdsm, but when we get to some towns in the nearish future there are a few that have talked about coming to meet up ... as always, I'll believe it when they actually front up! But it will be good if it happens. All the best to those moving, buying businesses, caring for puppies ... and esp pyro and YSG who appear to be moving forward from some not-so-good situations. Hugs to you both.

Maam Jay aka violet[A] (who's feeling wheelie wheelie good now!)



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RE: March Roll Call - 3/2/2011 10:06:05 PM   
Arpig


Posts: 9930
Joined: 1/3/2006
From: Increasingly further from reality
Status: offline 		February was a very trying month for me and the Ex, my son's health problems have been ongoing and we have been back and forth to the hospital innumerable times (the triage nurses in the ER remember us!!!).
Hopefully March will be better, but I somehow doubt it. Anyway, the plans are for me to watch the two older kids over March break while the Ex takes the youngest to visit the grandparents, then for the last weekend of March break I am taking my older son (the one with the health issues) to Toronto for a night to go to a ghost hunter night at a supposedly haunted castle-like building.
Other than that, not much out of the ordinary...work some, drink some, play some D&D...the usual


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RE: March Roll Call - 3/2/2011 11:50:32 PM   
pinniped


Posts: 41
Joined: 9/14/2010
Status: offline 		Not that I've been here recently or regularly enough that anyone was likely to be wondering, but since I popped by...

February was busy.  I work for a national company whose mainstay is flower delivery, so as you might expect, Valentine's Day is one of our busiest times (second only to Mother's Day).  Lots of sales calls in the weeks leading up, and service calls after.  I survived the post-peak-season cutbacks so I'm almost certainly employed for at least a few more months, which is good.  This week, back to part-time hours.

Kink-wise, nothing, of course -- though having some nice personal discussions with a friend who is also kinky (and female, but submissive, alas) who has recently found a dominant she seems to be getting along well with, though they can't see one another often enough.  Still, good to have someone I actually know that I can discuss the issues and frustrations with, and who doesn't think I'm crazy (or at least, not for that reason).  Tonight we chatted online for some time, partly about my crossdressing, the philosophical discord we both have about how I'd like to be treated (at least sometimes) with our views on sexual equality (a dilemma she faces personally, as a feminist masochist), and how it seems to be far more a hindrance than a help in seeking partners (kinky or otherwise, though the latter is perhaps more obvious).  Also, on my own experiences at play parties, something she'd like to try but is terrified of -- not that I've been to many (four, over a period of over then years) but still, more than she has.  I've proposed we try some mutual support in our searching, but working out the details may prove impractical.  (Also, she may not be actually searching now.)

Otherwise, mood up and down, socially still to isolated but that's difficult to deal with in my living situation.  Crossing my fingers that an opportunity that's arisen at work may lead to an improvement there.  And worrying about one of my roommates, who has gotten paranoid in a way I find disturbing, another reason I'd like to change my living arrangements...

And just generally, mystified by all you happy, successful people who seem to have a clue how to go about this life business.  How'd you manage that?   Well, keep it up, you may motivate some of us a bit.

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RE: March Roll Call - 3/3/2011 3:23:18 AM   
sunshinemiss


Posts: 17673
Joined: 11/26/2007
Status: offline 		February was an amazingly fabulous month for me. Like so many of my colleagues, I went home (wherever home is for all of us). School is out from mid-Dec to end of Feb, so there is a mass exodus from So. Korea to points all over the globe. I can't tell you how jealous I was of the So. African teachers who spent their winter break... in summertime! I spent time with some of my most favorite people in the world (including folks that I met ages ago from CM). I recognized every morsel of food placed in front of me - woo hoo! Because clothes in Korea don't fit most people from other places - including me, I went shopping A LOT! I came back with two full suitcases of new-to-me clothes. Ok, one of them was full of books, but you know what I mean :)

I finished the first edit and most of the second edit of my novel. I also won an award for one of my short stories, and I found out that another one has been picked up for a book and a third is also being published. I've been asked to work as a regular editor for an international scholarly journal and am considering it. I've also been asked to speak at several conferences. It's nice to have the opportunity to choose.

I feel really blessed and deeply loved. People came from all over the USA to visit me while I was home, and what a joy that was! I made some really hard choices while I was away, and ended up getting an apartment here as soon as I got back. I'm here for the long haul.

