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Introduction: Other side of the Mirror - 10/6/2004 12:41:39 PM   
rufus1969


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Status: offline 		Greetings and Salutations. I recently divorced after 12 years. In hind sight, while I had always considered myself the plain vanilla couple, I recognize that such was not the case. I have always had a dominate personality though not oppressive. I had incorrectly assumed that all couples experienced the same stero-typical arrangment: dominate male and submissive female. I believe that the problems began to arise as my then wife became more dominate towards other people (ok with me) and then less submissive toward me (workable but less ok). Like the flood waters rushing over the dam, her personality began to act as if I should submit to her. I recognize some give and take in the play arena, but found it very difficult for me to switch roles on an everyday basis. I believe that our relationship broke down as both of us were unable to override each dominate personality.

Now having explored a number of alt sites and channels, I see that I have always lived an alt lifestyle without calling it such. I was quite surprised at the physical arousal that I am experiencing just in reading some of the descriptions in the personals. My body seems to understand more about me than I do. Next step: find some playmates to explore this further. I have located two groups that hold local munches, so I will attend and meet others that already know what I am just learning.

I am glad that forums like this exist. Thanks.




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RE: Introduction: Other side of the Mirror - 10/6/2004 12:51:46 PM   
goddess97440


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Status: offline 		Hello and welcome, rufus. Make yourself at home. This is a great place. It's quickly become my favorite.

--Goddess

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RE: Introduction: Other side of the Mirror - 10/6/2004 12:52:24 PM   
goddess97440


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Status: offline 		I meant to ask... what is that a picture of?

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RE: Introduction: Other side of the Mirror - 10/6/2004 1:23:59 PM   
rufus1969


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Status: offline 		The image was one that I picked up off a website that makes Windows Login Screens and Boot Login Screens. It is called Caged Fury. It is an atomic explosion (a sun) surrounded by 5 concentric rings of liquid metal. I attached it as a analogy of my feelings: an explosive force is visable and trying to get out of the inside, while numerous and mysterious constraints are binding my energies from without.

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RE: Introduction: Other side of the Mirror - 10/6/2004 1:37:59 PM   
subbiejenn


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Hi welcome rufus!

I've been on other sites also but by far this one is the best. i love the forum here, many different opinions posted but for the most part everyone respects everyone else...

Look forward to seeing Your opinions on the boards *smiles*

W/we don’t bite (well maybe if You ask some will)

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~Subspace is my perfect paradise vacation from busy-mind... blessed be to the Dominant who can stamp my ticket there.~

"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away"

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RE: Introduction: Other side of the Mirror - 10/6/2004 2:08:46 PM   
goddess97440


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Status: offline 		Oooo thanks. It's more impressive with an explaination. Otherwise it was simply oddly intriguing.

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RE: Introduction: Other side of the Mirror - 10/6/2004 6:48:13 PM   
theroebabe


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Status: offline 		Hi Rufas and welcome to the forums at CM!

Well you have a found an online community now, and here there is lots of information to be had. There is the announcements section which may list events in your area!

So jump on in to the forums the water is fine!

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Roe

People always ask me why I do these things . . .
It's because I can!

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RE: Introduction: Other side of the Mirror - 10/7/2004 5:26:52 AM   
MistressAngelBBW


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ORIGINAL: goddess97440

Oooo thanks. It's more impressive with an explanation.


I agree!

and... hi Rufus! welcome! Newbie here also. Look forward to chatting with you.

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