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Dommes/Dominas are People Too - 5/6/2006 5:02:16 AM   
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I want to thank LordandMaster and LadyMorgynn for the inpsiration for this post--hopefully it doesn't require flameproof gloves--
 
Dommes/Dominas/FemDoms are people too--it seems that we see so many posts adnauseum from male subs and a few Doms about all the things we DON'T do----waaa waaa we don't like this, we don't like that, we won't let you have your whopper your way.
 
As L&M said in another thread, we are not fodder for your wanking time! We talk of double standards---gees louise--talk about double standards--
 
--"ohh Mistress i want to serve you as long as its two patties double cheese, mustard, pickles and onions then I will be eternally happy"
 
---"ohh Mistress I would love to serve you--oh you mean you want me to do things outside the dungeon of lust?"--
 
"ohh Mistress I am a sub in disguise, shh don't tell anyone I would serve you alone and never be a Dom again"--
 
"ohhh Mistress just let Me f*&^ you, no strings attached as long as it's my way"
 
" ohh Mistress you are such a bitch, you expect things from me"
 
Now finish reading before you knee jerk to the above--granted there are Dommes who take advantage---there are just as many Doms and subs who do as well--so don't start the "but they ask tribute, they charge, they took my money and I got nothing"--that crap is working both sides of the street.  Don't start the "but I want this and you only want to do xxx"--honey if I was the pizza place and I didn't serve pepperoni, you'd move on--but would you continue to write a letter to the editor?
 
Dommes/Dominas (and I don't care if Domme isn't an avowed word, it works for Me as much as "gees friggin louise"---so ya know, it's about Me)----Dommes are people too--women of determination, women of direction, women of purpose, women who want the burger THEIR way---wth is wrong with that?   So here is My story:
 
I am Dominant, the fact that I am also woman is a coincidence--if I was a martian, I'd be an alpha--I can do it better---I can do MY life and the things in and around IT better---I'm not going to debate brute strength--note what I said--MY life, the areas  that impact ME the most, I do better, and I am happier in charge--I made My own choices, live and lived with the consequences and tried damn hard not to leave a pile of bodies in the way. Then I found the outlet for My wickedness---getting damn tired of yawning sex--hell ya, I did and do it My way, took what I wanted, the way I wanted and when I wanted ---IF I wanted. (you see, many of you whining wankers missed the point--control means, I get to say NO)--I control it now--for Me, for My pleasure, for how I feel--and wth is wrong with that, men have been doing it for generations---oh and btw, being a Domme doesn't mean I walk around in stilletto heels, and fish net stockings, carrying a whip and eating bonbons, saying "crawl you silly boy"--puhleez----you'll find some great ads on the left navigation that can help you with your fantasies. Oh and I hold a very responsible job, have raised an outstanding child, have a horse business, raise a large vegetable garden every year, vote, am an activist of sorts--and in the dark of the night rescue male and female subs who have been brutalized--My days average 16-18 hours--and you're upset because I want you to be an active participant and not lay around naked with your cock strapped in the up position?
 
I am a Dominant--free to make My choices, My decisions, have My burger My way ( and btw I like LOTS of meat, so triple the patties), free to keep My vulva and parts in My panties and see what there is to life and live it!
 
Let the games begin...
 
<now where is jess with My coffee?>
 
 
 

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RE: Dommes/Dominas are People Too - 5/6/2006 5:07:28 AM   
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Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I wish I had typed that!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you Mistress Hathor! and.......I have some coffee here I will share until you get yours.......

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RE: Dommes/Dominas are People Too - 5/6/2006 5:19:29 AM   
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Well put MH, now all we can hope for is that people get what you are saying.
 
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RE: Dommes/Dominas are People Too - 5/6/2006 5:29:58 AM   
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Well said petal and probably a little overdue. It isn't just Dommes that get it but I do see they often get that attitude probably more often than any other grouping in D/s, something about the majority of the 'do me' boys in the male sub department. People not looking for a real person but rather looking for the fantasy Domme their imagination pictures whilst they are jacking off.

Female subs would probably be the next group that gets that from the many so-called Doms who don't actualy want the responcibility of dealing with a whole person.

Doms get it too, with expectations of being some hard-ass emotionless CP robot

I don't know of any, but I'm sure, the law of averages would throw up male subs who could rightfully and sensibly give accounts of where they have also been on the recieving end.

We all get it to some degree, from those who are too wrapped up in fantasy to deal with reality.


