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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/22/2011 8:57:24 AM

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I find reading about others' sex lives really boring. My sex life is way better than yours. So there.

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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/22/2011 12:24:25 PM

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I used to do that before menopause. I regret the loss.

I don't know how many times in an hour I've orgasmed, we've never kept count. But yes, having them one after another until a point where you can't stop even when you want to. Where his breath on my body starts it up again. Where his finger slowly running down my arm causes several more.

Yes, I've had that. On a daily basis? No, and I never did know why one day I was capable of all of it and on another a mere 25 orgasms was my limit. But when everything was right, they happened.

He's never really played with orgasm control since that causes me to be unable to sleep and therefore function. And he prefers that I do cum, as often as possible.

Toys weren't very satisfying beforehand so I doubt they would be now. I prefer his touch.

Now, what do you want to know? Just that other people have had this too? Yes, some of us have.

Is there anything else you need answered? And for the future, any time you ask has someone else ever, the answer is always yes.

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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/22/2011 1:38:20 PM

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I can see that you are very excited over discovering this side of you and that you are looking for some validation, to know that this is not unique to you. So... here we go...

Nope, not unique to you.

Your delivery was a little over the top and that is what is getting you the negative reactions. You are a kid with this shiny new toy and a lot of people have forgotten what that feels like... victims of complacency.

However, as you can see, this is something many people experience, it is very new and exciting to you because it is new and exciting to you and you want to see if the shiny is going to stay all shiny. What they are saying is, Yup it can stay all shiny. But you need to make posts from where you are and think about how you are feeling, experiencing and expressing things and not allow your D to influence the way that you are trying to relate your experience... it cheapens the experience when you are trying to cater to an ego instead of find genuine feedback.

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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/22/2011 1:56:32 PM

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Hi crystal,

I remember your original thread. As I recall, I was congratulatory. The link seems to be broken, but I wrote something like "It sounds like love!"

But I have to agree with the other responses to this post. I get the impression your Dom didn't get enough admiration in that first thread of yours, and so he is telling you to try again. This time with a list.

Really, why are you bringing this up again? Is it to brag? Is it so your Dom can brag? Do you really feel alone in your orgasmic glory?

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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/22/2011 5:00:05 PM

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I suppose what the issue was with the first post was that I wasn't exactly sure that people were understanding what I meant, and no it wasn't to brag, and yes case in point, my Dom did assist with the second which is why it really is just so blunt... I wasn't trying to brag or to throw it in people's faces and if it does come off that way I am sorry for that.
My main case and point is that yes I really do feel kind of alone in this... its not something I have experienced before and without being really blunt I am not so sure that people were understanding what exactly I was meaning. I am still young to the BDSM thing... at least on a healthy level and I do feel alone, and due to time restraints my Dom just doesn't have time to get out to the local events, so we do not have many friends that are in the lifestyle, and trying to discuss these types of things with my vanilla friends just doesn't ever seem to work because they tell me we have issues. Perhaps it would have been better done in the original thread instead of starting a new one. I am simply put just an open and out there person, and maybe due to being a victim of my gender I do like to discuss and talk about these things. Can I use my Dom for it? Sure, but him telling me that he has been able to do this to other women really doesn't satisfy that urge to feel like this is something people have experienced... those are not people that can tell me yes it has happened to them, and really I don't think I'd want the niddy griddy from them otherwise. Feeling these new experiences and feelings is scary and does make one feel almost alone.... especially when her friends are still playing the bring a different guy home every night game. So again I am sorry if I did offend anyone, but I was really just looking to not feel so alone, and maybe get some understanding and insight into these things. I understand not everyone does go out and discuss their personal experiences and that everyone to a point does have a different opinion, feeling and experience. I do appreciate the kind words, its just nice to know that I'm not living in a day dream so to speak.

I suppose I also am still a bit taken aback by the intensity of things and again just wanted some insight into things.

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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/22/2011 7:21:20 PM

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At 100 per hour, that means she's averaging almost 2 orgasms per minute (and marking it on her scorecard).

Did anyone else feel dehydrated just reading that?

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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/22/2011 9:10:54 PM

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If I had a hundred orgasms, I would probably be too out of it to count the exact number past the first 75.

