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RE: Perving a profile......over and over again..... - 3/20/2011 12:11:44 PM   
porcelaine


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ORIGINAL: windchymes

In general, guys don't "signal". If they want something, they go for it. If they don't, they don't. He likes something about your profile, so he keeps looking at it, but he doesn't want to actually engage in anything.


Exactly. I'm not a mind reader and I figure if he finds me appealing he'll make it known. But that idea runs in both directions. When I encounter a man that I want to know I'll make it abundantly clear. I'm more responsive to a direct approach rather than endless innuendo.

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RE: Perving a profile......over and over again..... - 3/20/2011 12:18:06 PM   
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Some read my journals..rants..some have memory loss and forgot they peeked already.
More people pop up when I change profile picture. I guess they like to watch pictures.

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RE: Perving a profile......over and over again..... - 3/20/2011 12:53:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't blame people who do.  I have an amazing profile.

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RE: Perving a profile......over and over again..... - 3/20/2011 1:11:57 PM   
TotalDiscipline


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ORIGINAL: NocturnalStalker

I don't blame people who do.  I have an amazing profile.


lol

you dried up pretty well indeed

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RE: Perving a profile......over and over again..... - 3/20/2011 1:13:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		I tend to check profiles pretty regularly, often because of a post or the profile was "up" when I logged on and decided to take a gander.. Even with regulars, I may have forgotten something about them and want to check it on their profile or verify something I though to be accurate.,.When I come across a profile which grabs my attention (perhaps a girl local to me is interested in relocating or looking for a poly home etc, I'll give her profile the once over (several times and perv any pics there too) then I'll shoot her a note commenting (or complementing) her profile.  

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RE: Perving a profile......over and over again..... - 3/20/2011 1:15:03 PM   
TotalDiscipline


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then I'll shoot her

knights had guns?

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RE: Perving a profile......over and over again..... - 3/20/2011 3:02:29 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: windchymes

In general, guys don't "signal". If they want something, they go for it. If they don't, they don't. He likes something about your profile, so he keeps looking at it, but he doesn't want to actually engage in anything.

My 28-year-old son said to me recently, "You women give us way too much credit for what goes through our heads. We keep things way more simple than you do."

When the horse's mouth speaks, I listen, lol.



Wind, what is, "signal?" Never heard that before.

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RE: Perving a profile......over and over again..... - 3/20/2011 7:13:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		When someone views me several times, its interesting to me, i wonder what is the attractant? So far as my viewing profiles, i sometimes just say hey, enjoyed what you shared in your profile. But don't want to write a book. When i was a very young kid, someone once told me to get the most out of life, maximize contact--openly admire what you like, and speak up when you see something that bothers you, and acknowledge those around you. Stay around those you like, and stay away from those you dont like.

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RE: Perving a profile......over and over again..... - 3/20/2011 7:22:47 PM   
Arpig


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quote:

In general, guys don't "signal".
Not always wind. Sometimes when I perv a profile, I am interested but don't think we are a match...so I sort of hope they perv me back and decide that we might be a match.

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RE: Perving a profile......over and over again..... - 3/20/2011 7:24:56 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

quote:

ORIGINAL: Arpig

*heads off to perv smartsub's profile now...*



Open season on smartsub's profile!!!!

YAY!!!!!

STALKERS!!!!






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RE: Perving a profile......over and over again..... - 3/20/2011 8:32:36 PM   
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RE: Perving a profile......over and over again..... - 3/20/2011 9:03:14 PM   
Arpig


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I'm considering perving her on a daily basis...just to creep her out.


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RE: Perving a profile......over and over again..... - 3/20/2011 9:17:58 PM   
MysticFireTopaz


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Status: offline 		I am a female Dominant and enjoy perving profiles. I will read the entire profile of someone who is interesting. Generally just once. One time I had a sub apologize to me for not being interesting enough. He felt that if I viewed his profile and did not message him, he must have done something wrong. I pointed out that while I liked his profile, we really had little in common. Another time I actually messaged a male Dominant on another site because he had a picture of himself in a difficult yoga pose and I wanted to express my admiration. I certainly had no interest in a relationship with him.