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RE: Dommes/Dominas are People Too - 5/6/2006 5:43:16 AM   
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Very well said, I appreciate the humour you brought to it as well. Thanks


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RE: Dommes/Dominas are People Too - 5/6/2006 5:43:38 AM   
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So... is this complaining about complaining, or what?

I kind of skimmed.  I got "bitch" "pizza" "meat" and "vulva".  Hmmm.
Anyway, I hope life gets better for you soon. 

I'm hungry.

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RE: Dommes/Dominas are People Too - 5/6/2006 6:04:18 AM   
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offering CG some leftover cold pizza.......

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RE: Dommes/Dominas are People Too - 5/6/2006 6:04:22 AM   
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G'morning all:


I can add nothing else but a rousing round of applause & hearty 'AMEN SISTER!!". It's about time...

p.s. - for those interested in having said whopper their way;
http://www.mtcw.de/weblog/images/wallpaper_whopper_1024x768.jpg



Stay safe, play nice & share your toys w/ others...





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RE: Dommes/Dominas are People Too - 5/6/2006 6:39:17 AM   
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Dear MH00314,
 
Well said, well plotted out and written.
 
What is sad though, is that for the few wonderful slaves/submissive men worth their salt, are not the squeaky wheels that get the quality attention.  And, I add--they are human also.
 
Respectfully submitted,
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RE: Dommes/Dominas are People Too - 5/6/2006 7:10:18 AM   
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quote:

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...  and tried damn hard not to leave a pile of bodies in the way.

Hey, can't fault you for trying!

So what did you do with all those bodies ... 
 
quote:

... raise a large vegetable garden every year ...

"Oh, ah, no thank you. No zucchini for us this year, but thanks for offering, neighbor!"


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RE: Dommes/Dominas are People Too - 5/6/2006 7:23:08 AM   
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Delight, you are too funny, I can see your Mistress does well for you!
 
The bodies are at the bottom of the Whiskey Bay Bridge off I-10 between Baton Rouge and Lafayette--I ran out of room in the window seat.
 
and tsk tsk I do so love large objects, I mean vegetables!

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RE: Dommes/Dominas are People Too - 5/6/2006 1:39:20 PM   
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I say...well freakin done.  Hopefully some of the subs/slaves will read and reconsider thier approach.  And yes, they are people too but they are getting their way more often than not.

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RE: Dommes/Dominas are People Too - 5/6/2006 2:29:23 PM   
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quote:

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Delight, you are too funny, I can see your Mistress does well for you!
 
The bodies are at the bottom of the Whiskey Bay Bridge off I-10 between Baton Rouge and Lafayette--I ran out of room in the window seat.
 
and tsk tsk I do so love large objects, I mean vegetables!

Thank you, Ma'am. And Madam, you are, of course, to die for.

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RE: Dommes/Dominas are People Too - 5/6/2006 2:39:59 PM   
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So essentially this is just another rant that is based on the typical sterotype gender issues? 

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RE: Dommes/Dominas are People Too - 5/6/2006 2:43:07 PM   
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Well said. And Amen and the crowd goes wild.

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RE: Dommes/Dominas are People Too - 5/6/2006 4:00:07 PM   
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Wow, look what I started.  Sorry male subs, looks like you're going to start getting away with a lot less bullshit now.

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RE: Dommes/Dominas are People Too - 5/6/2006 4:37:46 PM   
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 Mistress Hathor .... I started posting on the boards because I had read one of your early postings, and I just have to say...... thank you for that post and for this one.


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RE: Dommes/Dominas are People Too - 5/6/2006 4:55:14 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MHOO314


<now where is jess with My coffee?>


Brewing fresh coffee now Ma'am....

Loved the post.... I've seen so many post lately about Pro Dommes... I feel sorry for the ones that don't take the pro part.. and just love the Domme part...
 
 



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RE: Dommes/Dominas are People Too - 5/6/2006 6:21:54 PM   
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MHOO, thank You for a wonderful topic.  I love what you said, and maybe repeating a few ideas when I add...
 
We have feelings.  We have wants and desires.  We have needs.  And they don't all begin and end in the bedroom or the dungeon.  We are complete people and Our sexuality is one aspect of Ourselves.  We are not "life support systems for the fetishes of submissives" as many of them seem to believe. 
 
This may well be a very stereotypical rant...but stereotypes exist because there is some truth behind the idea.

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RE: Dommes/Dominas are People Too - 5/6/2006 6:26:35 PM   
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With respect....bows head....very well written,impressive and amusing to boot...I like your style..be well..Tempting

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