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hisdevin -> Grammatically Correct Slave (3/9/2011 9:34:40 PM)
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Hello everyone! I'm devin and I am a slave in my thirties. I am here mostly for friendship and lifestyle discussion, both on the forums and in private messages. I'm open to talking to anybody regardless of their gender, age or orientation, but I would like to make it clear that I have been in the same collar for the past seven years. I am happily married to my owner and our situation isn't likely to change any time soon.
I've gotten some questions about my profile where I state that one does not have to be submissive to be a slave. This might be an interesting opportunity to address that statement.
I do not believe that "slave" means a person who is more submitted than another person. There are no levels, or degrees, of submission. I hate to hear people talking about "true" submission or "natural" submission in a way that is meant to denigrate others. I define "slave" as an owned person, but since there are slaves here who are not owned, I suppose that I can concede that it says more about what you are seeking (TPE) than what you currently are.
I am a slave because I am owned. I am submitted, but not submissive. I am naturally a bold, look you in the eyes, tell you how it is woman. I abhor titles and I'm not always respectful. You may identify yourself as a dominant, but you aren't my dominant. There is a very short list of "approved" dominants my master allows me to address as Sir or Master (Ma'am is always fine, but I tend to apply the same principle to men as to women).
If you don't already hate me, keep reading :)
I am a fan of grammar. I don't like stuttering and I hate to see people use a lower case i or a capital H for his or her. It bothers me. Being a dominant, a master or a mistress does not make you superior to me. It just means that you have a different preference for your lifestyle than what I have for mine. In fact, I'm probably just as dominant as some of you; but I choose to submit to that one person.
In short, I'm a grammar fanatic and I don't trust or respect someone just because of what they claim to be. I've been "real" (as in "real life") for thirteen years now. I've played the online games and enjoyed them, but nothing compares to having somebody there to monitor your behavior and your submission and to constantly encourage you to be better. You can be anything on the Internet. My favorite people are those who choose to be themselves. This is me, like it or lump it.
Glad to be here! I'm looking forward to some intelligent lifestyle discussion. I've really missed engaging with other lifestylers, and Master and I are just now trying to find our feet again. It's been a rough past few years due to the crazy economy!
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