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Jennislut -> whats on your mind? (3/13/2011 7:51:42 PM)
when i have sex, a part of my mind is racing - dreaming up ideas for further games. i am wondering if others are the same way. do you get lost in the moment - or are you dreaming up more things to do/have done?

NocturnalStalker -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/13/2011 8:00:04 PM)
You.

Jennislut -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/13/2011 8:14:11 PM)
awww - your such a sweet stalker[;)]

littlewonder -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/13/2011 8:16:12 PM)
I'm usually thinking how good it feels, how much it hurts or what else can I do to make sure he is satisfied.

TheShrew -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/13/2011 9:03:12 PM)
.. lost in the moment, nothing else exists.

SailingBum -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/13/2011 9:16:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TheShrew .. lost in the moment, nothing else exists. Ayep BadOne

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/13/2011 9:21:42 PM)
Depends... When I was married, I remember being in a hotel and thinking when I looked up, "they really need to dust those air vents." Then I found BDSM, had my first orgasm and haven't noticed a dusty vent since. WinD

LillyBoPeep -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/13/2011 10:05:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TheShrew .. lost in the moment, nothing else exists. yep. my brain gets completely fried.

Arpig -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/13/2011 10:10:06 PM)
It depends...if we are talking "play" activities..then yes I am thinking about what I might do next. When it comes to the actual fucking...nope, nothing else matters then.

gungadin09 -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/13/2011 10:41:16 PM)
How long 'til this is over? Am i doing it right? pam

Arpig -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/13/2011 11:42:41 PM)
Jesus Pam...if your thinking that somebody isn't doing their job. Come on over and I'll show you how its done right...I'll even buy some shrimp.[;)]

gungadin09 -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/13/2011 11:50:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Arpig Jesus Pam...if your thinking that somebody isn't doing their job. Come on over and I'll show you how its done right...I'll even buy some shrimp.[;)] Thanks, but i suspect it's just me. pam

SexyBossyBBW -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/14/2011 2:03:32 AM)
Love is on my mind. And sex, but would it be appropriate? Probably not, so I wont go there. shrugs M

IronBear -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/14/2011 2:57:05 AM)
Lot of power in sex and power id released at orgasm. my mind is firmly on capturing that power or directing it to where ever I choose, even if it is to bind my sex partner closer and closer to me..

0ldhen -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/14/2011 4:28:16 AM)
Absolutely nothing, blank, cookies baked, lost and high in the fire. Who can think then?

TotalDiscipline -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/14/2011 4:45:59 AM)
I watch the other person enjoying...and everything around is dark.

Aileen1968 -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/14/2011 5:36:43 AM)
I don't ever go into subspace so I concentrate on what I'm feeling and how I'm going to handle the pain. I never think about what I want him to do. I find complete enjoyment in what he has chosen at that moment.

poise -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/14/2011 7:02:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Arpig It depends...if we are talking "play" activities..then yes I am thinking about what I might do next. My answer is the same, except....sort of different. [8D] I would be wondering what he has in store for me next. My mind is still focused on the moment, yet enhanced with delicious anticipation. quote: When it comes to the actual fucking...nope, nothing else matters then. By this point, my mind may as well be jello, and my body is intent on matching him, thrust for thrust.

mbes -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/14/2011 7:46:50 AM)
Sometimes I'm thinking "mmmmm I hope we do x next", at least at the beginning. There does come a point, though, when coherent thought goes out the window and it's all about feeling.

leadership527 -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/14/2011 9:25:36 AM)
I'm generally focused on how good it feel. Carol is too... but I've learned over years of marriage to be careful about asking "What are you thinking about?" Sometimes the answer comes up some random thing like, "What I'm going to cook for dinner tomorrow."

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