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New Dom, help me out - 3/4/2011 7:20:25 PM   
Lady16Lily


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Status: offline 		I am starting out as a new dom and I need advice and new clients to show me the ropes. I had thought foot fetish would be fun, but I am open to suggestions. I do charge a fee. Let me know what you think! Thanks everyone!




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RE: New Dom, help me out - 3/4/2011 7:56:49 PM   
Delilya


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Status: offline 		Only you know what you like best. Good luck.

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RE: New Dom, help me out - 3/4/2011 8:05:24 PM   
poise


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ORIGINAL: Lady16Lily

I am starting out as a new dom and I need advice and new clients to show me the ropes. I had thought foot fetish would be fun, but I am open to suggestions. I do charge a fee. Let me know what you think! Thanks everyone!


Welcome to Collarme.
You charge a fee for us to suggest to you how to be a Domme? Wierd.
What exactly has inspired you to "be a dom" as you say. What are you
hoping to learn/gain/experience in this little adventure of yours?

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RE: New Dom, help me out - 3/4/2011 8:09:59 PM   
girlygurl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lady16Lily

I am starting out as a new dom and I need advice and new clients to show me the ropes. I had thought foot fetish would be fun, but I am open to suggestions. I do charge a fee. Let me know what you think! Thanks everyone!





Let you know what we think? You're brave!

You're new, and you need new clients? Do people pay other people for beginning dom positions?

Good luck

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RE: New Dom, help me out - 3/5/2011 4:34:51 AM   
myotherself


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From: The cold bit of the UK
Status: offline 		I'd tell you, but I'm afraid I charge a fee

Welcome to cm!

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RE: New Dom, help me out - 3/5/2011 5:44:05 AM   
OohAahMrs


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Status: offline 		Hey, you like the thought of the money eh? You're not doing it for any other reason? Don't worry, there's plenty of suckers out there!

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RE: New Dom, help me out - 3/5/2011 5:49:20 AM   
strangedesire


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Status: offline 		It might be wise to learn the ropes BEFORE you start charging. Failing that, you're going to want to connect with another pro who will help you along. And you'll need to make it worth her while.

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RE: New Dom, help me out - 3/5/2011 1:51:34 PM   
ashjor911


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Status: offline 		Welcome To CM

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RE: New Dom, help me out - 3/5/2011 3:09:51 PM   
salemartist


Posts: 195
Joined: 12/17/2010
From: Salem
Status: offline 		would it be a discount rate because you have no clue what your doing? I mean people pay for talent right? major league baseball pitchers make more money than little leaguers....

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RE: New Dom, help me out - 3/6/2011 10:16:10 PM   
tiggerspoohbear


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Status: offline 		I'm going to stick to welcome to CM and the boards.  And good luck, you're going to need it.  Juuuuuuuust sayin........

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RE: New Dom, help me out - 3/9/2011 11:42:59 PM   
Lady16Lily


Posts: 16
Joined: 3/4/2011
Status: offline 		who knew people could be so cruel?

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RE: New Dom, help me out - 3/9/2011 11:48:20 PM   
Lady16Lily


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Status: offline 		I have always toyed with the idea and one day I just decided I thought it would be fun. I hope to get a big dose of power control out of it.

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RE: New Dom, help me out - 3/10/2011 1:10:25 AM   
kissheels


Posts: 656
Joined: 3/8/2011
From: Inside Your Mind
Status: offline 		Gags himself, and muffles... welcome to Collarme

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RE: New Dom, help me out - 3/10/2011 5:37:17 AM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: Lady16Lily

who knew people could be so cruel?

Welcome to the forums.

People weren't being cruel to you.  What they are telling you is that you're going about this completely backwards.  You want to charge people to teach you to be a pro?  I'll bet you wouldn't be the paying client so somebody who's never given a hair cut before went after your locks.  Oh, sure, just sit in the chair and instruct her while she's chopping away.  Then you can pay her for the privilege of whatever mess she's made out of your head.

Learning topping skills isn't hard, but the word pro really is short for "professional".  That means you should know what you're doing before you decide it's a good way to make some cash. 


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RE: New Dom, help me out - 3/12/2011 7:56:19 AM   
kdsusa7894


Posts: 193
Joined: 12/19/2010
Status: offline 		What LP said and with that welcome to CM and good luck.

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RE: New Dom, help me out - 3/12/2011 9:05:34 PM   
Lady16Lily


Posts: 16
Joined: 3/4/2011
Status: offline 		Look, I've done a few sessions and now realize I started completely the wrong way. Sorry if I really pissed anyone off.

< Message edited by Lady16Lily -- 3/12/2011 9:58:36 PM >

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RE: New Dom, help me out - 3/13/2011 12:14:59 AM   
tiggerspoohbear


Posts: 19141
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Status: offline 		It wasn't so much a piss off, as reality being different than fantasy.  You can want to do something with no knowledge, but how can the person who comes to you get anything out of it?  Especially if they're paying you for it?  I could say I'm an accountant and offer to do taxes, but dayum at the end of the day, the people whose taxes I'd done wouldn't be a happy lot.  

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RE: New Dom, help me out - 3/13/2011 3:11:14 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Cupcake, you couldn't piss Me off on a good day.

I'm glad that you had "a few" sessions.  Please go out and explore all of the things that make you happy.

When your "profession" meets the criteria of being a professional, we'll talk.


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RE: New Dom, help me out - 3/13/2011 7:15:39 AM   
salemartist


Posts: 195
Joined: 12/17/2010
From: Salem
Status: offline 		just to be clear I am neither pissed off, pissed on or or intending to be cruel. I am not someone who would seek out a professional Domme so my opinion on skill level vs. cost doesnt really hold much weight. I just assumed that the best of any trade can demand the highest pay, therefore someone with little to no experience would be more of a bargin. But what do I know, I got 10 years experience and never charged a cent...

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RE: New Dom, help me out - 3/13/2011 7:54:27 AM   
DarkSteven


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lady16Lily

who knew people could be so cruel?


Not cruel, just realistic.  You want paid sessions in which you learn.

Forget about getting paid right away.  Just go to groups and get in some play sessions.  You should have no end of prospective play partners and likely a mentor or two.  Also, go to demo classes and learn your craft.

Welcome to collarme.


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