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Kidless -> BDSM sacred cows (5/5/2006 9:12:05 AM)

So anyhow we seem to have a lot of these mooing about here and there........

So what's good and bad about this sort of thing to you?



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: BDSM sacred cows (5/5/2006 9:17:25 AM)

Same thing as any sacred idea- people get their noses scuffed when someone doesn't share the same "sacred" ideals and values...then people get their noses scuffed at others thinking they are somehow inferior/superior because they don't happen to share the same "sacred" ideals and values.

The notion that whatever someone else believes or does will somehow affect your own sense of value can lead to a lot of problems.  It's not uncommon for someone to say "I don't care what anyone but my master thinks" and then as soon as some dork comes onto them, they get all huffy because the dork isn't "respecting my relationship."



CrappyDom -> RE: BDSM sacred cows (5/5/2006 9:18:55 AM)

Some people puff their chest out by defending sacred cows, other people do it by attacking them. 



Kidless -> RE: BDSM sacred cows (5/5/2006 9:24:17 AM)

But this is the trick, can ya se it's a cow to begin with?



Kidless -> RE: BDSM sacred cows (5/5/2006 9:25:24 AM)

Ahh the distinction with the personal, vs abstract cow,..yes personal cows munch on one the most.



Wulfchyld -> RE: BDSM sacred cows (5/5/2006 9:28:41 AM)

So anyone wanna explain why my hamburger joint didn’t go over in Delhi?



pinioned14Me -> RE: BDSM sacred cows (5/5/2006 10:40:33 AM)

I guess at some points every "cow" should be tested & defended and if in the defense of that sacred thought O/one see's and understands more, the attack might prove to be a valuable teaching tool.

Then again....maybe ya just need to bitch slap the offender.



Kidless -> RE: BDSM sacred cows (5/5/2006 10:46:16 AM)

Some cows like to step on your feet and steal your veggies.

Bad cow.[&:]



CreativeDominant -> RE: BDSM sacred cows (5/5/2006 12:04:10 PM)

I think that for everyone, there are some things that are sacred.  To me, the person who shows true understanding is the one who recognizes that their sacred cow is just that...THEIR sacred cow.  Yeah, there are general things that are followed in D/s M/s...the basic structure of the relationship, power exchange, etc.  But some things are up to the individuals involved.  On the BDSM side, the humiliation play I enjoy with submissives might be seen as "normal" by some, "abusive" by others, and to others, "much ado about nothing".  But that is their feeling...not mine.  And they are not in the relationship.  I think there are too many things too quickly labeled abuse and then, given all that is done in the name of BDSM and D/s, it becomes dangerous to do anything.  On the D/s side, I have a tendency to be a "kidder"...not rough or mean, just playful.  I like a submissive who enjoys that and can kid right back.  I have been overheard engaged in this sort of verbal play and have been told by a very indignant dominant that I did not "have my submissive in hand".  And he knew that ... ?



Kidless -> RE: BDSM sacred cows (5/5/2006 12:07:42 PM)

Submissives in hand?

Ahh, you mean stuffed cows. They tend to explode without warning-messy



WeeIttyBitty -> RE: BDSM sacred cows (5/5/2006 12:27:32 PM)

Sacred cows make the best jackets... the leather is sooo soft.



Kidless -> RE: BDSM sacred cows (5/5/2006 12:28:19 PM)

And fun to skin,let's not forget the good part!



mixielicous -> RE: BDSM sacred cows (5/5/2006 12:30:14 PM)

wow, i missed something.




tasha_tart -> RE: BDSM sacred cows (5/5/2006 12:38:13 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Kidless

But this is the trick, can ya se it's a cow to begin with?


LOL...that is the tricky part!
 
It depends on how close you get...get close enough, and it's just a piece of warm leather filling your vision.  Not everyone can back off enough to see the big picture....that their particular "cow" is just one out of a whole herd.
 
Tasha



stef -> RE: BDSM sacred cows (5/5/2006 12:43:12 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mixielicous

wow, i missed something.

No, you really didn't.

~stef



Kidless -> RE: BDSM sacred cows (5/5/2006 2:59:49 PM)

Did anyone ever tell you that gas mask kinda makes you look well, "vaderish" steffie?

For some odd reason,I sort of enjoyed the look...(but I'm a little off anyhow)[;)]



Fawne -> RE: BDSM sacred cows (5/5/2006 5:08:45 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld

So anyone wanna explain why my hamburger joint didn’t go over in Delhi?

[:D] pfffft!
 
TY for the laugh!



gooddogbenji -> RE: BDSM sacred cows (5/5/2006 5:20:39 PM)

My sacred cow is a cannibal, and now has mad cow disease.  Combine that with the retarded Australian Stumpy Tail Cattle Dog that is writing this, and you might want to have your sacred cow graze in another pasture, if you value it.  We don't have much rhyme or reason (Who needs reason????) but we do have a surprisingly efficient lack of respect for others' cows.

Now where's that guy proclaiming the internet has killed "true" BDSM?  Cow and Dog are hungry.

Yours,


benji



Kidless -> RE: BDSM sacred cows (5/5/2006 5:27:17 PM)

My cow jumped over the moon.



CreativeDominant -> RE: BDSM sacred cows (5/5/2006 5:38:58 PM)

"My cow jumped over the moon"

To fetch a pail of water? Oh wait...that was Jack and that bitch, Jill.



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