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MaxsGirl -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/14/2011 9:45:02 AM)

With my ex-husband, I used to spend that time making my grocery list in my head.

Now it depends.  I have a hard time stopping my racing thoughts, but they definitely race in a more pleasant (or unpleasant, if it's that kind of night [;)] ) direction these days.



Kana -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/14/2011 11:20:56 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Jennislut

when i have sex, a part of my mind is racing - dreaming up ideas for further games. i am wondering if others are the same way. do you get lost in the moment - or are you dreaming up more things to do/have done?


Caught in the flow of the wave, seeking the next cut.

It's a lot like surfing, riding only in the moment, yet also balancing 100,000,000,000 factors simultaneously, calculating internal and external stimuli, aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaand always, always measuring, gliding, shifting with the surge planning the move to come.

Like seeking the proper next step in a tango, when it happens right, it's a beautiful and wonderful thing....grins...but when it goes wrong it's a terrible sight to behold.
Thankfully I am a Yoda like bitch when it comes to this stuff so it usually goes right.
[:)]



needlesandpins -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/14/2011 12:00:32 PM)

it depends on what is going on at the time.

if it's me doing the applying of something; so giving a blow job, or i'm riding, then i'm very much paying attention trying to figure out if i'm getting it right for him. i am very much enjoying myself but in those moments it's all about him and hoping that he's getting exactly the right feel from it.

if i'm the one getting the attention then i'm totally lost. it wasn't like that with my ex husband. when we were together i thought he was great because he was the best i'd had. but often i'd be laid there thinking 'how long do i leave it before i say that isn't working, because he's not paying attention to me enough to tell whether i'm even responding anymore....sighssssss' or 'i wish he'd move a bit....change the action of that' or whatever. i'd even try and move myself a little to try encourage him to move or change what he was doing, but it didn't work and i'd have to say something. now i have no problem with something being said to me if i could be doing something better, but after 16 years you'd think he'd know.

with the playmate i have now it's completely different. it's as though he can read my mind and as soon as i start to think something he's doing it. apart from telling him to hurt me, or i want it harder i never have to even think something isn't working, let alone say it. if it's oral he's doing then what i'm likely to be thinking is 'oh my fucking god, who knew it could be like this!' as i cum for the umteenth time. having never done so with anyone else.

needles



windchymes -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/14/2011 2:12:26 PM)

I constantly pray the power doesn't go out. [8|]



coookie -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/14/2011 2:24:26 PM)

Bout the only coherent thoughts that i have are "oh God oh God" and "please don't stop!!"



MasterSlaveLA -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/14/2011 2:38:28 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Jennislut

...do you get lost in the moment - or are you dreaming up more things to do/have done?


Depends if the dog is in the room or not... "Look, he's watching... I SWEAR TO GOD HE'S WATCHING ! ! ! "  [sm=jaw.gif]




windchymes -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/14/2011 3:14:50 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterSlaveLA

quote:

ORIGINAL: Jennislut

...do you get lost in the moment - or are you dreaming up more things to do/have done?


Depends if the dog is in the room or not... "Look, he's watching... I SWEAR TO GOD HE'S WATCHING ! ! ! "  [sm=jaw.gif]




And waiting for the perfect moment to touch someone with his cold, wet nose.....



IronBear -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/14/2011 4:07:06 PM)

Coitus Interuptus is when a Malamute (neutered boy) but still inquisitive sneaks into the room and hides so when the door is shut and you are riding the orgasm a huge wet, cold nose punches you in the bare ass and a over sized wet tongue slurps your back as you sit up in reaction of the nose.. Then he starts to sing and talk to you..  Moral is to check the room and in particular under the bed now.... .... ((Bloody children.............gota love them.....))



hlen5 -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/14/2011 4:09:02 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: windchymes

I constantly pray the power doesn't go out. [8|]


[;)][sm=rofl.gif][sm=rofl.gif][sm=rofl.gif][;)]



Prinsexx -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/14/2011 4:25:51 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Jennislut

when i have sex, a part of my mind is racing - dreaming up ideas for further games. i am wondering if others are the same way. do you get lost in the moment - or are you dreaming up more things to do/have done?

When I have sex, a part of my mind is.



Meeka43 -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/14/2011 6:14:29 PM)

In response to Winsome Defiance's post:


"Depends...

When I was married, I remember being in a hotel and thinking when I looked up, "they really need to dust those air vents."

Then I found BDSM, had my first orgasm and haven't noticed a dusty vent since."



heh heh... Congrats...



Jennislut -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/14/2011 6:16:14 PM)

quote:

I constantly pray the power doesn't go out.
i have 2 words for you: battery backup.



windchymes -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/14/2011 6:39:25 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Jennislut

quote:

I constantly pray the power doesn't go out.
i have 2 words for you: battery backup.


That's what gas generators are for ;)



windchymes -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/14/2011 6:42:20 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: IronBear

Coitus Interuptus is when a Malamute (neutered boy) but still inquisitive sneaks into the room and hides so when the door is shut and you are riding the orgasm a huge wet, cold nose punches you in the bare ass and a over sized wet tongue slurps your back as you sit up in reaction of the nose.. Then he starts to sing and talk to you..  Moral is to check the room and in particular under the bed now.... .... ((Bloody children.............gota love them.....))


LOL.....I'm with ya on the wet nose and tongue, but the singing and talking......I don't think I was smoking the same stuff you were, though I wish I was! [:D][;)]



IronBear -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/14/2011 8:17:03 PM)

Didn't you know Malamutes and Huskies talk and talk and sing.. "Woo Woo" especially when a siren drives past.. You can hear our two two blocks away....  Really have to get ypou down here for a visit.. An educational visit so you can claim  it all on tax too.. 



windchymes -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/14/2011 8:22:07 PM)

LOL....I used to have a wonderful big old mutt dog who would "sing" along with sirens, and with me, especially if I'd "loo loo looooooooo loo loo looooooooo" to the tune of "Be it ever so humble, there's no place like home", he'd nail it, lol. He was the coolest dog ever, been gone since 1997, but I still miss him.



NocturnalStalker -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/14/2011 9:45:14 PM)

In addition to my original reply, I sometimes wonder if I look sexy enough. 

Come on, you all have seen some people make such dumb looking faces during sex. 



Jennislut -> RE: whats on your mind? (3/14/2011 10:13:50 PM)

quote:

In addition to my original reply, I sometimes wonder if I look sexy enough. 

Come on, you all have seen some people make such dumb looking faces during sex. 
yeah - i worry about that too sometimes, i worry if i am drooling too much or something like that



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