I'm taking some classes, and that's harder than I thought! Uni in my 40s sure isn't the same as it was in my 20s.

So I'm not just some slap happy Pollyanna, I'll tell you that I had some serious disappointments recently, but as always, I'll be private about that. Suffice it to say, every problem life has thrown my way I've handled - not always well, not always efficiently, but one way or another. Same is true for this.

Nice to see all y'all again!
sunshine

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RE: March Roll Call - 3/3/2011 4:39:52 AM   
BonesFromAsh


Posts: 1362
Joined: 6/17/2010
Status: offline 		I haven't posted on one of these roll call threads in quite a while so here goes...

February was a trying month for me (for a whole host of reasons) and I'm actually glad to see it go. The one good thing it did bring into my life, though, was my new hairy beast...a 7yr old male boxer. It's been a challenge having to adjust to such a relatively large dog in such a small space...both for me and the feline madams who share my space...but, knock on wood, we're all peacefully co-existing.

I've been dealing with some health issues that have made me learn to appreciate just live in the moment and not getting caught up in what was or what will be. Having the hairy beast has helped with that concept, along with the daily walks we take in the park.

Work is work...status quo.

In the love department, I go through moments where I want a partner and then I don't. Right now, I'm mostly open to a kinky friend with possibilities of more in time.

I'm SO ready for spring to arrive...both in a natural and in a personal sense!

I wish everyone the best of luck with their new endeavors and peace for those who need it.

~Bones

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RE: March Roll Call - 3/3/2011 8:23:53 AM   
mistressko


Posts: 63
Joined: 1/31/2011
Status: offline 		I'm good. February wasn't all bad. I turned 35 on Monday. March will be, well, who knows but inevitably creeping toward warmer days. Totally enjoying my invoolvement in BDSM and bought a couple of new toys (rather than staying a 'do it yourself' girl with whatever's on hand). I have a wishlist now, so that will be fun to cross things off. Obviously, for me, asking for such items for my birthday was not in the cards. How does one explain a slave hood or deprivation hood to one's parents and sizing etc. and where to order it when they think you are a good Catholic girl? I *am* a Catholic girl. . .with a little extra. ;-)

Just having sunlight when I am forced to wake up and serve the dog (even Dommes have Dommes sometimes) helps.

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RE: March Roll Call - 3/3/2011 9:27:59 AM   
Lockit


Posts: 11292
Joined: 5/7/2007
Status: offline 		The last few months have been what I call, 'You win some and you lose some', but ultimately I call them wins. One decided to rescue me from my Jerry Springer life, much to his dismay, I didn't want to be rescued! He also decided that I would make a great vice president, again much to his dismay, he learned I am president or nothing, which went along with his deciding that he could tame the dom right on outta me. You can find him no longer in my phone contacts. hehe

We had big changes in the last six months, adding a new grand baby... a girl this time and a sure bet on a new domina up and coming! I find her really funny because she sure knows what she wants, is charming until she doesn't get what she wants and then she makes you laugh with her stiff body, standing on your lap, mouth wide open and that lil yell that lets you know you pissed her off! Because of her entrance into our lives, a small house and the economy, mommy and daddy had to move a distance away from me, so now we are planning on moving my Jerry Springer Residence as well as the remodel I had started. OMG, why must having a pretty home be so frigging expensive and painful??? lol

My wins haven't been in the relationship department and my kinky self is getting so dusty it looks like what I cleaned off the cabinet I just hammered out of existence! My wins have been in finding items for my remodel at bargain basement prices. 85sf of flooring for $50. Finding I can reface most my cabinets and only need to buy base cabinets and finding granite tile for $60. I just need to find someone reliable to actually work for the decent money I pay. I fire them about as quick as I hire them. To think that some men think a woman knows nothing about remodeling! Another loss, but a win! lol

Another win is my son's continued healing and advancement!

Oh and my up and coming domina daughter has decided that she wants to know everything abut my love life and the men around me. She let me know yesterday when she asked about one, that I am not telling her enough! She thinks we need her approval! hehe I told her, that one was old news and that other one was too. She now wants to spend Sat. er... um.. catching up. lol I think we will go shopping instead.


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