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How to find a Master & keep Him online for training - 3/16/2011 7:48:00 PM   
spammieonaleash


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Status: offline 		I am very new at online chat and really need to find a Master that will train me better. What do you suggest?
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RE: How to find a Master & keep Him online for training - 3/16/2011 7:51:02 PM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		Yes, don't expect online training.

It is an oxymoron.

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RE: How to find a Master & keep Him online for training - 3/16/2011 8:14:25 PM   
DesFIP


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From: Apple County NY
Status: offline 		Your profile says you have a Mistress. So why are you looking for someone online? Why isn't she training you?

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RE: How to find a Master & keep Him online for training - 3/16/2011 8:14:31 PM   
Arpig


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Status: offline 		Lots of naked pictures would help!

No, actually you need to do something about your profile. Its all about what you want from a master/mistress. There's nothing about you. What is it about you that would make me want to take you on? Think of yourself as a commodity for sale and think of your profile as an advertisement.  Sell YOU, not your kinks. While we may very well do a lot of kinky things together, the vast majority of our time together will be non-kinky. What is it about you that will appeal to me when I'm not beating your ass? What are your interests, what are your skills...can you cook, or will I be stuck doing that? Don't dwell on the sexy kinky aspects of what you want...that isn't your department, its mine.  Interest me, intrigue me, make me want to get to know you better. Be funny, be bratty, be something that stands out, make it memorable in some way.

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RE: How to find a Master & keep Him online for training - 3/16/2011 8:51:51 PM   
poise


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Status: offline 		Wowsers! In less than an hour after your post, you have found
yourself a master, and not only are you keeping it online for training,
he has already taught you the virtual peeing on a tree trick!
All from the comfort of your computer! Way to go!

I need to rewrite my profile.

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RE: How to find a Master & keep Him online for training - 3/16/2011 8:52:03 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		What the heck?  Your journal has four entries, stating that you belong to some man named furryian999.  Your profile also says you're lesbian.  So why are you looking for an online master?

Figure out what the heck you want first.


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RE: How to find a Master & keep Him online for training - 3/16/2011 8:57:41 PM   
Killerangel


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quote:

ORIGINAL: spammieonaleash

I am very new at online chat and really need to find a Master that will train me better. What do you suggest?


You want to be trained for online chat? That sounds incredibly silly. I had no idea it was difficult to learn to chat with people online.

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RE: How to find a Master & keep Him online for training - 3/17/2011 7:36:16 AM   
OsideGirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: spammieonaleash
What do you suggest?
Getting out from behind your computer screen.

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RE: How to find a Master & keep Him online for training - 3/17/2011 9:26:28 AM   
sirssubk2008


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Status: offline 		That was some pretty fast action!

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RE: How to find a Master & keep Him online for training - 3/17/2011 9:54:10 AM   
masternoname


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quote:

What do you suggest?


Quit screwing around on your parents computer and go do your homework.

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RE: How to find a Master & keep Him online for training - 3/19/2011 8:06:51 PM   
FairDom6


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1

Yes, don't expect online training.

It is an oxymoron.


This is what I agree with. Training online? That is just ridiculous. It's not that I don't think people don't do it or aren't having fun doing it, I just think it is not real training. That is my opinion. Real training should be a lot more hands on.


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RE: How to find a Master & keep Him online for training - 3/21/2011 8:28:28 AM   
xssve


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Status: offline 		I disagree, "training"can encompass a lot of things, the simple physical act of taking large objects in various orifices without injury, for example, can take some getting used to, learning to control your gag reflex, etc., that can be done to some extent alone, and it might help to have somebody egging you on there, though when it comes to pleasing a particular person, "training" does generally mean how to please them, and not the more general sort.

I think it's understandable to be wary of entanglements what with the stalkers and human traffickers about, not everybody wants their entire lives turned upside down just to get a little kinky sex.


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RE: How to find a Master & keep Him online for training - 3/24/2011 7:14:59 AM   
ranja


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Status: offline 		For chat
you need a decent typing speed and a reasonable command of the language you are typing in... too many stupid spelling mistakes or too slow at responding are a turn off.
You need to be able to go along with the lead given by the Dominant you are corresponding with, go along but give just enough resistance for interest.
You have to have an open mind and good imagination.

If you need ideas for material, then read lots of sexy stories or watch porn

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RE: How to find a Master & keep Him online for training - 3/24/2011 8:37:51 PM   
crystalclarinet


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Status: offline 		From my personal experience the online thing never seems to work out, I mean generally, any man I talk to wanted me to be at his beck and call every moment of every day, wanted me to self inflict pain on myself (which I just don't like doing) and seemed to have no grasp of the fact that I did have a life outside of the computer. Perhaps the online thing is good for some people, but I suppose it really depends on what on earth you are looking for out of your Dom/ Master experience. I came into BDSM for that deeper connection of trust and love that can grow from giving yourself to your partner in that way, unless you are seeing someone long distance because you have a connection, but don't have the ability to see one another that often in real life I really wouldn't recommend the online thing at all.

My first experience into this world started in an online chat room, when I didn't know what I was doing.... I also of course at the time was way to young to know what I was getting into, and it didn't end that well for me. Not saying that everyone you meet will be that way because my current Dom I have meet off of collarme, but I am very weary of the online thing simply because I have not always had such great experiences with it. I would seriously recommend that if you are new to things that you time the time to read, research learn, find groups near your house, and determine what it is that you really want.



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RE: How to find a Master & keep Him online for training - 3/31/2011 8:10:22 PM   
mysouldesire


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Status: offline 		15 days later and I dont see the original profile as some mention. Might we assume just another kinky person unable to vocalize and communicate well?

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RE: How to find a Master & keep Him online for training - 4/1/2011 5:14:22 AM   
DarkSteven


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mysouldesire

15 days later and I dont see the original profile as some mention. Might we assume just another kinky person unable to vocalize and communicate well?


She read our comments and changed her profile accordingly, to better reflect what she wants.  She deleted the journal entries that implied she was spoken for, and dropped the Lesbian bit.

At least she listened, although she didn't come back here afterward.


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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

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RE: How to find a Master & keep Him online for training - 4/4/2011 5:00:47 AM   
marti200965


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Status: offline 		You could try handcuffing him to the monitor but you would probibly get better results if you did it to a sub.

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RE: How to find a Master & keep Him online for training - 4/9/2011 1:53:18 AM   
almira


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Status: offline 		lmao @ this whole thread

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RE: How to find a Master & keep Him online for training - 4/9/2011 2:40:39 AM   
SoulPiercer


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quote:

ORIGINAL: almira

lmao @ this whole thread


Throw in a ROTF. The key to this thread is the OPs name. If it hadn't been originally posted two weeks earlier, I'd swear it was fairly good April Fool's gag. Maybe it was a trial run.

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