Hahaha, that's a good point. I think I'd have either passed out or be screaming in pain from the over-stimulation before I hit 20.

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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/22/2011 9:20:14 PM

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I once had one hundred orgasms in an hour and my wiener hole fell off.

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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/22/2011 9:28:52 PM

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So THATS what is wrong with you!

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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/22/2011 9:47:47 PM

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I suppose I also am still a bit taken aback by the intensity of things and again just wanted some insight into things.

Crystal...like I told you in your first thread...relax and enjoy the ride.

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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/23/2011 1:58:20 AM

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and maybe due to being a victim of my gender

Wow. Unless you are having identity issues with your gender (as transgendered folks experience), I would say that's a sad statement to make. I"ve never felt like I was a "victim" of my gender.

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Sure, but him telling me that he has been able to do this to other women really doesn't satisfy that urge to feel like this is something people have experienced...

Why not just take your dom at his word? Would he lie? Not sure I understand what you mean by "urge to feel like this is something people have experienced".

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Feeling these new experiences and feelings is scary and does make one feel almost alone....

... but I was really just looking to not feel so alone, and maybe get some understanding and insight into these things.

Maybe it's just me, but I can't comprehend why you are scared or why you feel alone. If you're having amazing sexual experiences, why not just embrace them? To fear them takes away from the whole experience, in my mind. As for feeling alone...uhm....isn't there someone else there while you're having orgasms and such? If you mean that you can't share that with your "real life" girlfriends, I can tell you that no number of postings on here is going to help in that regard. IMHO it really shouldn't matter what anyone else thinks of your sex life and it really shouldn't matter what you do in your sex life. All that should matter is how it all works for you and your dom. Understanding and insight? Why do you feel you need that? Why not, as I have already suggested, just embrace the experience and enjoy it as a positive one instead of trying to analyze it. To use an example from a personal perspective, I've never analyzed the pleasure I experience from having my ass beaten until there is no place without a mark and a developing bruise. I just enjoy the ride and I don't think I've ever wondered why I enjoy it. And I don't wonder if others experience anything similar to what I do. Hey, if they do great. If they don't, oh well, too bad, so sad for them. But it isn't anything I need or want to know.

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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/23/2011 2:02:00 AM

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I suppose I also am still a bit taken aback by the intensity of things and again just wanted some insight into things.
Crystal...like I told you in your first thread...relax and enjoy the ride.

See? What Aprig said.Ack! You must stress out very easily.

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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/23/2011 3:05:47 PM

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It sounds like you hit sub space but you come so you're not going to go into shock or anything.lol it just sounds like you have an amazing sex life. Nothing wrong with that

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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/23/2011 5:35:16 PM

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I once had one hundred orgasms in an hour and my wiener hole fell off.

FUCK...give some warning please

fucking coffee everywhere

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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/23/2011 5:46:37 PM

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I have had orgasms that lasted for days. Shit, I had one that lasted from 1979 to 1981.

None of you are twue like me.

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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/23/2011 9:33:46 PM

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I once had one hundred orgasms in an hour and my wiener hole fell off.

FUCK...give some warning please

fucking coffee everywhere

I think the nick "domiguy" IS the warning.

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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/23/2011 9:38:28 PM

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I have had orgasms that lasted for days. Shit, I had one that lasted from 1979 to 1981.

None of you are twue like me.

pfft! im still coming

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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/24/2011 5:31:48 AM

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Ladies, ladies... thats not cuming... thats a heart beat. Please learn the difference.

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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/24/2011 5:57:42 AM

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Dont be dissin mah 2 year orgasms!

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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/24/2011 6:05:33 AM

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My Dom read my recently read my started thread http://www.collarchat.com/m_3606426/tm.htm. I explained to him that no seemed to be picking up on what I was trying to say. He seemed to get it and urged me to try again. Told me I was trying to be too complex and too short about something few get to genuinely experience. He told me to start with just the physical points in our relationship and see if anyone else out there has experienced it.

Yay for fantastic sex!
Are you sure there aren't any ulterior motives for you posting this more than once though?
Like, perhaps advertising for that third you have been mentioning for the past few months?
"My Dom is the shiznitz of all shiznitz! If he can do this to me, he can do it to you too"!
Continued good luck with that, and happy orgasms to you all.

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