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Rokobilli -> I need some help on the lifestyle (3/22/2011 10:34:45 PM)

I recently got into the lifestyle I am a Master I have my slave and we have been getting into it lately. I just need to get more information on the role of Master to slave. If there are any Masters out there that can lend some information on their experiences. I need to learn more on the lifestyle. My slave has been in the lifestyle for seven years already but me im just getting started in it. If anyone can share any information I would appreciate it.



IronBear -> RE: I need some help on the lifestyle (3/22/2011 10:41:21 PM)

Woooooowhooooooo  America's Most Wanted profile pic?????  Nothing to ass I'm pissing myself laughing too much........ 



peppermint -> RE: I need some help on the lifestyle (3/22/2011 11:01:44 PM)

One step at a time, grasshopper.  Become a dominant before you become a master.  That way you will know what you are doing. 



NihilusZero -> RE: I need some help on the lifestyle (3/22/2011 11:27:02 PM)

Internet facade. Adopt one while you do your homework in private (which only really involves getting to know yourself).

Honestly. Sadly, but honestly.

Best of luck.



NihilusZero -> RE: I need some help on the lifestyle (3/22/2011 11:29:14 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: IronBear

Most Wanted profile pic?????

Irony Meter v2.01™ broken.



DevilishEnvy -> RE: I need some help on the lifestyle (3/22/2011 11:54:20 PM)

If you hit up the search features on Masters, Dominants, and Mistresses, it will provide a wealth of information. I have my slave research and write a journal about our experiences so that I can see her view too. And while she does that, I study and study some more. But you have to know what you both want and you guys' ultimate goal. It will help provide insight into what you need to do.



kalikshama -> RE: I need some help on the lifestyle (3/23/2011 3:06:21 AM)


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ORIGINAL: peppermint

One step at a time, grasshopper.  Become a dominant before you become a master.  That way you will know what you are doing. 


This. Plus get you to Amazon: http://www.collarchat.com/m_1726118/tm.htm



IronBear -> RE: I need some help on the lifestyle (3/23/2011 5:38:08 AM)

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ORIGINAL: NihilusZero


quote:

ORIGINAL: IronBear

Most Wanted profile pic?????

Irony Meter v2.01™ broken.


Am I to suppose, Rob mate, you expect me to pay for a bloody Irony Meter v2.01™ broken, replacement??  Shit a brick ..... Out of curiosity, WTF are all those cones in your pic?? Not incense I suppose?



Kana -> RE: I need some help on the lifestyle (3/23/2011 6:30:03 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Rokobilli
I recently got into the lifestyle I am a Master I have my slave and we have been getting into it lately.


Lets start here. On cannot "get into it" with a slave. She obeys, or suffers the consequences. This is not a negotiation, it's certainly not a bartering session and it most definitely is not/will not be an argument.

A slave is a piece of property. Arguing with a slave makes as much sense as arguing with yoyur birdbath, and is about as useful too...



LadyPact -> RE: I need some help on the lifestyle (3/23/2011 7:02:41 AM)

OK.  You're a Master who needs us to tell you how to be one?  Does that really make sense to you?

Advice.  Read books on BDSM and M/s dynamics.  Check out the local BDSM groups in your area.  See if there is a chapter of MAsT (Masters And slaves Together).  Ask yourself if you lean towards any of the particular sub cultures of M/s dynamics (i.e. leather, gorean, protocol households).  Find folks who have been living this way for a significant amount of time and ask them how they run their households and their dynamics.  Ask your slave if she has any recommendations of people that you can learn from who has been successful.



divi -> RE: I need some help on the lifestyle (3/23/2011 7:07:50 AM)

I agree with IronBear.  You need a more hideous picture.  And you should get some new clothes.  Try Medieval.com.  Also get a sword !!!

Good luck !



OsideGirl -> RE: I need some help on the lifestyle (3/23/2011 7:22:10 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

OK.  You're a Master who needs us to tell you how to be one?  Does that really make sense to you?
Ding! Ding! Ding! We have a winner!



DaddyLongStroke -> RE: I need some help on the lifestyle (3/23/2011 7:23:35 AM)

Get some leather pants and a few collars from petco. 



domiguy -> RE: I need some help on the lifestyle (3/23/2011 7:30:06 AM)

Get a cape a sword and some fat chicks.



divi -> RE: I need some help on the lifestyle (3/23/2011 7:34:53 AM)

This Dom should go to that groovy seminar in May ... I forget the name



domiguy -> RE: I need some help on the lifestyle (3/23/2011 7:40:43 AM)

Ah yes, to really master one's self you must try to learn every facet and explore every nuance of your Domly being.

I highly recommend this douchinar to all of you fledgling Doms out there.



divi -> RE: I need some help on the lifestyle (3/23/2011 7:43:30 AM)

Thank you Domiguy!  You're one helpful Dominant.  If you go to that seminar please bring me back a t-shirt. 



sunshinemiss -> RE: I need some help on the lifestyle (3/23/2011 7:51:55 AM)

I don't know. It sounds like maybe you have a little hanky spanky happening? Maybe you are doing some submission and domination? Whatever works for you. Here's the dealio: Whatever works for you and your sweetheart. Just keep talking to the one your are getting into it with. Also, get involved with your local community and see what resonates for you.

Talk with your sweety. Be honest. If it feels good to both of you and doesn't harm anyone, go at it.

Since you are new, you may not even know what questions to ask! It wouldn't be the first time someone said, "hey this looks interesting... how do I... I mean what is... you know, how come..." Having an open mind / heart is a good place to start. See if you can get involved in some groups that might be teaching / practicing the stuff you dig. Google "BDSM" and your city.

Oh, and have fun!
sunshine



Kana -> RE: I need some help on the lifestyle (3/23/2011 8:04:46 AM)

Get the big yellow Domming For Dummies book



FukinTroll -> RE: I need some help on the lifestyle (3/23/2011 9:01:10 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Rokobilli

I recently got into the lifestyle I am a Master I have my slave and we have been getting into it lately. I just need to get more information on the role of Master to slave. If there are any Masters out there that can lend some information on their experiences. I need to learn more on the lifestyle. My slave has been in the lifestyle for seven years already but me im just getting started in it. If anyone can share any information I would appreciate it.



Start here:

http://www.collarchat.com/m_3583706/tm.htm

http://www.collarchat.com/m_3577792/tm.htm

http://www.collarchat.com/m_3601950/tm.htm

http://www.collarchat.com/m_3602330/tm.htm

http://www.collarchat.com/m_3585181/tm.htm

The Master label kinda shot you in the foot. You should look over some of this stuff and find the label that is right for you. No label is less than, honestly representing yourself is of the utmost importance.

YMMV

Slurp~




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