There are two subs who view my profile practically on a daily basis. One has done so for about two years, including during the six months when he was supposed to be seeing a Domme I knew exclusively (I was not aware of this at the time). After I found out he double-crossed that Domme and she released him, I blocked him. He still continues to view my profile constantly.

The other one lives in a different state. He wrote to me a while a go and ticked me off right from the start, so I blocked him, too. Nevertheless, he's always viewing my profile anyway.

Both will periodically delete their profiles, create a new one, and message me. At which point I just block them again. My guess is that both of these individuals just enjoy the conquest of someone who makes herself unattainable.

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RE: Perving a profile......over and over again..... - 3/20/2011 9:25:43 PM   
tazzygirl


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Status: offline 		My profile gets perved alot. I dont mind. I may even perv back. But if the man doesnt contact, then neither do I.

First, Im in no position to entertain a relationship with anyone.

Typically I do respond to those who write to me. Even if the response is... My profile states clearly I am in a relationship, but thank you for the attention and the offer. I wish you luck on your search.

Beyond that, its just perving. I like pretty pics.

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RE: Perving a profile......over and over again..... - 3/20/2011 9:59:55 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: popeye1250


quote:

ORIGINAL: windchymes

In general, guys don't "signal". If they want something, they go for it. If they don't, they don't. He likes something about your profile, so he keeps looking at it, but he doesn't want to actually engage in anything.

My 28-year-old son said to me recently, "You women give us way too much credit for what goes through our heads. We keep things way more simple than you do."

When the horse's mouth speaks, I listen, lol.



Wind, what is, "signal?" Never heard that before.


In her post, the OP asked if the guy perving her profile repeatedly was sending a 'signal' that she was supposed to contact him. And it's my belief that if guys (except Arpig ) really wanted to contact her, he would do so, not just repeatedly perv the profile as an indication that he wanted her to contact him.

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RE: Perving a profile......over and over again..... - 3/20/2011 10:02:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Arpig

quote:

In general, guys don't "signal".
Not always wind. Sometimes when I perv a profile, I am interested but don't think we are a match...so I sort of hope they perv me back and decide that we might be a match.


Well, you are quite exceptional in many ways

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RE: Perving a profile......over and over again..... - 3/20/2011 10:03:47 PM   
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I often view profiles of those posting on the forums.  There are also a few people whose profiles or journals I find particularly good.  And I'm curious about how people describe themselves.
"It may not kill me but it's sure gonna hurt." -- Dolly Parton



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RE: Perving a profile......over and over again..... - 3/20/2011 10:07:24 PM   
Arpig


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Well, you are quite exceptional in many ways
Then why don't you ever contact me...FAKE!

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RE: Perving a profile......over and over again..... - 3/21/2011 4:26:19 AM   
smartsub10


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Status: offline 		In more than a few Dom's profiles I have seen written the request (demand?) that the sub/slave contact the Dom if she sees that he has viewed her profile or added her to his favorites.  The rationale is that the sub/slave should be the pursuer because a Dom doesn't "chase" subs or slaves.  But, have to admit, I believe it's just a way for guys to protect themselves from being rejected and, therefore, more domly if the gals contact him first.
So, this is what prompted my question.  I was under the impression that it was some unwritten "rule".
For the most part I do not contact men they usually contact me and so far that has worked ok for me.


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RE: Perving a profile......over and over again..... - 3/21/2011 9:57:17 AM   
Arpig


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In more than a few Dom's profiles I have seen written the request (demand?) that the sub/slave contact the Dom if she sees that he has viewed her profile or added her to his favorites.
I have never heard such a thing. Mind you I don't perv male Dom profiles all that much. I think its safe to say that anything anybody tells you is a rule, written or unwritten is talking just for themselves. There are no universals here and anybody who tells you there are is full of it. Every Dom, Domme, sub, or slave is different, and has a different set of rules for what they do.

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