agirl
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ORIGINAL: leadership527 We just about can read each other's minds. Neither of us finds that in any way "stifling" or "fearful". We are both of the "more intimacy is better" mind set. This is where the * How it is for you isn't quite the same here*. The fact that I have this world of freedom that no-one can invade without invitation keeps me sane. I would truly NEVER be owned if THOUGHTS were just accessed. Oh, M could ask, he could press, but what would he gain? He'd get them, but they'd not be the ones he'd get if he could just hold on, wait for the moment. It'd be like me insisting he bare his thoughts before he'd processed them.... My god, I'm not even going to even pretend to imagine that I'd not be hurt by some of them! Maybe I'm just used to juggling people close to me, fielding savage thoughts that occur in the moment, the thoughts that are fine, sane and safe in my mind when I'm going through the * feelings and situation* process.....are NOT safe out there. I wouldn't want anyone else's savage un-processed thoughts and from where I sit...and no-one deserves mine. I am reluctant to embrace some aspects of *intimacy*. agirl
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