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RE: Question for Daddy Doms - 3/29/2011 8:03:26 PM

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Its "Role Playing". Nobody's head is being messed with. Sheesh!

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RE: Question for Daddy Doms - 3/29/2011 8:28:08 PM

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left your dirty clothes on the floor
didn't do your "homework"
talked back
didn't brush your hair before you went out
didn't put away the dishes/left dishes dirty/whatever
didn't push in your chair
your nails look terrible
you couldn't walk across the room with that book still on your head (yes, my mother made me do that)
your left your toys out

there.

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RE: Question for Daddy Doms - 3/29/2011 10:17:55 PM

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That whole daddy/daughter stuff reeks of Texas.

Let me guess. Daddy-O is out?

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RE: Question for Daddy Doms - 3/29/2011 10:30:02 PM

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How does a little girl be both good and pleasing, yet 'earn' their punishment?

Greetings,

What you're asking isn't difficult. But it should be custom defined and in most cases there will be some measure of shifting as you familiarize yourselves with that manner of relating. my experiences didn't involve a role play aspect, but a full lifestyle that i lived out on a daily basis with the other person. As such, i'm going to share a resource that should prove helpful for you both. i also suggest that you get plugged in to the groups on Fetlife. There are many and they approach the subject from many angles.

Little Girl Lost: This was by far the best site on the subject bar none. You have to access it and save it through that url because the site is offline. But you can still see it all.

Negotiation Form: I'm not sure if this can be accessed from the url above, but i'm providing a copy just in case. It is very comprehensive and will cover a gamut of possibilities that should prove useful in your interaction.

Best of luck.

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RE: Question for Daddy Doms - 3/30/2011 7:34:34 PM

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How does a little girl be both good and pleasing, yet 'earn' their punishment?

I have NO idea why you're getting some of the responses you are, particularly when you've made it clear this will be role playing fun for you. However, you do have a misconception in thinking the "BDSM community" is all-embracing. Trust me, it isn't.

My M/s relationship with my owner is also Daddy/little girl. We don't really do the role playing funishment, but sometimes when we're enjoying each other (sex, "bdsm play", etc.) I'll pretend I'm going to touch myself (not allowed) and grin at him playfully. He knows I'm goofing around and he'll "correct" me. Or I'll start chomping my teeth like I'm going to intentionally bite him (I have a biting thing, lol). So it's not like we set out to role play, but sometimes that kind of toying with each other just happens through the course of things.

The key is to enjoy yourselves. There are an infinite number of flavors out there and you don't have to limit yourself to just one. Experiment with each other, keep what works and toss out what doesn't.

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RE: Question for Daddy Doms - 3/30/2011 8:43:51 PM

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I have NO idea why you're getting some of the responses you are, particularly when you've made it clear this will be role playing fun for you.

Because some people onn here take themselves and what they do far too seriously.

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The key is to enjoy yourselves. There are an infinite number of flavors out there and you don't have to limit yourself to just one. Experiment with each other, keep what works and toss out what doesn't.

quoted to reemphasize it.

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RE: Question for Daddy Doms - 4/3/2011 10:23:29 AM

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There is a lot of interesting comment here. There seem to be a number of people who think that two adults playing father and daughter should be doing this as if the girl was his real daughter. It is obviously NOT the case. That being so various questions arise, the most important being why do the couple wish to base their relationship on such a premise.
I suspect that the girl is looking for a certain level of care, love, attention. This will involve hugs, praise, encouragement. She is probably also looking for rules and control - such as bed times, being given food instead of cooking it, having to tidy her room, control on what she wears, maybe even told when to come in for the evening or to have a bath.
The man is probably looking to control and care for a girl (I do), less physical violence in this relationship than in most dom/sub scenarios, but still a caring and controling role.
The end result of this is probably that the girl will misbehave - not come in, not have her room tidy, fail to do school work, throw a tantrum when told to change or go to bed. Of course this has to be punished, and the punishment should fit with the agreed desires of the situation. I find that many girls enjoy a spanking, not some great massive scene with a huge number of hard swats, probably not the cane or belt, but enough to make the bum red. Some enjoy corner time, naughty stairs and other similar things.
Other things you might find going on include bedtime stories, sitting on daddies knee during a scary film, daddy helping with the bath (depends on daughters 'age'), in some cases even the use of nappies on the girl.

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RE: Question for Daddy Doms - 4/3/2011 12:52:09 PM

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I've come up with some basic protocol breaches, such as forgetting to call him Daddy, forgetting to say please and thankyou. The only things I can think of rely on a lapse in memory, and as I found brattiness in a submissive unattractive, I can't forsee myself deliberately misbehaving to get attention.

How does a little girl be both good and pleasing, yet 'earn' their punishment?

This is the crux of your situation. Just because YOU find "brattiness in a submissive unattractive" does not mean he does. If you are roleplaying, that involves acting. Are you unable to pretend you are sassy?

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RE: Question for Daddy Doms - 4/5/2011 11:10:05 PM

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That whole daddy/daughter stuff reeks of Texas.

Good Sir, You have given grave insult to The Great State Of Texas. You can expect Chuck Norris to visit you soon an re-educate you on proper manners.

As to the dynamic of the original poster. Don't sweat the details. Have him step out of character for a bit and just tell him what you want and then ask him what he wants to do to you.

Once you both have that clear, move on and have fun.

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RE: Question for Daddy Doms - 4/5/2011 11:28:31 PM

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one of the first tasks he has set me is to write a list of behaviours that deserve punishment, and then of course to write a punishment that fits the infraction.

Do it backwards. Google a BDSM checklist and write down anything that makes you blush, flush or speaks to nether regional body parts. :D Those can be the *punishments*. Once you have a list of punishments, then find a *crime* that is appropriate for them. For example.. you will find the word *gag* on most BDSM checklists. An appropriate crime for that punishment would be talking too much or talking during his favorite tv show. If you run across terms which you don't know, just google them and if they make you go.. "hmm.. ok, sounds hot!" write those down. If they cause ya to squick, leave them off. He can always add the stuff He desires at a later time as you both feel comfortable moving forward.

Don't forget to have some fun! Makes it all worth while. :D

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RE: Question for Daddy Doms - 4/6/2011 1:28:58 AM

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That whole daddy/daughter stuff reeks of Texas.

Good Sir, You have given grave insult to The Great State Of Texas. You can expect Chuck Norris to visit you soon an re-educate you on proper manners.

Hello everyone, as you can see there has been a full day of silence by my end and that is because I have taken a plane to beautiful Korea! I am in a bunker surrounded by ten of the most trained and deadliest Korean warriors, skilled in martial arts and gun! To my right is an emergncy hatch which accomodates my size, and only my size, and will launch me into an underground helicopter which will open up somewhere in Greece to fly me to safety should anything go wrong!

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RE: Question for Daddy Doms - 4/6/2011 1:46:40 AM

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Not a 'daddy'... however here's a list I just invented:

Spilling drinks
Dropping sweets in the toilet
Drinking out of a toilet
Wearing daddys shoes
Pissing in the wrong room or outdoors
Tantrums
Crying
Laughing
Getting drunk
Disrupting daddys work
Paint on daddys shoes
Buying too many toys
Watching too many BDSM videos
Wearing daddys clothes
Refusing to change diapers
Refusing to take a bath
Too much make up
Attempting to run away from home
Not sharing with daddy
Doing grown up things such as masturbating
Swearing
Refusing to sit in the naughty corner
Hyper activity
Losing your doll
Refusing to eat vegetables
Talking to strangers

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RE: Question for Daddy Doms - 4/6/2011 2:51:15 AM

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That whole daddy/daughter stuff reeks of Texas.

Good Sir, You have given grave insult to The Great State Of Texas. You can expect Chuck Norris to visit you soon an re-educate you on proper manners.

Hello everyone, as you can see there has been a full day of silence by my end and that is because I have taken a plane to beautiful Korea! I am in a bunker surrounded by ten of the most trained and deadliest Korean warriors, skilled in martial arts and gun! To my right is an emergncy hatch which accomodates my size, and only my size, and will launch me into an underground helicopter which will open up somewhere in Greece to fly me to safety should anything go wrong!

I can't believe you came to Korea and didn't contact me. And by the way, where in heck is there a BUNKER in Korea?

*goes away grumbling about being infrickingvisible ...

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RE: Question for Daddy Doms - 4/6/2011 10:27:48 AM

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If you are role playing, then think on your feet. Greet him at the door by rolling your eyes and saying something like, "I got kicked out of college again. I know you said that if I got kicked out one more time I was in big trouble. It's not MY fault that dumb professor doesn't have a sense of humor. I thought it was funny to paint his car neon yellow." or as soon as he opens his mouth say "No, whatever it is, just no. I'm not doing it, you can't make me." When he sits down to watch tv, snatch up the remote before he can get it and proclaim, "Sorry, I am watching a 24/7 marathon of Animal Planet in here. Go use the other TV."

He'll get the hint that you are in need of a spanking, but I don't suggest any of the above unless he has a sense of humor.

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RE: Question for Daddy Doms - 4/6/2011 3:23:50 PM

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Crimes: Masturbation, flashing, stomping feet, pouting, sucking thumb, saying no, answering back, ect.

Funishment:

Having your panties pulled down and your bra pushed below your boobs, being fingered with clamps on your nipples and not allowed to orgasm.
Having your clothes stripped off you roughly
Having your feet bound with a short chain so you cannot stomp.
Putting a clothspin on your lips
gagging you with something other than your thumb
slapped lightly and being made to crawl to apologize
Spanking, having panties pulled down and swatted with a toy, then being made to stand in the corner with your face to the wall.

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RE: Question for Daddy Doms - 4/6/2011 3:30:04 PM

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